“Do not tell a friend what your enemy ought not to know.” • “Regard all personal affairs as secrets and remain complete strangers, even to our close friends…. with changed circumstances their knowledge of the most harmless things about us may be to our disadvantage.” • “Giving way neither to love nor to hate is one half of world wisdom: to say nothing and believe nothing, the other half.” • “Distrust is the mother of safety” (a French proverb, cited approvingly). • “To forget at any time the bad traits of a man’s character is like throwing away hard-earned money. We must protect ourselves from foolish familiarity and foolish friendship.” • “The only way to attain superiority in dealing with men is to let it be seen you are independent of them.” • “To disregard is to win regard.” • “If we really think highly of a person we should conceal it from him like a crime.” • “Better to let men be what they are than to take them for what they are not.” • “We must never show anger and hatred except in our actions…. it is only the cold-blooded animals that are poisonous.” • “By being polite and friendly, you can make people pliable and obliging: hence politeness is to human nature what warmth is to wax.”
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mark，总结的太好了！
不同意，每天进步一点点是乐趣所在。对自己要求不高，但是要是彻底放弃活的没啥意思了。
这条也不错，很多当时觉得天大的事十年二十年回头去看都微不足道了。生死之外无大事。
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我为人人，人人为我。 与人方便，自己方便。
人类社会的本质：人吃人
灵光一闪的自信，就一定会成功。我自己碰到很多次
最近一次是打保龄球，老是把靠左边球打倒，就剩最右边一个，非常难打 突然心血来潮觉得用左手打最右边的球，整个过程一气呵成，像吸铁石相吸一样
之后学李广再试，再也没有第二次成功
Seriously?
庸人自扰之，凡事看淡。任何时候都要学会独立。尽量远离人品不正的
在你面前卖惨的人，尽己所能，帮一次，之后能离多远离多远。
这个最实际，赞一个。
年轻脑力体力好且无累赘的时候，懒惰躺平只会猫家打游戏是最蠢的。即便不工作四处游历也好过死宅吃喝游戏等死。
如果不幸陷在一段有毒的关系里，再遍体鳞伤艰难痛苦，也要自己勇敢得快快走出来。
能展开说说吗？
对头，话糙理不糙啊
怎么讲
深刻！
对！
香港男/ 广东男 都很花心。 我不排除其他地方的男的不花心。
这两句能否解释一下？谢谢
mark
所以要和喜欢的人在一起
你没事吧？需要看医生吗
“Do not tell a friend what your enemy ought not to know.”
• “Regard all personal affairs as secrets and remain complete strangers, even to our close friends…. with changed circumstances their knowledge of the most harmless things about us may be to our disadvantage.”
• “Giving way neither to love nor to hate is one half of world wisdom: to say nothing and believe nothing, the other half.”
• “Distrust is the mother of safety” (a French proverb, cited approvingly).
• “To forget at any time the bad traits of a man’s character is like throwing away hard-earned money. We must protect ourselves from foolish familiarity and foolish friendship.”
• “The only way to attain superiority in dealing with men is to let it be seen you are independent of them.”
• “To disregard is to win regard.”
• “If we really think highly of a person we should conceal it from him like a crime.”
• “Better to let men be what they are than to take them for what they are not.”
• “We must never show anger and hatred except in our actions…. it is only the cold-blooded animals that are poisonous.”
• “By being polite and friendly, you can make people pliable and obliging: hence politeness is to human nature what warmth is to wax.”
啊？哎
不是男人。绝大部分人都是这样。
女人如果真讲感情，会有这么多top2的失业后自杀了。
过来人和我说，男人只要事业和家庭还有一个能在都不会自杀的。
这个不懂
不要比来比去，各种参考，没用的。走自己的心即可
这样家里就有香港脚了啊，多好
做人，做事，学东西不要怕慢下来。年龄越大，越感觉很多事情都是心急吃不了热豆腐。慢下来反而更容易接近目标
赞
？？？Are you serious?
网友们写得都挺实在，我喜欢这位层主的，尤其是第二条：人的幸福感来源于和周围人的关系，所以平时里要好好经营各种关系，包括夫妻关系，亲子关系，家人关系，朋友关系等等。遇到冲突尽量情绪稳定理智处理，放手不能控制的。
这个是为啥？
给力
别理那个疯男。
尤其要小心那种你让她进入你的核心社交圈但她没让你进入她的核心社交圈的人。
那种就是口蜜腹剑，利用你的人。