网上的一大话题就是推娃，这么多年读了不少书，最大的收获就是家长需要学习怎么调动孩子的积极性，也就是所谓的内驱力吧。孩子小的（一般来说，不能超过12吧）还可以用"推''''''''这个字. 孩子大了的真不用操这个心了，更多的就是支持孩子，让孩子领着走就行了。大孩子家长应该都有体会吧。 这是The self-driven child这本书里的一段话，供参考： “If I''''''''m not on him all the time, I''''''''m worried that he won''''''''t reach his potential." Kids won''''''''t reach their potential by constantly being driven. In fact, the opposite is true; they will do what is necessary to get you off their back, but they won''''''''t do more. People go the extra mile when it matters to them, not when it matters to you.
这是The self-driven child这本书里的一段话，供参考：
“If I''''''''m not on him all the time, I''''''''m worried that he won''''''''t reach his potential."
Kids won''''''''t reach their potential by constantly being driven. In fact, the opposite is true; they will do what is necessary to get you off their back, but they won''''''''t do more. People go the extra mile when it matters to them, not when it matters to you.
体育学习都是这样的。没有人生来喜欢吃苦。所有的体育最后都有很无趣的地方