所以中西方文化都强调人应该谦卑，就像这首歌里唱的：Always be humble and kind. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awzNHuGqoMc Tim McGraw - Humble And Kind 其实，当然可以feel good，只是咱feel good时的表现方式最好以不伤害他人的情感为准。这一点很难把握这个度。在现在万物互联的世界里，很难做到完全不受他人的影响。我觉得一家老小都健健康康的，就很好。
是啊，你一定也记得这本书的开头一句："Life is difficult. " 一定程度上也可以说佛学的 四圣谛 苦集灭道 是其底色，不过都是见仁见智。 "Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult - once we truly understand and accept it - then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters." https://www.pbs.org/edens/thailand/buddhism.htm#:~:text=They%20are%20the%20truth%20of,to%20bring%20about%20its%20end. 看看作者的信仰背景也蛮有意思的： “ Morgan Scott Peck (1936–2005) was an American psychiatrist and best-selling author who wrote the book The Road Less Traveled 少有人走的路, published in 1978. Peck''s works combined his experiences from his private psychiatric practice with a distinctly religious point of view. In his second book, People of the Lie, he wrote, "After many years of vague identification with Buddhist and Islamic mysticism, I ultimately made a firm Christian commitment – signified by my non-denominational baptism on the ninth of March 1980..." (Peck, 1983/1988,[8] p11). One of his views was that people who are evil attack others rather than face their own failures. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/M._Scott_Peck#:~:text=In%20his%20second%20book%2C%20People,1983%2F1988%2C%20p11).
是啊，你一定也记得这本书的开头一句："Life is difficult. " 一定程度上也可以说佛学的 四圣谛 苦集灭道 是其底色，不过都是见仁见智。 "Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult - once we truly understand and accept it - then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters." https://www.pbs.org/edens/thailand/buddhism.htm#:~:text=They%20are%20the%20truth%20of,to%20bring%20about%20its%20end. 看看作者的信仰背景也蛮有意思的： “ Morgan Scott Peck (1936–2005) was an American psychiatrist and best-selling author who wrote the book The Road Less Traveled 少有人走的路, published in 1978. Peck''s works combined his experiences from his private psychiatric practice with a distinctly religious point of view. In his second book, People of the Lie, he wrote, "After many years of vague identification with Buddhist and Islamic mysticism, I ultimately made a firm Christian commitment – signified by my non-denominational baptism on the ninth of March 1980..." (Peck, 1983/1988,[8] p11). One of his views was that people who are evil attack others rather than face their own failures. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/M._Scott_Peck#:~:text=In%20his%20second%20book%2C%20People,1983%2F1988%2C%20p11). 学谦为小家 发表于 2023-10-09 13:39
哈哈哈怪不得等孩子大学都离婚有点道理
总有人不bso就难受
哈哈，我以前也这样，然后上了华人，发现离贫困线十万八千，孩子不是全a，没有竞赛，家里房子没有5m，没有十几个投资房，6M都不能退休而我6m的一半都木有，然后就emo了
那你要LZ别用疑问句。直接写命苦的来集合。
看来心烦都是跟性格有关。爱攀比的肯定心烦。你这种脑回路也肯定心烦。
TNND,老天给我自省的机会太多了
所以中西方文化都强调人应该谦卑，就像这首歌里唱的：Always be humble and kind. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awzNHuGqoMc Tim McGraw - Humble And Kind
其实，当然可以feel good，只是咱feel good时的表现方式最好以不伤害他人的情感为准。这一点很难把握这个度。在现在万物互联的世界里，很难做到完全不受他人的影响。我觉得一家老小都健健康康的，就很好。
能意识到这一点很棒。
是的。
是啊，你一定也记得这本书的开头一句："Life is difficult. " 一定程度上也可以说佛学的 四圣谛 苦集灭道 是其底色，不过都是见仁见智。
"Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great truth because once we truly see this truth, we transcend it. Once we truly know that life is difficult - once we truly understand and accept it - then life is no longer difficult. Because once it is accepted, the fact that life is difficult no longer matters."
https://www.pbs.org/edens/thailand/buddhism.htm#:~:text=They%20are%20the%20truth%20of,to%20bring%20about%20its%20end.
看看作者的信仰背景也蛮有意思的：
“ Morgan Scott Peck (1936–2005) was an American psychiatrist and best-selling author who wrote the book The Road Less Traveled 少有人走的路, published in 1978. Peck''s works combined his experiences from his private psychiatric practice with a distinctly religious point of view. In his second book, People of the Lie, he wrote, "After many years of vague identification with Buddhist and Islamic mysticism, I ultimately made a firm Christian commitment – signified by my non-denominational baptism on the ninth of March 1980..." (Peck, 1983/1988,[8] p11). One of his views was that people who are evil attack others rather than face their own failures.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/M._Scott_Peck#:~:text=In%20his%20second%20book%2C%20People,1983%2F1988%2C%20p11).
感谢分享
人生就是起起落落落落落落落落落落。。。
咱两差不多， 我是娃刚骨折好了， 开始撞车， 全责， 撞的还是朋友的车， 然后房子漏水， gas leak， 房顶该换了， you name it!我八月刚想着今年赚的不错， 可以把好几个草拔一下啊， 然后这就直转直下了， 不知道什么时候到波谷了 。。。。。
半瓶水的原理用起来，我来重新造句这样看一下你会不会更爽一些： 房子出了问题走在不知如何是好，还好涨了二万工资让你把房子给修了，爽啊着修好的房子，生活无限美好。 同样的问题，换一个欢快的角度看，这样的喜事会接二连三
＂痛快＂该怎么理解😀
一直都是烦心事，就没有feel good的时候啊
精辟！
我也是这么安慰自己的，不然老觉得普通人来这世上就是受苦的
正常啊，但是我都跟你反着来，每当遇到troubles时，我就觉得一定有good thing在其它地方等着我 （life is balance…
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