https://www.intunefamily.com/blog/why-teenage-boys-need-mentors-role-models-heroes 老美文化认为男孩成长过程中需要一个好的 mentor, 跟他们认为 a boy needs a dog 一样，对塑造心性有好处 想起来以前看Michael Buble 的维基介绍，说他14岁开始每年暑假跟大人出海捕鱼， From the age of 14, Bublé spent six years working during the summer as a commercial fisherman with his father and crewmates.[27][28] He called the experience "the most deadly physical work I'll ever know in my lifetime. We'd be gone for two, sometimes three months at a time and the experience of living and working among guys over twice my age taught me a lot about responsibility and what it means to be a man 对男孩子尤其重要
https://www.intunefamily.com/blog/why-teenage-boys-need-mentors-role-models-heroes 老美文化认为男孩成长过程中需要一个好的 mentor, 跟他们认为 a boy needs a dog 一样，对塑造心性有好处 想起来以前看Michael Buble 的维基介绍，说他14岁开始每年暑假跟大人出海捕鱼， From the age of 14, Bublé spent six years working during the summer as a commercial fisherman with his father and crewmates.[27][28] He called the experience "the most deadly physical work I'll ever know in my lifetime. We'd be gone for two, sometimes three months at a time and the experience of living and working among guys over twice my age taught me a lot about responsibility and what it means to be a man 对男孩子尤其重要 Slou9900 发表于 2023-01-08 02:37
本来都快放弃了。家里的老二，男娃，两年前进入teenage，性情暴躁，从小就倔，满口F word，沉迷游戏，晚上要反复催才去睡觉，早上又起不来，学习一塌糊涂，要这个要那个，又丢三落四，不给就发脾气，破坏东西，说他几句就顶嘴，还不断挑衅，比如会去把弟弟故意搞的大哭来气人，把新买的电脑故意破坏...。我和娃妈真要气炸了，又不能动手打，真打也打不过他了。只能小心翼翼的由着他，盼着他上大学了有多远滚多远。
谁知道突然就变了。这次放假把他的game PC 收起来放网上去卖，告诉我们他不打游戏了，是真不玩了。学习成绩除了两科居然全都是A. Music拿个D, Art 拿个C. 他也承认他不喜欢这两科，所以课都不上，作业也不交。圣诞节给我们每个人都买了礼物，都是他自己打工挣的钱。再也不问我们要钱了。我们主动给他都不要，说他打工有钱。我前些日子受伤了，他主动陪我去grocery, 帮我搬东西。假期里管着弟弟，控制看动画时间，不让吃不健康的食品，陪弟弟玩游戏下棋健身，教弟弟学习。我每天看着这一切都乐呵呵的在怀疑自己是不是在做梦！
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这更是好事了，如果对象能让他上进，赶紧撮合、鼓励 。
🛋️ 沙发板凳
请问以前几岁开始叛逆，现在几岁开始变好的啊
可喜可贺！
我家从小就叛逆，希望青春期反过来
太棒了！真替楼主一家高兴！
恭喜，可以问问小孩子怎么转变的？+1
求分享具体改变原因
浪子回头金不换啊，我都替lz高兴。看买礼物那里差点哭了。
一边看原帖一边猜说的是不是老大，果然是
老美文化认为男孩成长过程中需要一个好的 mentor, 跟他们认为 a boy needs a dog 一样，对塑造心性有好处
想起来以前看Michael Buble 的维基介绍，说他14岁开始每年暑假跟大人出海捕鱼， From the age of 14, Bublé spent six years working during the summer as a commercial fisherman with his father and crewmates.[27][28] He called the experience "the most deadly physical work I'll ever know in my lifetime. We'd be gone for two, sometimes three months at a time and the experience of living and working among guys over twice my age taught me a lot about responsibility and what it means to be a man
对男孩子尤其重要
恭喜楼主！
impossible..
有道理！
同看到一点希望
同问
几岁可以去打工呢？我现在就想把小孩踢出去
我就准备把娃踢出去打工，否则我把嘴皮都磨破了，买书，买学习软件花了无数多的钱；人家根本不在乎！
所以版上的大妈也不要老推这个课外班那个AP，去社会被毒打一下，提高情商也有助找合适的女朋友
14岁开始每年暑假跟大人出海捕鱼。哇
经常带娃出去户外锻炼是不是可以有助于“发泄”
这是治愈帖。
恭喜楼主！孩子有这个过程！应该是感谢你们在他叛逆的时候。即没有放弃他，又保持良好的亲子关系！
cong!
有没有可能本来就挺好，没叛逆，你还让他咋变呢？
恭喜LZ！
你孩子恋爱了~