首先，这是一个医学状况，我不确定我能解释的清楚。当时医生也和我们说nothing to worry about, it's just one day to stay at the hospital，所以我们也没有刨根问底的追问。 其次，这是我们的个人医疗隐私，我没有义务向你report 最后，你不相信不愿意看可以不看，我没求你 上个论坛聊天灌水，我还要把我家的medical history都翻出来一条条讲清楚了哦？搞笑
首先，这是一个医学状况，我不确定我能解释的清楚。当时医生也和我们说nothing to worry about, it''''s just one day to stay at the hospital，所以我们也没有刨根问底的追问。 其次，这是我们的个人医疗隐私，我没有义务向你report 最后，你不相信不愿意看可以不看，我没求你 上个论坛聊天灌水，我还要把我家的medical history都翻出来一条条讲清楚了哦？搞笑 公用马甲15 发表于 2022-10-04 13:01
首先，这是一个医学状况，我不确定我能解释的清楚。当时医生也和我们说nothing to worry about, it's just one day to stay at the hospital，所以我们也没有刨根问底的追问。 其次，这是我们的个人医疗隐私，我没有义务向你report 最后，你不相信不愿意看可以不看，我没求你 上个论坛聊天灌水，我还要把我家的medical history都翻出来一条条讲清楚了哦？搞笑 公用马甲15 发表于 2022-10-04 13:01
正好看过一本书， 一哥们十八岁的时候发宏愿把自己扎了， 30年后遇到真爱….. 反正他是不能了 Thirty years later, I connected with a beautiful woman at a conference who lit up when I talked about cells and who indulged my long-winded diatribes on DNA as software. Lying next to her one morning in her Manhattan apartment, I was overcome with a terrifying new feeling: I wanted children. I wanted that family, with her by my side. But I was now in my late forties, and I knew exactly what to expect medically and biologically. When we decided to get pregnant, we were both hopeful, but realistic. On the day of my reversal, I fixed my eyes on the ceiling as the attendants pushed me into a surgical suite. The lights blurred past in a rhythmic pattern, and with each burst of light I cycled back to the doctor’s warning so long ago, and thought about how life paths can suddenly change. The tubes connecting my testicles to my urethra, which would have enabled sperm to leave my body, hadn’t been clamped or tied off—making a reversal easy. Instead, the surgeon had severed them entirely and cauterized them to make sure I didn’t leak internally. It would take a delicate microsurgery and general anesthesia to reconnect them. We tried, and failed, to get pregnant for eighteen months. I knew what was wrong—and how little I could do now to change things. The surgery had been successful, but my body’s system had been shuttered for too long. Mechanically, there was nothing wrong with me. My body just wasn’t cooperating.
正好看过一本书， 一哥们十八岁的时候发宏愿把自己扎了， 30年后遇到真爱….. 反正他是不能了 Thirty years later, I connected with a beautiful woman at a conference who lit up when I talked about cells and who indulged my long-winded diatribes on DNA as software. Lying next to her one morning in her Manhattan apartment, I was overcome with a terrifying new feeling: I wanted children. I wanted that family, with her by my side. But I was now in my late forties, and I knew exactly what to expect medically and biologically. When we decided to get pregnant, we were both hopeful, but realistic. On the day of my reversal, I fixed my eyes on the ceiling as the attendants pushed me into a surgical suite. The lights blurred past in a rhythmic pattern, and with each burst of light I cycled back to the doctor’s warning so long ago, and thought about how life paths can suddenly change. The tubes connecting my testicles to my urethra, which would have enabled sperm to leave my body, hadn’t been clamped or tied off—making a reversal easy. Instead, the surgeon had severed them entirely and cauterized them to make sure I didn’t leak internally. It would take a delicate microsurgery and general anesthesia to reconnect them. We tried, and failed, to get pregnant for eighteen months. I knew what was wrong—and how little I could do now to change things. The surgery had been successful, but my body’s system had been shuttered for too long. Mechanically, there was nothing wrong with me. My body just wasn’t cooperating.
统一回复下住院问题，urologist说我老公有一个risk factor，所以不能门诊手术，要去hospital做，并且在医院留院观察一天。
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根本不可能有40%。这里离婚率还超过50%呢，再婚后大概率都再生小孩了。
又一个索男，在这里的不能像在国内那样尽情欺压女性了，就哭爹喊娘说你自己被PUA了。 连PUA是什么意思都不知道，乱用词。 屏蔽！
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结扎还需要住院出院？
老公很好！确实不关公婆的事儿
楼上问老公向父母汇报的，估计一直不说公婆可能会不自觉的期盼两个孩子吧。只要一个的情况除非自愿，还是少了点。但是自己夫妻双方同意就没什么了。
同觉得在美国结扎是门诊手术，不会住院的。
确实像编的，美国大部分手术都不住院的，最多在一个房间待两个小时就走了
我老公好像有一个什么risk factor，本来是想在urology office做的，后来urologist还是要求我们去医院做，医院也安排要求我们留院一晚上观察
nod 门诊二十分钟完事儿
好像确实是编的
我一直不明白，来华人挖坑的都是什么人 编故事诉求是得到什么？
如果是坑，没理由是索男挖的，应该是索女。
像公婆汇报是出于尊重，而且如果情况允许，我想大多数人都会希望得到家人blessing和support吧
不觉得。我觉得多数男的都希望这件事上只留在主卧范围。
那就agree to disagree吧，至少我和我老公都是喜欢family support的类型
那要是公婆不知情总是催二胎怎么办呢。我个人同意楼主老公通知父母的。
好像的risk factor是啥，说出来给大家听听，看看大家信不信，美国那么多老人做的手术大多了都没住院，人家还一堆基础病了，你老公有什么risk factor需要住院一天的
老公的精子可以冻起来吧，要再怀孕，也不难吧，有啥需要告诉公婆的？
如果做个结扎还有risk factor 需要住院观察，我也觉得绝对不能再生孩子了
首先，这是一个医学状况，我不确定我能解释的清楚。当时医生也和我们说nothing to worry about, it's just one day to stay at the hospital，所以我们也没有刨根问底的追问。 其次，这是我们的个人医疗隐私，我没有义务向你report 最后，你不相信不愿意看可以不看，我没求你
上个论坛聊天灌水，我还要把我家的medical history都翻出来一条条讲清楚了哦？搞笑
编不出来了吧，来谈隐私，你家老公做结扎这个算不算隐私？你老公做个结扎手术都需要住院一天算不算隐私？你肚子上面一个大的剖宫产的手术疤痕算不算隐私？你对避孕套过敏算不算隐私？你是个在乎隐私的人么？ 继续编，还不需要刨根究底的问，你老公这么小的一个手术都需要住院，以后万一大一点的手术了？你们都不问清楚，继续编
看 SEINFELD 里一集， Kramer 和 Newman 去做， 出来的时候 路都走不直。
终于可以不带套内射了！ 想想就激动。😂
挺好个帖，我也琢磨着让老公去扎。 那一位，正常人不会问这种问题，不用理。
看youtube 上的视频就知道，这个手术看似简单，其实痛感很独特，住一天观察观察也正常
女人生孩子可不止住院一天呢，有基础病risk factor的可能命都要搭在里面，要不然怎么说鬼门关前走一圈呢
男人就知足吧
你说“总感觉结扎后会没有射精的快感”， 这是自己结扎了所以经验之谈？还是自己瞎猜的？
猜想的，不知道真实感受，瞎想的
一点不会
结扎需要屁的blessing啊，又不是结婚
笑翻了。大家快给lz一个blessing
完全不正常
根本没有医院会收的
人家侧切的疤你给挪肚子上了。
胡扯一通
男id
你也太狠了，不光刨，还刨妇
男id 哈哈
男id
哈哈哈
剖腹产，剖腹产，剖腹产。不是刨妇产。有强迫症的人受不了一错再错的错别字。
哈哈是啊，这还要和公婆说，这老公也是个妈宝吧
这估计心理问题比生理问题大吧，如果男人有这样的心理不想做那就管好自己
笑倒了 🤣
结扎还需要冻精子吗？
又不是阉割了没有睾丸了
geez
都什么人啊
你要谨慎了，否则不小心怀孕了可就有好戏看了
同意，这啥都要汇报的男人很烦啊，一点自己主见都没有，我不是说楼主老公，不了解楼主老公和楼主的情况，只是单纯不喜欢啥都汇报的男人，的确有的男人真是啥事都要和老婆商量，老婆就是主心骨，不过这样的男的一般都是本来性格软弱的，老婆一般是母老虎那种，需要老婆给当主心骨的
小的不能再小了
男id鉴定完毕
版上有id连上环都跟网友报备，他这个还好啦
我也记得有这么回事。医生反复问我还要不要再生，我坚决说不生了，问我要不要结扎输卵管，立马NO。
你自己也说大部分不需要住院，说明你也认为有一小部分需要住院的。
为什么这么多人这么固执地认为自己的认知就一定是对的？朋友的朋友做过不要住院就等于所有人都不需要住院，这是什么认知水平哈:)
同意你，像是男ID心理，男人这样想真是很狭隘，格局也不大，还有啥事都和老婆公婆汇报的男人也没啥格局
应该不能了
可以reverse的，是扎起来了不是割掉了
理论可以 但实操往往不能
还想生就ivf好了
正好看过一本书， 一哥们十八岁的时候发宏愿把自己扎了， 30年后遇到真爱….. 反正他是不能了
Thirty years later, I connected with a beautiful woman at a conference who lit up when I talked about cells and who indulged my long-winded diatribes on DNA as software. Lying next to her one morning in her Manhattan apartment, I was overcome with a terrifying new feeling: I wanted children. I wanted that family, with her by my side. But I was now in my late forties, and I knew exactly what to expect medically and biologically.
When we decided to get pregnant, we were both hopeful, but realistic. On the day of my reversal, I fixed my eyes on the ceiling as the attendants pushed me into a surgical suite. The lights blurred past in a rhythmic pattern, and with each burst of light I cycled back to the doctor’s warning so long ago, and thought about how life paths can suddenly change. The tubes connecting my testicles to my urethra, which would have enabled sperm to leave my body, hadn’t been clamped or tied off—making a reversal easy. Instead, the surgeon had severed them entirely and cauterized them to make sure I didn’t leak internally. It would take a delicate microsurgery and general anesthesia to reconnect them.
We tried, and failed, to get pregnant for eighteen months. I knew what was wrong—and how little I could do now to change things. The surgery had been successful, but my body’s system had been shuttered for too long. Mechanically, there was nothing wrong with me. My body just wasn’t cooperating.
这么想生又不舍得花钱做IVF？
不要问我 呵呵
一般不能，美国结扎的很少，大部分戴套或吃药上环，感觉戴套最安全
结扎或上环对身体可能有副作用吧
索男真能信口开河！
美国已婚男子20个里就有一个做了vasectomy 的，reversal 成功率50%。又一个以为华人大妈不会Google 的索男!
姐妹们，上屏蔽list!
强迫症受不了了。那个疤是侧切的，不是剖腹产肚皮上。估计层主看到lz说“lg每次摸就觉得很心疼“就想当然是肚皮上了😂
怕老公老婆反悔，以后还想要
所以你阉割了？
不知道想说什么
你才阉割了
是笑死，自己做好准备，防止以后后悔没生2孩子，冻精，还要告诉屁个父母
人家都说了老公有risk factor,大妈就别Judge了，祝福楼主找到这么好的老公和公婆，我等大妈只有羡慕的份
你怕什么？
你阉割了吓得逻辑都没了吗？
我上来不就说没必要冻精子，结扎不是阉割
你非要杠我，是什么意思？