智商和情商都得有啊。如果只能选一样，我宁愿孩子情商高，智商一般。因为人是社会动物。但是这两个都没有Spiritual intelligence 重要。 Definitions of spiritual intelligence rely on the concept of spirituality as being distinct from religiosity - existential intelligence.[12] Danah Zohar defined 12 principles underlying spiritual intelligence:[13] Self-awareness: Knowing what I believe in and value, and what deeply motivates me. Spontaneity: Living in and being responsive to the moment. Being vision- and value-led: Acting from principles and deep beliefs, and living accordingly. Holism: Seeing larger patterns, relationships, and connections; having a sense of belonging. Compassion: Having the quality of "feeling-with" and deep empathy. Celebration of diversity: Valuing other people for their differences, not despite them. Field independence: Standing against the crowd and having one''s own convictions. Humility: Having the sense of being a player in a larger drama, of one''s true place in the world. Tendency to ask fundamental "Why?" questions: Needing to understand things and get to the bottom of them. Ability to reframe: Standing back from a situation or problem and seeing the bigger picture or wider context. Positive use of adversity: Learning and growing from mistakes, setbacks, and suffering. Sense of vocation: Feeling called upon to serve, to give something back. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiritual_intelligence
一部分是天生性格 一部分是父母言传身教 两样至少得占一样吧
Definitions of spiritual intelligence rely on the concept of spirituality as being distinct from religiosity - existential intelligence.[12] Danah Zohar defined 12 principles underlying spiritual intelligence:[13] Self-awareness: Knowing what I believe in and value, and what deeply motivates me. Spontaneity: Living in and being responsive to the moment. Being vision- and value-led: Acting from principles and deep beliefs, and living accordingly. Holism: Seeing larger patterns, relationships, and connections; having a sense of belonging. Compassion: Having the quality of "feeling-with" and deep empathy. Celebration of diversity: Valuing other people for their differences, not despite them. Field independence: Standing against the crowd and having one''s own convictions. Humility: Having the sense of being a player in a larger drama, of one''s true place in the world. Tendency to ask fundamental "Why?" questions: Needing to understand things and get to the bottom of them. Ability to reframe: Standing back from a situation or problem and seeing the bigger picture or wider context. Positive use of adversity: Learning and growing from mistakes, setbacks, and suffering. Sense of vocation: Feeling called upon to serve, to give something back.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiritual_intelligence
情商高的都是聪明人，只不过人家擅长的没法打分量化而已
是的。
反之则不然。 遇到过好多高智商低情商的人， 昨天遇到一个， 其中有大概3分钟的独处时间， 我的天呐，是我人生中最漫长的三分钟。 吓死我了。
谁说不希望孩子情商高了？我宁愿孩子情商高些，生活快乐些，朋友融洽些。我儿子就是人缘好，到哪里都很快交朋友那种。从K开始换了五六所学校，从来不担心他交朋友的问题。而且各个种族，各种背景都能交到好朋友，老师，家长也喜欢的那种。虽然学习没那么拔尖，但是我也挺知足的。
好奇猫想知道发生什么了
善良真诚同理心，让自己有趣些