https://www.intunefamily.com/blog/why-teenage-boys-need-mentors-role-models-heroes 老美文化认为男孩成长过程中需要一个好的 mentor, 跟他们认为 a boy needs a dog 一样,对塑造心性有好处 想起来以前看Michael Buble 的维基介绍,说他14岁开始每年暑假跟大人出海捕鱼, From the age of 14, Bublé spent six years working during the summer as a commercial fisherman with his father and crewmates.[27][28] He called the experience "the most deadly physical work I'll ever know in my lifetime. We'd be gone for two, sometimes three months at a time and the experience of living and working among guys over twice my age taught me a lot about responsibility and what it means to be a man 对男孩子尤其重要
https://www.intunefamily.com/blog/why-teenage-boys-need-mentors-role-models-heroes 老美文化认为男孩成长过程中需要一个好的 mentor, 跟他们认为 a boy needs a dog 一样,对塑造心性有好处 想起来以前看Michael Buble 的维基介绍,说他14岁开始每年暑假跟大人出海捕鱼, From the age of 14, Bublé spent six years working during the summer as a commercial fisherman with his father and crewmates.[27][28] He called the experience "the most deadly physical work I'll ever know in my lifetime. We'd be gone for two, sometimes three months at a time and the experience of living and working among guys over twice my age taught me a lot about responsibility and what it means to be a man 对男孩子尤其重要 Slou9900 发表于 2023-01-08 02:37
本来都快放弃了。家里的老二,男娃,两年前进入teenage,性情暴躁,从小就倔,满口F word,沉迷游戏,晚上要反复催才去睡觉,早上又起不来,学习一塌糊涂,要这个要那个,又丢三落四,不给就发脾气,破坏东西,说他几句就顶嘴,还不断挑衅,比如会去把弟弟故意搞的大哭来气人,把新买的电脑故意破坏...。我和娃妈真要气炸了,又不能动手打,真打也打不过他了。只能小心翼翼的由着他,盼着他上大学了有多远滚多远。
谁知道突然就变了。这次放假把他的game PC 收起来放网上去卖,告诉我们他不打游戏了,是真不玩了。学习成绩除了两科居然全都是A. Music拿个D, Art 拿个C. 他也承认他不喜欢这两科,所以课都不上,作业也不交。圣诞节给我们每个人都买了礼物,都是他自己打工挣的钱。再也不问我们要钱了。我们主动给他都不要,说他打工有钱。我前些日子受伤了,他主动陪我去grocery, 帮我搬东西。假期里管着弟弟,控制看动画时间,不让吃不健康的食品,陪弟弟玩游戏下棋健身,教弟弟学习。我每天看着这一切都乐呵呵的在怀疑自己是不是在做梦!
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这更是好事了,如果对象能让他上进,赶紧撮合、鼓励 。
🛋️ 沙发板凳
请问以前几岁开始叛逆,现在几岁开始变好的啊
可喜可贺!
我家从小就叛逆,希望青春期反过来
太棒了!真替楼主一家高兴!
恭喜,可以问问小孩子怎么转变的?+1
求分享具体改变原因
浪子回头金不换啊,我都替lz高兴。看买礼物那里差点哭了。
一边看原帖一边猜说的是不是老大,果然是
老美文化认为男孩成长过程中需要一个好的 mentor, 跟他们认为 a boy needs a dog 一样,对塑造心性有好处
想起来以前看Michael Buble 的维基介绍,说他14岁开始每年暑假跟大人出海捕鱼, From the age of 14, Bublé spent six years working during the summer as a commercial fisherman with his father and crewmates.[27][28] He called the experience "the most deadly physical work I'll ever know in my lifetime. We'd be gone for two, sometimes three months at a time and the experience of living and working among guys over twice my age taught me a lot about responsibility and what it means to be a man
对男孩子尤其重要
恭喜楼主!
impossible..
有道理!
同看到一点希望
同问
几岁可以去打工呢?我现在就想把小孩踢出去
我就准备把娃踢出去打工,否则我把嘴皮都磨破了,买书,买学习软件花了无数多的钱;人家根本不在乎!
所以版上的大妈也不要老推这个课外班那个AP,去社会被毒打一下,提高情商也有助找合适的女朋友
14岁开始每年暑假跟大人出海捕鱼。哇
经常带娃出去户外锻炼是不是可以有助于“发泄”
这是治愈帖。
恭喜楼主!孩子有这个过程!应该是感谢你们在他叛逆的时候。即没有放弃他,又保持良好的亲子关系!
cong!
有没有可能本来就挺好,没叛逆,你还让他咋变呢?
恭喜LZ!
你孩子恋爱了~