美国老太给女儿看娃,看死了两个

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chatchat
楼主 (北美华人网)
Florida grandmother charged in hot car death of granddaughter, less than a year after grandson drowned while in her care Story by Minyvonne Burke • 2h ago

A Florida woman is demanding prison time for her own mother after her two young children died less than a year apart while allegedly in their grandmother’s care, one in a hot car death and the other in an accidental drowning. The grandmother, 65-year-old Tracey Nix, was arrested and charged in November 2022 with aggravated manslaughter and leaving a child unsupervised in a motor vehicle, court records show. The charges are in connection with the Nov. 1, 2022 death of 7-month-old Uriel Schock. Authorities said Nix left Uriel in her vehicle outside her Wauchula home for several hours after returning from lunch. Nix said she “forgot” the child was in the car, according to the court documents. “How do you forget a little girl,” Uriel’s father, Drew Schock, said in a tearful interview this week with local station WFTS.
Nix told authorities that her daughter, Kaila Schock, asked her to watch Uriel while she was at a hair appointment, the documents state. Nix said she went to a friend’s house that morning and then left to pick up Uriel. She then drove to a restaurant for lunch with her friends, according to the documents. They left the restaurant around 1:40 p.m. Security footage showed Nix put her granddaughter in a rear car seat and drive away, authorities said in the documents. Nix said she drove about 10 minutes to her home, parked the car and went inside to talk to her dog and practice the piano.

She told the Hardee County Sheriff’s Office that it was not like “I was rushing in the house to do anything ... I just forgot,” according to the documents. The court filing says that Nix was waiting for her older grandson to arrive so they could go out to dinner. After 4:30 p.m., she took two cups of tea out to her vehicle for her and her grandson and then drove the vehicle to her backyard. Authorities said Nix’s husband was in the backyard and the two talked for about 10 minutes, the documents state. When the grandson arrived, Nix said all of a sudden it “came across her head” that Uriel was still in the car, the documents state. Nix’s husband immediately pulled the baby out and began CPR while someone called 911. Uriel was pronounced dead at the scene. The sheriff’s office said temperatures that day in Wauchula reached 90 degrees. An autopsy showed no signs of injuries. Her death was ruled a homicide. Drew Schock told WFTS that he remembers being in the parking lot outside the hospital “trying to grasp what just happened. And that it actually ... just happened twice in our lifetime.” In December 2021, the couple’s 16-month-old son Ezra died, also while in Nix’s care. Court records state that Nix was babysitting the little boy when she fell asleep. The child wandered outside and drowned in a pond near her home. She was not charged in the incident. Kaila told the news station that she was six months pregnant with Uriel at the time her son died. The couple also has an older child. She said she initially did not trust her mother to watch her children after Ezra’s death but believed in second chances. “We were anxious, but I loved my mother. And I am a daughter that wanted her mom,” she said through tears. “When I was told that Ezra’s death was an accident, some sliver child part of me thought, ‘OK. Good, I get to keep this mom, this grandmother.’” Kaila said she knew her mother was taking Uriel to lunch with her friends. Hours later, a sheriff’s deputy came to Kaila’s house and delivered the heartbreaking news. “Two children now who are no longer here,” Drew said. “Somebody has to answer for that.” “She needs to go to prison,” Kaila told the news station. “As her daughter, it kills me to say it. As their mother, I demand it.” Authorities said Nix’s negligence resulted in the death of both children. Her attorney did not immediately respond to a request for comment. A pretrial hearing is set for May 2, court records show. This story originally appeared on NBCNews.com. This article was originally published on TODAY.com
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NewBeing
This is too sad. 我以后坚决不帮我娃看孩子。我现在就记性不好了,以后会更差,大概率会忘记车里还有个宝宝。
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berlin
老人单独带娃不行的,但是老人和保姆搭配的话还行,可以互相监督。
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feifeiduan
一家子糊涂蛋啊……
这老太太的老公也在家,没人想到今天应该多个小孩儿吗???
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shoeholic
这对夫妻,死了一个还不接受教训,接着让老娘看婴儿。做头发很重要么?那么重要就让自己老公看孩子啊
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winter_season
老人单独带娃不行
小猫甲
这也太惨了,大无语系列
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NewBeing
一家子糊涂蛋啊……
这老太太的老公也在家,没人想到今天应该多个小孩儿吗???
feifeiduan 发表于 2023-04-01 20:52

闺女压根没跟老头儿打招呼,说今天让她妈妈接孩子了,老头儿根本不知道啊。
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qqfen
这家大人都不靠谱啊,包括小孩的妈妈。
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beihun
老人开车也危险
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pqrs
这家大人都不靠谱啊,包括小孩的妈妈。
qqfen 发表于 2023-04-01 21:09

儿子16个月的时候已经怀女儿6个月了,咋带得过来啊……
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Sweetbitter
板上还有那么多人怪婆婆不帮忙带娃的应该看看这个,我特别不能理解为什么要老人看娃。有的年轻一点的老人也许可以有精力和耐心看娃,但是不是每人都可以的。
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Ruth
第一个没想到,第二个不应该再信任啊,即使需要帮忙,不时拨个电话问一下也好多了。
用户需知
父母心真大
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frankingcn2
这就算不带娃也糊涂了吧心也太大了!我们小区两家都是白人老太太老头孙女跟着他们一起,早晨送去上学,利利索索的。这也分人吧,不靠谱的人老了而已。
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arabdopsis
这明显是这对年轻父母自己的错啊 死了一个还不吸取教训
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xiyame
我婆婆60多,蛮靠谱的,但是我仍然不会让她帮着看娃,因为我不相信60多人的体力和反应力。
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Candycapsule
看了她的行程我还真的相信她是忘了,故意的话不会这么从容。估计很久没带娃突然改变,年纪又大确实可能忘掉
失去耐心了
年轻爸妈的错。感觉这个老太太比较冤,年龄大了记不住,出过一个事儿,咋还让小孩跟着grandma,也不打电话check。
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天呐
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tuer
This is too sad. 我以后坚决不帮我娃看孩子。我现在就记性不好了,以后会更差,大概率会忘记车里还有个宝宝。
NewBeing 发表于 2023-04-01 20:46

65岁根本不老
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maggiejune
想起国内某小区夫妻俩外出旅行,小娃给家里老人照看。晚饭后小娃睡着了于是老俩口下楼散步,结果小娃醒了发现家里没人,打开窗户从高层直接掉下来了。特别惨
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maggiejune
65岁根本不老
tuer 发表于 2023-04-01 23:27

根据身边人观察,有人65依然身强体健,有人65就体力记忆力各方面都退化严重了。
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5littlemonkeys
看了她的行程我还真的相信她是忘了,故意的话不会这么从容。估计很久没带娃突然改变,年纪又大确实可能忘掉
Candycapsule 发表于 2023-04-01 22:38

把孩子忘车上的很多都是因为当天schedule不是日常schedule。比如平时都是妈妈送娃去学校,临时改成爸爸送结果爸爸把车开到公司就下车这种。
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Candycapsule
把孩子忘车上的很多都是因为当天schedule不是日常schedule。比如平时都是妈妈送娃去学校,临时改成爸爸送结果爸爸把车开到公司就下车这种。

5littlemonkeys 发表于 2023-04-01 23:41

对啊就是平时不看娃,突然要看娃所以忘了有个娃啊 跟朋友吃饭估计都是早就约好的
馋鱼夜炖桃
这对小夫妻吃相也难看,免费的babysitter 不舍得不用,已经死了一个孩子居然还没接受教训
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complicated
一家子不靠谱
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rubysiam
板上还有那么多人怪婆婆不帮忙带娃的应该看看这个,我特别不能理解为什么要老人看娃。有的年轻一点的老人也许可以有精力和耐心看娃,但是不是每人都可以的。
Sweetbitter 发表于 2023-04-01 21:16

我不仅不要求老人看娃,我也一点不羡慕老人来看孩子的夫妻。
决定生的时候就想好了自己养,我觉得挺好的。
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fucka
我不仅不要求老人看娃,我也一点不羡慕老人来看孩子的夫妻。
决定生的时候就想好了自己养,我觉得挺好的。
rubysiam 发表于 2023-04-02 09:57

是的 自己养的最亲 说三岁以前不记事都是搞笑 可能不记得具体的事 但是和妈妈的亲密感一点记得牢牢的
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rubysiam
是的 自己养的最亲 说三岁以前不记事都是搞笑 可能不记得具体的事 但是和妈妈的亲密感一点记得牢牢的
fucka 发表于 2023-04-02 10:06

对,最近参加娃同学的生日派对,一个妈妈comment 我家孩子和爸爸妈妈很亲。能不亲吗?出生就没有离开过爸爸妈妈的身边:-)
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chatchat
其实还有一个教训就是要学会说No。 老太是被女儿要求帮忙,又不是开店赚钱。 结果年纪大了出了问题,女儿还非要她坐牢。如果她自私不肯帮忙倒是不会有这些麻烦了。
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tobbyshark
我记得国内也有这么个事儿,找奶奶过来看娃,头一个娃淹死了,第二个娃车祸死了,奶奶都是因为在打牌/看打牌。我当时觉得这儿媳妇也真是大度。死第一个的时候,一般人不都得离婚断交啊。
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oniongoat
我婆婆看自己孩子时孩子都掉池塘里,我是不想让她靠近我孩子。有次她说让孩子到小pool里玩会儿,我老公直接怼她会出危险的。就这么个人,还抱怨孩子和她不亲
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Confuse
这个混蛋女儿凭什么让妈妈坐牢啊?坐牢是因为对他人有危胁,她妈妈对别人一点威胁也没有。至于惩罚,该罚这对夫妻吧。妈妈这种情况还强迫妈妈看孩子。
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babolucia
这做妈的太不要脸太不负责了
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aprilm
这个女儿心也太大了吧,第一个孩子已经失去了, 第二个还不小心一点。做头发还是可以打电话check的,或者叫自己老公,爸爸帮忙check也可以,本可以避免的悲剧。
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baobao557
这对夫妻,死了一个还不接受教训,接着让老娘看婴儿。做头发很重要么?那么重要就让自己老公看孩子啊
shoeholic 发表于 2023-04-01 20:54

是的,美国女人就是这样,做头发做指甲比天还大。孩子也不管,工作也不顾,做头发做指甲排第一位。哪怕穷的饭都没得吃了,还要向人借钱做头发做指甲
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smbook
是的,美国女人就是这样,做头发做指甲比天还大。孩子也不管,工作也不顾,做头发做指甲排第一位。哪怕穷的饭都没得吃了,还要向人借钱做头发做指甲
baobao557 发表于 2023-04-02 19:52

确实是,消费观念不同。
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rubysiam
我婆婆看自己孩子时孩子都掉池塘里,我是不想让她靠近我孩子。有次她说让孩子到小pool里玩会儿,我老公直接怼她会出危险的。就这么个人,还抱怨孩子和她不亲
oniongoat 发表于 2023-04-02 17:59

我小时候我妈妈因为家里俩孩子差一岁,两人双职工,偶尔会送我去奶奶家。
有一天我妈妈做噩梦,一个女的说你再也见不到你女儿了。我妈妈哭着惊醒,凌晨拉着我爸爸坐长途客车去奶奶家。我爷爷是大学教授,但是他们家在另外一个县城的近郊农村。爸妈赶到的时候发现我痢疾,严重脱水头也抬不起来。我不知道爷爷在哪里。奶奶养大了5个无病无灾的孩子,从没操过心,也没死过孩子(我外婆那边死过2个),根本不上心,也不送我去医院。她也重男轻女,对我这个孙女没什么感情。
我爸妈抱起我就赶医院,救了我一命。我妈妈后来经常说孩子和母亲之间是有心电感应的,危急时刻救了我一命。
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rainysunny
我小时候我妈妈因为家里俩孩子差一岁,两人双职工,偶尔会送我去奶奶家。
有一天我妈妈做噩梦,一个女的说你再也见不到你女儿了。我妈妈哭着惊醒,凌晨拉着我爸爸坐长途客车去奶奶家。我爷爷是大学教授,但是他们家在另外一个县城的近郊农村。爸妈赶到的时候发现我痢疾,严重脱水头也抬不起来。我不知道爷爷在哪里。奶奶养大了5个无病无灾的孩子,从没操过心,也没死过孩子(我外婆那边死过2个),根本不上心,也不送我去医院。她也重男轻女,对我这个孙女没什么感情。
我爸妈抱起我就赶医院,救了我一命。我妈妈后来经常说孩子和母亲之间是有心电感应的,危急时刻救了我一命。

rubysiam 发表于 2023-04-03 04:14

母子连心,真神奇。
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lukaka
都不靠谱啊