今天早上刷微信短视频时，看到了芒格关于人性方面的访谈节选： https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72t7oapvbas 0:33--1:13 “It’s not my nature … when you get little surprises as a result of human nature … to spend much time feeling betrayed. I always want to put my head down and adjust. I don’t allow myself to spend much time ever with any feelings of betrayal. If some flickering idea like that came to me, I’d get rid of it quickly. I don’t like any feeling of being victimized. I think that’s a counterproductive way to think as a human being. I am not a victim. I am a survivor.” 然后我想到了《沉思录》的这一段话： “每日清晨对你自己说：我将要遇到好管闲事的人、忘恩负义的人、狂妄无礼的人、欺骗的人、嫉妒的人、孤傲的人。他们所以如此，乃是因为他们不能分辨善与恶。但是我，只因我已了悟那美丽的“善”的性质，那丑陋的“恶”的性质，那和我很接近的行恶者本身的性质——他不仅与我在血统上同一来源，而且具有同样的理性与神圣的本质，所以我既不会受他们任何一个的伤害（因为没人能把我拖累到堕落里去），亦不会对我的同胞发怒而恨他；我们生来是为合作的，如双足、两手、上下眼皮、上下排的牙齿。所以彼此冲突乃是违反自然的，表示反感和厌恶便是冲突。“ 《沉思录》--马可奥勒留 https://www.qidian.com/chapter/1016797119/504139154/ "Begin the morning by saying to thyself, I shall meet with the busy-body, the ungrateful, arrogant, deceitful, envious, unsocial. All these things happen to them by reason of their ignorance of what is good and evil. But I who have seen the nature of the good that it is beautiful, and of the bad that it is ugly, and the nature of him who does wrong, that it is akin to me, not only of the same blood or seed, but that it participates in the same intelligence and the same portion of the divinity, I can neither be injured by any of them, for no one can fix on me what is ugly, nor can I be angry with my kinsman, nor hate him, For we are made for co-operation, like feet, like hands, like eyelids, like the rows of the upper and lower teeth. To act against one another then is contrary to nature; and it is acting against one another to be vexed and to turn away." ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations http://classics.mit.edu/Antoninus/meditations.2.two.html ****** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQkYIaJ4i7A Buffett on Sokol: ''I''m angry'' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72t7oapvbas Munger on Sokol: ''I''m sad''
“It’s not my nature … when you get little surprises as a result of human nature … to spend much time feeling betrayed. I always want to put my head down and adjust. I don’t allow myself to spend much time ever with any feelings of betrayal. If some flickering idea like that came to me, I’d get rid of it quickly. I don’t like any feeling of being victimized. I think that’s a counterproductive way to think as a human being. I am not a victim. I am a survivor.”
然后我想到了《沉思录》的这一段话：
“每日清晨对你自己说：我将要遇到好管闲事的人、忘恩负义的人、狂妄无礼的人、欺骗的人、嫉妒的人、孤傲的人。他们所以如此，乃是因为他们不能分辨善与恶。但是我，只因我已了悟那美丽的“善”的性质，那丑陋的“恶”的性质，那和我很接近的行恶者本身的性质——他不仅与我在血统上同一来源，而且具有同样的理性与神圣的本质，所以我既不会受他们任何一个的伤害（因为没人能把我拖累到堕落里去），亦不会对我的同胞发怒而恨他；我们生来是为合作的，如双足、两手、上下眼皮、上下排的牙齿。所以彼此冲突乃是违反自然的，表示反感和厌恶便是冲突。“
《沉思录》--马可奥勒留 https://www.qidian.com/chapter/1016797119/504139154/
"Begin the morning by saying to thyself, I shall meet with the busy-body, the ungrateful, arrogant, deceitful, envious, unsocial. All these things happen to them by reason of their ignorance of what is good and evil. But I who have seen the nature of the good that it is beautiful, and of the bad that it is ugly, and the nature of him who does wrong, that it is akin to me, not only of the same blood or seed, but that it participates in the same intelligence and the same portion of the divinity, I can neither be injured by any of them, for no one can fix on me what is ugly, nor can I be angry with my kinsman, nor hate him, For we are made for co-operation, like feet, like hands, like eyelids, like the rows of the upper and lower teeth. To act against one another then is contrary to nature; and it is acting against one another to be vexed and to turn away." ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations http://classics.mit.edu/Antoninus/meditations.2.two.html ******
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQkYIaJ4i7A Buffett on Sokol: ''I''m angry''
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72t7oapvbas Munger on Sokol: ''I''m sad''
今天早晨刷到一个短视频说，原来受不了妈妈的各种唠叨和抱怨。后来换了一种态度，每当妈妈怨气冲天时就给妈妈一个拥抱。结果是妈妈慢慢变得温和了，因为妈妈的初心是爱，只是不会表达。。。
还刷到了这个视频：
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfBw6qd9mCU 林志玲淚訴「媽媽認不得我」