刚才收到老师的email,内容如下,还没和娃聊,具体发生了什么。想看看大家都怎么处理,有什么建议。老师 email 里用到了incident 这个词,严重程度如何, 是否会记入report里呢? 是否需要给老师回邮件。谢谢 I wanted to email you regarding an incident that occurred at school today. Today, while working on his Chromebook, XYZ said an inappropriate word. His classmates overheard and let me know. I spoke with XYZ and he confirmed that he said the word and was sorry. He was also a bit emotional when speaking with me. If you could please speak with him, I would greatly appreciate it. XYZ is always very polite and kind to his classmates, but I wanted to let you both know. Please let me know if you have any further questions or concerns. I thank you for your continued support. --- update --- 问了娃, 当时用电脑的时候,电脑有点问题,试了半天不行,说了 Hell, 没有针对任何人。被他同桌听到,告诉了老师。 娃平时非常nice,对老师 和同学都很有礼貌。问娃的时候,自己眼泪就掉下来了,很难过的样子。。。 小插曲,昨天刚好去班里当志愿者,做手工的时候, 打小报告的那个娃 缺东西,问我娃要,我娃当时就给了。结果我娃做到最后,也缺了东西,那娃刚好有富裕,我娃问能不能给,那娃不给。 我坐在旁边不远的地方,所以看的清清楚楚。
老师挺负责的,把孩子在班里的情况告诉你了。低年级的小孩子,有时不知道自己说的词是什么意思,老师家长一问肯定吓坏了。告诉孩子这个词不好,以后不说就是了,就算听到别人说,自己也不要模仿。 楼主也不用联想太多,说打小报告的那个孩子如何如何。相反,那个孩子也算是do you a favor, 让你娃及早地知道了用词是有好坏的。孩子之间的关系,只要没有到bully的程度,让孩子自己去handle,这些早晚他们都要面对的。
I wanted to email you regarding an incident that occurred at school today. Today, while working on his Chromebook, XYZ said an inappropriate word. His classmates overheard and let me know. I spoke with XYZ and he confirmed that he said the word and was sorry. He was also a bit emotional when speaking with me. If you could please speak with him, I would greatly appreciate it. XYZ is always very polite and kind to his classmates, but I wanted to let you both know. Please let me know if you have any further questions or concerns. I thank you for your continued support.
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问了娃, 当时用电脑的时候,电脑有点问题,试了半天不行,说了 Hell, 没有针对任何人。被他同桌听到,告诉了老师。 娃平时非常nice,对老师 和同学都很有礼貌。问娃的时候,自己眼泪就掉下来了,很难过的样子。。。
小插曲,昨天刚好去班里当志愿者,做手工的时候, 打小报告的那个娃 缺东西,问我娃要,我娃当时就给了。结果我娃做到最后,也缺了东西,那娃刚好有富裕,我娃问能不能给,那娃不给。 我坐在旁边不远的地方,所以看的清清楚楚。
然后老师就发信了,事情不大,但是需要提醒孩子在学校要尊重老师。
有些小孩就喜欢打小报告,小事情就别计较了, 以后不带那种孩子玩就是了, 有大事再理论。
老师挺负责的,把孩子在班里的情况告诉你了。低年级的小孩子,有时不知道自己说的词是什么意思,老师家长一问肯定吓坏了。告诉孩子这个词不好,以后不说就是了,就算听到别人说,自己也不要模仿。 楼主也不用联想太多,说打小报告的那个孩子如何如何。相反,那个孩子也算是do you a favor, 让你娃及早地知道了用词是有好坏的。孩子之间的关系,只要没有到bully的程度,让孩子自己去handle,这些早晚他们都要面对的。
那个打小报告的绿茶娃平时可能就事多,老师心中有数的,倒是要想想怎么教导孩子学会保护自己。