刚才收到老师的email，内容如下，还没和娃聊，具体发生了什么。想看看大家都怎么处理，有什么建议。老师 email 里用到了incident 这个词，严重程度如何， 是否会记入report里呢？ 是否需要给老师回邮件。谢谢 I wanted to email you regarding an incident that occurred at school today. Today, while working on his Chromebook, XYZ said an inappropriate word. His classmates overheard and let me know. I spoke with XYZ and he confirmed that he said the word and was sorry. He was also a bit emotional when speaking with me. If you could please speak with him, I would greatly appreciate it. XYZ is always very polite and kind to his classmates, but I wanted to let you both know. Please let me know if you have any further questions or concerns. I thank you for your continued support. --- update --- 问了娃， 当时用电脑的时候，电脑有点问题，试了半天不行，说了 Hell， 没有针对任何人。被他同桌听到，告诉了老师。 娃平时非常nice，对老师 和同学都很有礼貌。问娃的时候，自己眼泪就掉下来了，很难过的样子。。。 小插曲，昨天刚好去班里当志愿者，做手工的时候， 打小报告的那个娃 缺东西，问我娃要，我娃当时就给了。结果我娃做到最后，也缺了东西，那娃刚好有富裕，我娃问能不能给，那娃不给。 我坐在旁边不远的地方，所以看的清清楚楚。
老师挺负责的，把孩子在班里的情况告诉你了。低年级的小孩子，有时不知道自己说的词是什么意思，老师家长一问肯定吓坏了。告诉孩子这个词不好，以后不说就是了，就算听到别人说，自己也不要模仿。 楼主也不用联想太多，说打小报告的那个孩子如何如何。相反，那个孩子也算是do you a favor, 让你娃及早地知道了用词是有好坏的。孩子之间的关系，只要没有到bully的程度，让孩子自己去handle，这些早晚他们都要面对的。
I wanted to email you regarding an incident that occurred at school today. Today, while working on his Chromebook, XYZ said an inappropriate word. His classmates overheard and let me know. I spoke with XYZ and he confirmed that he said the word and was sorry. He was also a bit emotional when speaking with me. If you could please speak with him, I would greatly appreciate it. XYZ is always very polite and kind to his classmates, but I wanted to let you both know. Please let me know if you have any further questions or concerns. I thank you for your continued support.
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问了娃， 当时用电脑的时候，电脑有点问题，试了半天不行，说了 Hell， 没有针对任何人。被他同桌听到，告诉了老师。 娃平时非常nice，对老师 和同学都很有礼貌。问娃的时候，自己眼泪就掉下来了，很难过的样子。。。
小插曲，昨天刚好去班里当志愿者，做手工的时候， 打小报告的那个娃 缺东西，问我娃要，我娃当时就给了。结果我娃做到最后，也缺了东西，那娃刚好有富裕，我娃问能不能给，那娃不给。 我坐在旁边不远的地方，所以看的清清楚楚。
然后老师就发信了，事情不大，但是需要提醒孩子在学校要尊重老师。
有些小孩就喜欢打小报告，小事情就别计较了， 以后不带那种孩子玩就是了， 有大事再理论。
老师挺负责的，把孩子在班里的情况告诉你了。低年级的小孩子，有时不知道自己说的词是什么意思，老师家长一问肯定吓坏了。告诉孩子这个词不好，以后不说就是了，就算听到别人说，自己也不要模仿。 楼主也不用联想太多，说打小报告的那个孩子如何如何。相反，那个孩子也算是do you a favor, 让你娃及早地知道了用词是有好坏的。孩子之间的关系，只要没有到bully的程度，让孩子自己去handle，这些早晚他们都要面对的。
那个打小报告的绿茶娃平时可能就事多，老师心中有数的，倒是要想想怎么教导孩子学会保护自己。