请教,怎样礼貌地告诉 buyer agent 我们不想用她了

二当家
楼主 (北美华人网)
背景:去年夏天想去某小城买房,在那里呆了1个星期,其间这个经纪带我们看了两天房,因为房源实在太少,没找到合适的。相处时觉得这个经纪比较bossy,大概是因为她是当地比较资深吧。这几个月来一直收到自动发的推荐房源的邮件。
现在我又想去买房了,但是想换人。怎么能礼貌地告诉她,我们不想用她了呢?麻烦给我出出主意,谢谢!(和她没签什么代理协议)
玉骨遥
You are fired
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teddysan
Thank you for your service but I don't think we're a good fit. We'd like to tour with others from now on.
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bigxianzun
说嫌现在太贵 要观望一阵儿 然后就不联系了 agent见多了 不会care的
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looklooklook
回复 1楼二当家的帖子
通知对方的同时给对方发个online 100块的GC吧。毕竟带你们跑了两天。就算请对方吃顿饭。好说好散吧
二当家
Thank you for your service but I don't think we're a good fit. We'd like to tour with others from now on.
teddysan 发表于 2023-02-05 11:49

可以这么直接吗?
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acacia
没签协议根本就不用说fire吧,少联系到不联系就完了
二当家
说嫌现在太贵 要观望一阵儿 然后就不联系了 agent见多了 不会care的
bigxianzun 发表于 2023-02-05 11:51

想过这么说,但那地方太小,看房时很有可能遇见对方。
鄙视自己一下,年纪一大把,还学不会说no
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dngdnhxqs
中国人还是外国人啊。 我觉得外国人挺好拒绝。 自动推送邮件也不需要回复你就再找别人就好了吧。
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Janaina
ChatGPT给的回答: To terminate your relationship with your realtor, it's important to be respectful and direct. A good way to do this would be to schedule a phone call or in-person meeting and express your intentions in a clear and professional manner. You could say something like: "I wanted to have a conversation with you about the services you have been providing for me. I appreciate all the effort you have put in, but I have decided to move forward with a different real estate agent for my future needs. I hope you understand and I wish you the best in your future endeavors." It's important to be clear and direct while also showing appreciation for their efforts and wishing them well in the future.
蔓蔓茵茵
不要得罪agent,血的教训
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coalpilerd
ChatGPT给的回答: To terminate your relationship with your realtor, it's important to be respectful and direct. A good way to do this would be to schedule a phone call or in-person meeting and express your intentions in a clear and professional manner. You could say something like: "I wanted to have a conversation with you about the services you have been providing for me. I appreciate all the effort you have put in, but I have decided to move forward with a different real estate agent for my future needs. I hope you understand and I wish you the best in your future endeavors." It's important to be clear and direct while also showing appreciation for their efforts and wishing them well in the future.
Janaina 发表于 2023-02-05 12:04

哈哈哈哈,外事不决问chatgpt。现在真能看出这个东西对狗家的冲击了。
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new_bie
回复 1楼二当家的帖子
通知对方的同时给对方发个online 100块的GC吧。毕竟带你们跑了两天。就算请对方吃顿饭。好说好散吧
looklooklook 发表于 2023-02-05 11:52

这个建议不错。我以前也有类似的情况。agent带我们看了7,8个房子,后来我们决定暂时不买房子了,因为没有合适的房子。我总觉得有点过意不去,尽管房屋中介的职业性质就这样。后来我要卖房,就主动去找她当我的list agent,尽管她不熟悉我的地区。可惜发现她已经退休了。我还有点遗憾。
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suixin111
回复 11楼蔓蔓茵茵的帖子
为什么?互相尊重。换个agent很容易
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Xinnianhao0000
不联系即可。Agent 文字联系你不回复,打电话不接。
二当家
ChatGPT给的回答: To terminate your relationship with your realtor, it's important to be respectful and direct. A good way to do this would be to schedule a phone call or in-person meeting and express your intentions in a clear and professional manner. You could say something like: "I wanted to have a conversation with you about the services you have been providing for me. I appreciate all the effort you have put in, but I have decided to move forward with a different real estate agent for my future needs. I hope you understand and I wish you the best in your future endeavors." It's important to be clear and direct while also showing appreciation for their efforts and wishing them well in the future.
Janaina 发表于 2023-02-05 12:04

谢谢。是不是以前有事问google,现在问chatGPT?
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dngdnhxqs
想过这么说,但那地方太小,看房时很有可能遇见对方。
鄙视自己一下,年纪一大把,还学不会说no
二当家 发表于 2023-02-05 12:02


所以你认为必须先给她一个交代对吗 那你就说 Thank u for your time and help. I am afraid we will not continue working with u this time. All the best
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chuckle
只要不买他带你看过的房子,就没问题。
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pop
不用给gift card, 如果是你自己的原因导致不用这个经纪了(比如改变购房计划,不准备在当地买房了),那么送个礼品卡表示一下感谢还说得过去。 如果是对对方不满意,那么根本不应该给礼品卡。
就像是你去饭馆吃饭,坐下来正在看菜单,还没点菜呢,你突然接到电话有急事需要走,给waiter留下几块钱小费感谢她带位/端水过来。 要是是因为waitress态度冷淡,让你觉得很不快,你觉得不想在这里吃了,直接拔腿走人就好,不需要留小费。
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kittenpuppyplay
听上去你们已经几个月不联系了。你就直接找其他agent就好了吧。看房碰到就打个招呼呗,没啥的。对方不会问你们为啥不找她的,要是问了你们就说“谢谢你去年带我们看房呀,今年我们恰好遇到xx(现在的agent)”
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flyflying
没签协议就没什么关系的啊 直接找别人带你看房就行
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lambofgod168
自动把她的email给spam了,不联系了。
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smile1234
Thank you for your service but I don't think we're a good fit. We'd like to tour with others from now on.
teddysan 发表于 2023-02-05 11:49

这个说法真没必要,显得情商低。就说现在太贵不打算买房了。没签合同的其实啥都不说安静走开也可以。
纽约装修姐夫
背景:去年夏天想去某小城买房,在那里呆了1个星期,其间这个经纪带我们看了两天房,因为房源实在太少,没找到合适的。相处时觉得这个经纪比较bossy,大概是因为她是当地比较资深吧。这几个月来一直收到自动发的推荐房源的邮件。
现在我又想去买房了,但是想换人。怎么能礼貌地告诉她,我们不想用她了呢?麻烦给我出出主意,谢谢!(和她没签什么代理协议)
二当家 发表于 2023-02-05 11:39

直接自己去看就行了,干嘛要跟她说啥?
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Zynga
就说现在没有合适的接下来想自己慢慢看,暂时不需要agent了
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lee_hr
不用发邮件,直接换agent就行,看房时撞见其实没事的,这种事儿太多了
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magnoliaceae
不想用不联系就行了,人家就明白了,直说不想用你了等于当面去恶心人家,不如不说,你收到的那些邮件也不是她手动给你挑的,你也说了都是自动的,你可以直接屏蔽掉,过一阵她就把你删了
剑骨琴心
想过这么说,但那地方太小,看房时很有可能遇见对方。
鄙视自己一下,年纪一大把,还学不会说no
二当家 发表于 2023-02-05 12:02

遇到就遇到呗, 问起来就说又决定看房了,有什么关系
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gujigu
Clear and respectful. 就够了
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vivicheer
看上去去年夏天之后她也没有再自己联系你们呀?只是收到自动推送没啥的吧?就直接再找别人看房就行了呀?
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aidaibiao
Hey… thanks so much for sending this to us. I hope all is well with you. Just so you know that at the moment we are not looking for a place. We will reach out when we are ready to work with you again.
Thanks again for all the help! All the best!
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IronFlower
无意中提起股票都赔光了,她绝对不会来骚扰你了。
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anye
你根本不需要说任何东西。直接找别人买就可以了。
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layjohns
没签协议无所谓吧。不联系就行了。要是签了协议你得好好处理。我之前买房,那个agent开始很热情,然后直接拿出协议要签,我不想签她当时直接对我不热情了,她都不想理我了,我也懒得找她了,默默分手,LOL
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2good2betru
为什么要通知她?都是去年夏天的事了,现在直接找新人开始看就好了呀
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layjohns
除非他隔几天一个电话,过些日子一份私人邮件的问询,不然直接走开就行。那种mail-list的群发邮件不算,那是广告
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Emilyll
没签过协议就很简单,发信告诉她你的看房计划有变,请她取消给你设置的auto email notification。 稍微过2星期找新人再看房子呗。
公用马甲11
那两天看房就是对agent的interview啊,不满意换人不是很正常的吗?现在的华人agent都被惯坏了,以为带着看一次房,客户就要签卖身契一样
我现在也在看房,第一i次跟着当地一个号称年交易300套房的"金牌“经纪看了一上午的房,一共3个房子,第一个房子她没约上害我白跑一趟(在门口等了半天她姗姗来迟,告诉我没约上),后面看房过程中她不是接电话就是拍视频发她的客户群里, 根本没空搭理我,这种agent我果断换人了,理由都懒得跟她说。对了,她也是发了个协议过来让我签,签她个大头鬼啊
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aiyamayayongle
回复 1楼二当家的帖子
连代理协议都没有,而且就看了两天房,发个短消息说一句就够了,不说不好听的话就行了。
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aiyamayayongle
回复 5楼looklooklook的帖子
你真是人傻钱多的代表。
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aiyamayayongle
回复 8楼二当家的帖子
你这个心态,早晚高价买劣质房。
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aiyamayayongle
回复 32楼IronFlower的帖子
完全没有必要为了这种原因扯这种瞎话。记住,一个瞎话需要一百个瞎话去圆。 另外,如果那个中介特别善良,持续关心楼主,甚至提供经济支援,楼主咋弄?
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aiyamayayongle
回复 38楼公用马甲11的帖子
一开始就要签代理协议都是多少年前的老玩法了,现在流行的是确定要买某个房子了,再签代理协议。说到底,房子不成交,那个代理协议也就是几张纸,中介没有啥收益的。
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shanghaimemory
回复 1楼二当家的帖子
通知对方的同时给对方发个online 100块的GC吧。毕竟带你们跑了两天。就算请对方吃顿饭。好说好散吧
looklooklook 发表于 2023-02-05 11:52

这什么鬼主意?
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happy3001
我不会直接拒绝,他再联系你就说经济不好,怕裁员,暂时不买了。
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cherry1981
背景:去年夏天想去某小城买房,在那里呆了1个星期,其间这个经纪带我们看了两天房,因为房源实在太少,没找到合适的。相处时觉得这个经纪比较bossy,大概是因为她是当地比较资深吧。这几个月来一直收到自动发的推荐房源的邮件。
现在我又想去买房了,但是想换人。怎么能礼貌地告诉她,我们不想用她了呢?麻烦给我出出主意,谢谢!(和她没签什么代理协议)
二当家 发表于 2023-02-05 11:39

这事都不用主动提出,直接不联系就可以了。
楼主你内心戏太多了,资深的agent接触的人很多都身经百战,根本不需要你去安慰和共情,邮件都是auto设置的,人家可能都记不清你是谁了。
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shanghaimemory
这事都不用主动提出,直接不联系就可以了。
楼主你内心戏太多了,资深的agent接触的人很多都身经百战,根本不需要你去安慰和共情,邮件都是auto设置的,人家可能都记不清你是谁了。
cherry1981 发表于 2023-02-05 21:03

哈哈是的,这种邮件都是群发的,你不去主动提出unsubscribe, 人家都不一定记得还发给你了。
嘻嘻嘻888888
哈哈哈哈,外事不决问chatgpt。现在真能看出这个东西对狗家的冲击了。
coalpilerd 发表于 2023-02-05 12:06

真的回答的很得体啊哈哈哈 😂😂
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lululun
问个相关问题: 如果在Redfin 上面选择 "Buy from Redfin", 是不是就不用另找买方经纪人?
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yolandos
背景:去年夏天想去某小城买房,在那里呆了1个星期,其间这个经纪带我们看了两天房,因为房源实在太少,没找到合适的。相处时觉得这个经纪比较bossy,大概是因为她是当地比较资深吧。这几个月来一直收到自动发的推荐房源的邮件。
现在我又想去买房了,但是想换人。怎么能礼貌地告诉她,我们不想用她了呢?麻烦给我出出主意,谢谢!(和她没签什么代理协议)
二当家 发表于 2023-02-05 11:39

I just picked up the phone and called her. I told her I found someone else that better fit my needs. She said she understood and told me to feel free if she can be of any help. end of story.
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anai2017
可以这么直接吗?
二当家 发表于 2023-02-05 11:59

NO
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everything
我觉得直接说就好了。不过她那种自动发的email其实不用理。她如果主动找你了你再说清楚,不想合作了 如果她在local的联系很深的话,最好不要ghost她
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usa2001
说嫌现在太贵 要观望一阵儿 然后就不联系了 agent见多了 不会care的
bigxianzun 发表于 2023-02-05 11:51

好主意!
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aliciaa
ChatGPT给的回答: To terminate your relationship with your realtor, it's important to be respectful and direct. A good way to do this would be to schedule a phone call or in-person meeting and express your intentions in a clear and professional manner. You could say something like: "I wanted to have a conversation with you about the services you have been providing for me. I appreciate all the effort you have put in, but I have decided to move forward with a different real estate agent for my future needs. I hope you understand and I wish you the best in your future endeavors." It's important to be clear and direct while also showing appreciation for their efforts and wishing them well in the future.
Janaina 发表于 2023-02-05 12:04

ChatGPT V5!
果酱罐子
别拖啦,最好是书面,email也算,告诉她终止合作。
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Felixa
回复 5楼looklooklook的帖子
你真是人傻钱多的代表。
aiyamayayongle 发表于 2023-02-05 16:59

这当然是一种可能,还有就是自己就是realtor,哈哈
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liumao
ChatGPT给的回答: To terminate your relationship with your realtor, it's important to be respectful and direct. A good way to do this would be to schedule a phone call or in-person meeting and express your intentions in a clear and professional manner. You could say something like: "I wanted to have a conversation with you about the services you have been providing for me. I appreciate all the effort you have put in, but I have decided to move forward with a different real estate agent for my future needs. I hope you understand and I wish you the best in your future endeavors." It's important to be clear and direct while also showing appreciation for their efforts and wishing them well in the future.
Janaina 发表于 2023-02-05 12:04

这回答够烂哈哈。