是什么？ ------------------------- repost：is this someone you know？ Key words: time management master, cheating in marriage, divorce, prying other people''''''''s wives to cause divorce, dating multiple women at the same time, bald, programmer, speculating on buying a house, halo of a famous domestic school, soccer coach Character relationship introduction I: a straightforward warrior Righteous people hate scumbags and feel sorry for girls who are bullied by scumbags. The affection and intimacy of women in my heart is better than that of men My best friend: a woman who is recognized at first sight in the crowd. Since childhood, she has been a good girl, and has been surrounded and protected by all kinds of high-quality boys all the way to famous schools. She has a good temperament and is elegant from the inside to the outside. My best friend and I have known each other for many years, and we have a very good relationship. My best friend is independent on the outside and very dependent on inner emotions. She was so well-protected since she was a child that she could easily trust others, and then she was injured and had no ability to bear it. She would talk to me and ask me to help her resolve it. Since she got married, she has been well protected by her husband, and it seems to outsiders that she is very happy. But I know the distress in her heart. She and I have nothing to say, our emotional dependence and trust go beyond friendship (this can be posted separately). Well, now to talk about what happened to her recently. There are two key people here - Male A : Graduated from a famous domestic school, loves sports, and has a relatively stable job. His (former) wife is a talented woman who is devoted to learning. Man A has always liked to be ambiguous with married women and cuckold others. He met my best friend eleven years ago and was fascinated by my best friend. In the cyberspace of the two, there are all kinds of sweet words and sincere confessions, and I even wrote a handwritten letter to my best friend, using the letterhead of my school (Is the improper extramarital affair a bit insulting to the school?), expressing my sincerity to my best friend. Girlfriend falls and becomes his lover. There are many dramas during this period. They seized every possible opportunity to date in his new and former home, in the rental house, in the garage, in the study, in the master bedroom, in any corner, with a taste of their passion. Everyday meal contact dating, frequent (basically every day!) passion in the back seat of the car, in the park, on the trail, they love boldly. Courage to love each other. They bravely love each other, but there is a heavy price. In A man''''''''s own words, he was punished and his family was separated. (Man A''''''''s various bad behaviors were noticed by his wife, disliked, separated, divorced, and after the divorce, he started to hook up and chat with another wife, B woman, interfered in other people''''''''s marriages, shared his divorce agreement with the other party, encouraged and helped the other party to divorce .) Female B: Male A taught local Chinese children to play soccer during the epidemic, and female B, the mother of the soccer team child, started hooking up, and took the initiative to say that he was divorced and single, and then began to chat about this middle-aged woman, the two chatted hot They hooked up with each other and developed good feelings for each other. The woman B, who was in a mid-life crisis, moved her mind to buy a house, implying that A man had bought the house and planned to separate, and then A man provided his separation agreement to B woman, encouraging her to divorce. Before the two could wait for B''''''''s female husband to move out, they started dating (again with a green hat). In the meantime, she was discovered by B''''''''s female husband and found A''''''''s man to talk. A man is thick-skinned and very good at getting things done. Afterwards, he praised B''''''''s husband as a good woman, and also said that the married woman''''''''s husband he was familiar with was good (so he could be cuckolded for being bullied?). After that, the man A and the woman B put their children to sleep every day and quietly started dating, meeting, and walking in the community and nearby. This seems reasonable at first, but my best friend was hurt very much because of A man''''''''s time management master and concealment from each other. For so many years, including during the epidemic, A man and my girlfriend have been dating, chatting, sending messages and calling. When man A separated and divorced, the epidemic happened, and there were fewer opportunities for girlfriends and man A to meet. Both needed time to sort out their moods and matters at hand. But the two still take any chance they can to date at Man A''''''''s new home. Man A wants to meet my best friend and wants her, and is very passionate, especially after the vaccination in 2021, they seize any possible opportunity to date at his new home, make food, drink coffee, and do X. My best friend said that she wanted to use this method and company to try her best to soothe his injured heart. In February and March of this year, they also seized the opportunity to date passions in the car. After that, I couldn''''''''t take care of meeting because I was busy with other things, but their phone calls and messages were never interrupted! Just a few weeks ago, he suddenly told my best friend about the existence of another woman, B. While he was dating her, he was also dating my best friend. After he confessed to my girlfriend that he was dating another girl, he still went to bed with my girlfriend at his new home. He was very passionate. When he went to bed, he even asked if he could not use protective measures (beasts)! He said that he knew that my best friend was kind to him, and he would always keep his best friend in his heart and let him live a good life. But he was too lonely. He needed to find a woman to live on. He explained to his best friend that he and another she (girl B) had intimate hugs, held hands and stroked, but they had never really slept, saying that she had children at home, no Convenient to go to bed on a date. The two went on a sneaky date, walking around the neighborhood and making out. He also said that she was the mother of a child on the football team. She had a hot chat with him in August last year. Knowing that he was divorced and single, he helped him introduce a girlfriend, and then asked him to ask a civil lawyer. The two chatted and seduced each other and had a good impression , said that her mid-life crisis and her husband always quarreled, and later she took the initiative to tell him that she would buy a house at the end of the year, implying that he said she would also separate, implying that he encouraged him to pursue himself. The two started dating at the end of last year. Her husband hadn''''''''t moved out yet. Later, her husband found out that she was chatting with him and had a conversation with him. It was easily settled by him. After that, he also gave his divorce agreement to the woman for reference and encouraged her to get divorced. This man, he cheated on my best friend for many years, he has been infatuated with my best friend for many years, and now he is tired, hurt, feeling powerless and stressed in life, and started dating another girl behind my back. Caring for him and dating. She didn''''''''t know about the other, and she was also innocent and kept in the dark. Both were greened separately. He said that he was too lonely after the divorce and wanted to find someone to accompany him every day. At this time, someone separated and wanted to divorce. So he wanted to think about a dull life and find someone to help him cook and take care of the children. The female compatriots brighten their eyes: the person who is dating you may be someone who has cheated on someone for ten years behind his back. It is a common tactic to hook up with chat when you are not divorced. You are not the first, nor the last. One, please respect yourself! He may be a nice guy, but he''''''''s not an honest guy, he''''''''s used to cheating, to the closest people. He will coax his wife, children, her and her in all kinds of ways. None of them are unique, nor are they the last. Can such a person save his unhappy marriage? Can you be a good stepfather to your child? All the women he got along with were unaware of each other''''''''s existence. He thought he was handling it well. He would recently go out with a woman for a drive, and then said that he would go home early with the children, and then turned off his phone and went on a date with another woman. Just a few days ago, after he came back from dating with my best friend, he hurriedly said a few words to my best friend, and after that, he turned off the phone and didn''''''''t reply. He said he was teaching children to study. He later took the time to see another her. Later, at 12 o''''''''clock, he called and said that he wanted to make a video with my girlfriend to prove that he was at home. His lying face didn''''''''t change at all. He won''''''''t be trusted by anyone. Before, now, and in the future, it will not be trusted. He must die alone, this is his destination. Really don''''''''t go to harm others, anyone! Men who like to turn off their phones and mute messages are men with problems. Self-esteem and self-love stay away from scumbags. He is not worthy of the pursuit of happiness, the cuckold he wears to others has not been taken off completely, and the 11-year emotional entanglement between him and someone else''''''''s wife is not over yet, why should he pursue another person''''''''s wife on his own initiative, destroy another''''''''s marriage and children ? With the mutual respect and love of women for women, I wish you all the best of luck! --------------- Update: Male A and Female B was mentioned earlier. Man A and my best friend have had extramarital affairs for many years. After man A divorced, he cheated on other people''s wife woman B, causing woman B to separate and divorce. During this period, man A was dating woman B and my best friend at the same time, and concealed it from each other.
After man A confessed to my best friend, he felt guilty and went to confess to woman B about his past with my best friend. Female B didn''t say anything at the beginning of hearing, lowered her head and said "I wish you happiness". Then at three o''clock in the morning, she walked out of the house with bare feet, called man A and asked him to come to her. After meeting, he asked him who this lady (my best friend) was? and she wants to see her photos.
In the days that followed, Women B wanted to see Man A many times and asked him who she was.
In the words of man A, woman B had a general attitude towards him before, and didn''t care much about him, and they talked about children the most. But after man A confessed the existance of other woman, woman B seemed to be stimulated (injured), and she always took the initiative to see man A, and sometimes wanted to chat with man A after getting off work early. It seems that she cherishes man A more.
Man A felt that he had revealed his ugly side to others after he confessed, and he felt very depressed.
Woman B doesn''t seem to care so much, and wants to continue dating with man A, but she has to ask who that lady (my best friend) is from time to time and wants to see her photos.
有机会在office穿漂亮衣服 ---------- Key words: time management master, cheating in marriage, divorce, prying other people''''s wives to cause divorce, dating multiple women at the same time, bald, programmer, speculating on buying a house, halo of a famous domestic school, soccer coach Character relationship introduction I: a straightforward warrior Righteous people hate scumbags and feel sorry for girls who are bullied by scumbags. The affection and intimacy of women in my heart is better than that of men My best friend: a woman who is recognized at first sight in the crowd. Since childhood, she has been a good girl, and has been surrounded and protected by all kinds of high-quality boys all the way to famous schools. She has a good temperament and is elegant from the inside to the outside. My best friend and I have known each other for many years, and we have a very good relationship. My best friend is independent on the outside and very dependent on inner emotions. She was so well-protected since she was a child that she could easily trust others, and then she was injured and had no ability to bear it. She would talk to me and ask me to help her resolve it. Since she got married, she has been well protected by her husband, and it seems to outsiders that she is very happy. But I know the distress in her heart. She and I have nothing to say, our emotional dependence and trust go beyond friendship (this can be posted separately). Well, now to talk about what happened to her recently. There are two key people here - Male A : Graduated from a famous domestic school, loves sports, and has a relatively stable job. His (former) wife is a talented woman who is devoted to learning. Man A has always liked to be ambiguous with married women and cuckold others. He met my best friend eleven years ago and was fascinated by my best friend. In the cyberspace of the two, there are all kinds of sweet words and sincere confessions, and I even wrote a handwritten letter to my best friend, using the letterhead of my school (Is the improper extramarital affair a bit insulting to the school?), expressing my sincerity to my best friend. Girlfriend falls and becomes his lover. There are many dramas during this period. They seized every possible opportunity to date in his new and former home, in the rental house, in the garage, in the study, in the master bedroom, in any corner, with a taste of their passion. Everyday meal contact dating, frequent (basically every day!) passion in the back seat of the car, in the park, on the trail, they love boldly. Courage to love each other. They bravely love each other, but there is a heavy price. In A man''''s own words, he was punished and his family was separated. (Man A''''s various bad behaviors were noticed by his wife, disliked, separated, divorced, and after the divorce, he started to hook up and chat with another wife, B woman, interfered in other people''''s marriages, shared his divorce agreement with the other party, encouraged and helped the other party to divorce .) Female B: Male A taught local Chinese children to play soccer during the epidemic, and female B, the mother of the soccer team child, started hooking up, and took the initiative to say that he was divorced and single, and then began to chat about this middle-aged woman, the two chatted hot They hooked up with each other and developed good feelings for each other. The woman B, who was in a mid-life crisis, moved her mind to buy a house, implying that A man had bought the house and planned to separate, and then A man provided his separation agreement to B woman, encouraging her to divorce. Before the two could wait for B''''s female husband to move out, they started dating (again with a green hat). In the meantime, she was discovered by B''''s female husband and found A''''s man to talk. A man is thick-skinned and very good at getting things done. Afterwards, he praised B''''s husband as a good woman, and also said that the married woman''''s husband he was familiar with was good (so he could be cuckolded for being bullied?). After that, the man A and the woman B put their children to sleep every day and quietly started dating, meeting, and walking in the community and nearby. This seems reasonable at first, but my best friend was hurt very much because of A man''''s time management master and concealment from each other. For so many years, including during the epidemic, A man and my girlfriend have been dating, chatting, sending messages and calling. When man A separated and divorced, the epidemic happened, and there were fewer opportunities for girlfriends and man A to meet. Both needed time to sort out their moods and matters at hand. But the two still take any chance they can to date at Man A''''s new home. Man A wants to meet my best friend and wants her, and is very passionate, especially after the vaccination in 2021, they seize any possible opportunity to date at his new home, make food, drink coffee, and do X. My best friend said that she wanted to use this method and company to try her best to soothe his injured heart. In February and March of this year, they also seized the opportunity to date passions in the car. After that, I couldn''''t take care of meeting because I was busy with other things, but their phone calls and messages were never interrupted! Just a few weeks ago, he suddenly told my best friend about the existence of another woman, B. While he was dating her, he was also dating my best friend. After he confessed to my girlfriend that he was dating another girl, he still went to bed with my girlfriend at his new home. He was very passionate. When he went to bed, he even asked if he could not use protective measures (beasts)! He said that he knew that my best friend was kind to him, and he would always keep his best friend in his heart and let him live a good life. But he was too lonely. He needed to find a woman to live on. He explained to his best friend that he and another she (girl B) had intimate hugs, held hands and stroked, but they had never really slept, saying that she had children at home, no Convenient to go to bed on a date. The two went on a sneaky date, walking around the neighborhood and making out. He also said that she was the mother of a child on the football team. She had a hot chat with him in August last year. Knowing that he was divorced and single, he helped him introduce a girlfriend, and then asked him to ask a civil lawyer. The two chatted and seduced each other and had a good impression , said that her mid-life crisis and her husband always quarreled, and later she took the initiative to tell him that she would buy a house at the end of the year, implying that he said she would also separate, implying that he encouraged him to pursue himself. The two started dating at the end of last year. Her husband hadn''''t moved out yet. Later, her husband found out that she was chatting with him and had a conversation with him. It was easily settled by him. After that, he also gave his divorce agreement to the woman for reference and encouraged her to get divorced. This man, he cheated on my best friend for many years, he has been infatuated with my best friend for many years, and now he is tired, hurt, feeling powerless and stressed in life, and started dating another girl behind my back. Caring for him and dating. She didn''''t know about the other, and she was also innocent and kept in the dark. Both were greened separately. He said that he was too lonely after the divorce and wanted to find someone to accompany him every day. At this time, someone separated and wanted to divorce. So he wanted to think about a dull life and find someone to help him cook and take care of the children. The female compatriots brighten their eyes: the person who is dating you may be someone who has cheated on someone for ten years behind his back. It is a common tactic to hook up with chat when you are not divorced. You are not the first, nor the last. One, please respect yourself! He may be a nice guy, but he''''s not an honest guy, he''''s used to cheating, to the closest people. He will coax his wife, children, her and her in all kinds of ways. None of them are unique, nor are they the last. Can such a person save his unhappy marriage? Can you be a good stepfather to your child? All the women he got along with were unaware of each other''''s existence. He thought he was handling it well. He would recently go out with a woman for a drive, and then said that he would go home early with the children, and then turned off his phone and went on a date with another woman. Just a few days ago, after he came back from dating with my best friend, he hurriedly said a few words to my best friend, and after that, he turned off the phone and didn''''t reply. He said he was teaching children to study. He later took the time to see another her. Later, at 12 o''''clock, he called and said that he wanted to make a video with my girlfriend to prove that he was at home. His lying face didn''''t change at all. He won''''t be trusted by anyone. Before, now, and in the future, it will not be trusted. He must die alone, this is his destination. Really don''''t go to harm others, anyone! Men who like to turn off their phones and mute messages are men with problems. Self-esteem and self-love stay away from scumbags. He is not worthy of the pursuit of happiness, the cuckold he wears to others has not been taken off completely, and the 11-year emotional entanglement between him and someone else''''s wife is not over yet, why should he pursue another person''''s wife on his own initiative, destroy another''''s marriage and children ? With the mutual respect and love of women for women, I wish you all the best of luck!
------------------------- repost：is this someone you know？ Key words: time management master, cheating in marriage, divorce, prying other people''''''''s wives to cause divorce, dating multiple women at the same time, bald, programmer, speculating on buying a house, halo of a famous domestic school, soccer coach
Character relationship introduction
I: a straightforward warrior Righteous people hate scumbags and feel sorry for girls who are bullied by scumbags. The affection and intimacy of women in my heart is better than that of men
My best friend: a woman who is recognized at first sight in the crowd. Since childhood, she has been a good girl, and has been surrounded and protected by all kinds of high-quality boys all the way to famous schools. She has a good temperament and is elegant from the inside to the outside.
My best friend and I have known each other for many years, and we have a very good relationship. My best friend is independent on the outside and very dependent on inner emotions. She was so well-protected since she was a child that she could easily trust others, and then she was injured and had no ability to bear it. She would talk to me and ask me to help her resolve it. Since she got married, she has been well protected by her husband, and it seems to outsiders that she is very happy. But I know the distress in her heart. She and I have nothing to say, our emotional dependence and trust go beyond friendship (this can be posted separately).
Well, now to talk about what happened to her recently. There are two key people here -
Male A : Graduated from a famous domestic school, loves sports, and has a relatively stable job. His (former) wife is a talented woman who is devoted to learning. Man A has always liked to be ambiguous with married women and cuckold others. He met my best friend eleven years ago and was fascinated by my best friend. In the cyberspace of the two, there are all kinds of sweet words and sincere confessions, and I even wrote a handwritten letter to my best friend, using the letterhead of my school (Is the improper extramarital affair a bit insulting to the school?), expressing my sincerity to my best friend. Girlfriend falls and becomes his lover. There are many dramas during this period. They seized every possible opportunity to date in his new and former home, in the rental house, in the garage, in the study, in the master bedroom, in any corner, with a taste of their passion. Everyday meal contact dating, frequent (basically every day!) passion in the back seat of the car, in the park, on the trail, they love boldly. Courage to love each other. They bravely love each other, but there is a heavy price. In A man''''''''s own words, he was punished and his family was separated. (Man A''''''''s various bad behaviors were noticed by his wife, disliked, separated, divorced, and after the divorce, he started to hook up and chat with another wife, B woman, interfered in other people''''''''s marriages, shared his divorce agreement with the other party, encouraged and helped the other party to divorce .)
Female B: Male A taught local Chinese children to play soccer during the epidemic, and female B, the mother of the soccer team child, started hooking up, and took the initiative to say that he was divorced and single, and then began to chat about this middle-aged woman, the two chatted hot They hooked up with each other and developed good feelings for each other. The woman B, who was in a mid-life crisis, moved her mind to buy a house, implying that A man had bought the house and planned to separate, and then A man provided his separation agreement to B woman, encouraging her to divorce. Before the two could wait for B''''''''s female husband to move out, they started dating (again with a green hat). In the meantime, she was discovered by B''''''''s female husband and found A''''''''s man to talk. A man is thick-skinned and very good at getting things done. Afterwards, he praised B''''''''s husband as a good woman, and also said that the married woman''''''''s husband he was familiar with was good (so he could be cuckolded for being bullied?). After that, the man A and the woman B put their children to sleep every day and quietly started dating, meeting, and walking in the community and nearby.
This seems reasonable at first, but my best friend was hurt very much because of A man''''''''s time management master and concealment from each other. For so many years, including during the epidemic, A man and my girlfriend have been dating, chatting, sending messages and calling. When man A separated and divorced, the epidemic happened, and there were fewer opportunities for girlfriends and man A to meet. Both needed time to sort out their moods and matters at hand. But the two still take any chance they can to date at Man A''''''''s new home. Man A wants to meet my best friend and wants her, and is very passionate, especially after the vaccination in 2021, they seize any possible opportunity to date at his new home, make food, drink coffee, and do X. My best friend said that she wanted to use this method and company to try her best to soothe his injured heart. In February and March of this year, they also seized the opportunity to date passions in the car. After that, I couldn''''''''t take care of meeting because I was busy with other things, but their phone calls and messages were never interrupted!
Just a few weeks ago, he suddenly told my best friend about the existence of another woman, B. While he was dating her, he was also dating my best friend. After he confessed to my girlfriend that he was dating another girl, he still went to bed with my girlfriend at his new home. He was very passionate. When he went to bed, he even asked if he could not use protective measures (beasts)! He said that he knew that my best friend was kind to him, and he would always keep his best friend in his heart and let him live a good life. But he was too lonely. He needed to find a woman to live on. He explained to his best friend that he and another she (girl B) had intimate hugs, held hands and stroked, but they had never really slept, saying that she had children at home, no Convenient to go to bed on a date. The two went on a sneaky date, walking around the neighborhood and making out. He also said that she was the mother of a child on the football team. She had a hot chat with him in August last year. Knowing that he was divorced and single, he helped him introduce a girlfriend, and then asked him to ask a civil lawyer. The two chatted and seduced each other and had a good impression , said that her mid-life crisis and her husband always quarreled, and later she took the initiative to tell him that she would buy a house at the end of the year, implying that he said she would also separate, implying that he encouraged him to pursue himself. The two started dating at the end of last year. Her husband hadn''''''''t moved out yet. Later, her husband found out that she was chatting with him and had a conversation with him. It was easily settled by him. After that, he also gave his divorce agreement to the woman for reference and encouraged her to get divorced.
This man, he cheated on my best friend for many years, he has been infatuated with my best friend for many years, and now he is tired, hurt, feeling powerless and stressed in life, and started dating another girl behind my back. Caring for him and dating. She didn''''''''t know about the other, and she was also innocent and kept in the dark. Both were greened separately.
He said that he was too lonely after the divorce and wanted to find someone to accompany him every day. At this time, someone separated and wanted to divorce. So he wanted to think about a dull life and find someone to help him cook and take care of the children.
The female compatriots brighten their eyes: the person who is dating you may be someone who has cheated on someone for ten years behind his back. It is a common tactic to hook up with chat when you are not divorced. You are not the first, nor the last. One, please respect yourself!
He may be a nice guy, but he''''''''s not an honest guy, he''''''''s used to cheating, to the closest people. He will coax his wife, children, her and her in all kinds of ways. None of them are unique, nor are they the last. Can such a person save his unhappy marriage? Can you be a good stepfather to your child?
All the women he got along with were unaware of each other''''''''s existence. He thought he was handling it well. He would recently go out with a woman for a drive, and then said that he would go home early with the children, and then turned off his phone and went on a date with another woman.
Just a few days ago, after he came back from dating with my best friend, he hurriedly said a few words to my best friend, and after that, he turned off the phone and didn''''''''t reply. He said he was teaching children to study. He later took the time to see another her. Later, at 12 o''''''''clock, he called and said that he wanted to make a video with my girlfriend to prove that he was at home. His lying face didn''''''''t change at all. He won''''''''t be trusted by anyone. Before, now, and in the future, it will not be trusted. He must die alone, this is his destination. Really don''''''''t go to harm others, anyone!
Men who like to turn off their phones and mute messages are men with problems. Self-esteem and self-love stay away from scumbags.
He is not worthy of the pursuit of happiness, the cuckold he wears to others has not been taken off completely, and the 11-year emotional entanglement between him and someone else''''''''s wife is not over yet, why should he pursue another person''''''''s wife on his own initiative, destroy another''''''''s marriage and children ?
With the mutual respect and love of women for women, I wish you all the best of luck!
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Update: Male A and Female B was mentioned earlier. Man A and my best friend have had extramarital affairs for many years. After man A divorced, he cheated on other people''s wife woman B, causing woman B to separate and divorce. During this period, man A was dating woman B and my best friend at the same time, and concealed it from each other.
After man A confessed to my best friend, he felt guilty and went to confess to woman B about his past with my best friend. Female B didn''t say anything at the beginning of hearing, lowered her head and said "I wish you happiness". Then at three o''clock in the morning, she walked out of the house with bare feet, called man A and asked him to come to her. After meeting, he asked him who this lady (my best friend) was? and she wants to see her photos.
In the days that followed, Women B wanted to see Man A many times and asked him who she was.
In the words of man A, woman B had a general attitude towards him before, and didn''t care much about him, and they talked about children the most. But after man A confessed the existance of other woman, woman B seemed to be stimulated (injured), and she always took the initiative to see man A, and sometimes wanted to chat with man A after getting off work early. It seems that she cherishes man A more.
Man A felt that he had revealed his ugly side to others after he confessed, and he felt very depressed.
Woman B doesn''t seem to care so much, and wants to continue dating with man A, but she has to ask who that lady (my best friend) is from time to time and wants to see her photos.
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大的：完成了一个有难度的项目，成就感满满。
最近几个新同事都是从军工企业转过来的，他们解释说厌烦了做杀人的武器，转到我们这里，做帮助人类健康的设备，感觉很好。
当然，paycheck绝对是需要滴！虽然不等着钱用，payday收到那个Email通知说发工资了还是会感觉很好
同事好相处的话还有社交的好处，行业是自己喜欢做的也会很享受。
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哈哈，这个
尊重，每年review的时候看到同事反馈很positive，感谢我帮他们解决了什么问题，很开心！比较重要的会议现在同事老板也主动问我意见。
好奇心和成就感，从小就喜欢打破砂锅问到底，对很多领域都感兴趣。正好又在一个跨领域的岗位上。经常接触前沿技术可太开心了。解决了问题眼见能帮助项目推进太有成就感了。
对孩子的影响，孩子现在经常说我是她的role model，因为她看着我怎么从0开始，怎么struggle到现在这个状态的。这是让我最开心的！我有时候写报告会主动请她帮我检查拼写和语法。她也很开心！
---------- Key words: time management master, cheating in marriage, divorce, prying other people''''s wives to cause divorce, dating multiple women at the same time, bald, programmer, speculating on buying a house, halo of a famous domestic school, soccer coach
Character relationship introduction
I: a straightforward warrior Righteous people hate scumbags and feel sorry for girls who are bullied by scumbags. The affection and intimacy of women in my heart is better than that of men
My best friend: a woman who is recognized at first sight in the crowd. Since childhood, she has been a good girl, and has been surrounded and protected by all kinds of high-quality boys all the way to famous schools. She has a good temperament and is elegant from the inside to the outside.
My best friend and I have known each other for many years, and we have a very good relationship. My best friend is independent on the outside and very dependent on inner emotions. She was so well-protected since she was a child that she could easily trust others, and then she was injured and had no ability to bear it. She would talk to me and ask me to help her resolve it. Since she got married, she has been well protected by her husband, and it seems to outsiders that she is very happy. But I know the distress in her heart. She and I have nothing to say, our emotional dependence and trust go beyond friendship (this can be posted separately).
Well, now to talk about what happened to her recently. There are two key people here -
Male A : Graduated from a famous domestic school, loves sports, and has a relatively stable job. His (former) wife is a talented woman who is devoted to learning. Man A has always liked to be ambiguous with married women and cuckold others. He met my best friend eleven years ago and was fascinated by my best friend. In the cyberspace of the two, there are all kinds of sweet words and sincere confessions, and I even wrote a handwritten letter to my best friend, using the letterhead of my school (Is the improper extramarital affair a bit insulting to the school?), expressing my sincerity to my best friend. Girlfriend falls and becomes his lover. There are many dramas during this period. They seized every possible opportunity to date in his new and former home, in the rental house, in the garage, in the study, in the master bedroom, in any corner, with a taste of their passion. Everyday meal contact dating, frequent (basically every day!) passion in the back seat of the car, in the park, on the trail, they love boldly. Courage to love each other. They bravely love each other, but there is a heavy price. In A man''''s own words, he was punished and his family was separated. (Man A''''s various bad behaviors were noticed by his wife, disliked, separated, divorced, and after the divorce, he started to hook up and chat with another wife, B woman, interfered in other people''''s marriages, shared his divorce agreement with the other party, encouraged and helped the other party to divorce .)
Female B: Male A taught local Chinese children to play soccer during the epidemic, and female B, the mother of the soccer team child, started hooking up, and took the initiative to say that he was divorced and single, and then began to chat about this middle-aged woman, the two chatted hot They hooked up with each other and developed good feelings for each other. The woman B, who was in a mid-life crisis, moved her mind to buy a house, implying that A man had bought the house and planned to separate, and then A man provided his separation agreement to B woman, encouraging her to divorce. Before the two could wait for B''''s female husband to move out, they started dating (again with a green hat). In the meantime, she was discovered by B''''s female husband and found A''''s man to talk. A man is thick-skinned and very good at getting things done. Afterwards, he praised B''''s husband as a good woman, and also said that the married woman''''s husband he was familiar with was good (so he could be cuckolded for being bullied?). After that, the man A and the woman B put their children to sleep every day and quietly started dating, meeting, and walking in the community and nearby.
This seems reasonable at first, but my best friend was hurt very much because of A man''''s time management master and concealment from each other. For so many years, including during the epidemic, A man and my girlfriend have been dating, chatting, sending messages and calling. When man A separated and divorced, the epidemic happened, and there were fewer opportunities for girlfriends and man A to meet. Both needed time to sort out their moods and matters at hand. But the two still take any chance they can to date at Man A''''s new home. Man A wants to meet my best friend and wants her, and is very passionate, especially after the vaccination in 2021, they seize any possible opportunity to date at his new home, make food, drink coffee, and do X. My best friend said that she wanted to use this method and company to try her best to soothe his injured heart. In February and March of this year, they also seized the opportunity to date passions in the car. After that, I couldn''''t take care of meeting because I was busy with other things, but their phone calls and messages were never interrupted!
Just a few weeks ago, he suddenly told my best friend about the existence of another woman, B. While he was dating her, he was also dating my best friend. After he confessed to my girlfriend that he was dating another girl, he still went to bed with my girlfriend at his new home. He was very passionate. When he went to bed, he even asked if he could not use protective measures (beasts)! He said that he knew that my best friend was kind to him, and he would always keep his best friend in his heart and let him live a good life. But he was too lonely. He needed to find a woman to live on. He explained to his best friend that he and another she (girl B) had intimate hugs, held hands and stroked, but they had never really slept, saying that she had children at home, no Convenient to go to bed on a date. The two went on a sneaky date, walking around the neighborhood and making out. He also said that she was the mother of a child on the football team. She had a hot chat with him in August last year. Knowing that he was divorced and single, he helped him introduce a girlfriend, and then asked him to ask a civil lawyer. The two chatted and seduced each other and had a good impression , said that her mid-life crisis and her husband always quarreled, and later she took the initiative to tell him that she would buy a house at the end of the year, implying that he said she would also separate, implying that he encouraged him to pursue himself. The two started dating at the end of last year. Her husband hadn''''t moved out yet. Later, her husband found out that she was chatting with him and had a conversation with him. It was easily settled by him. After that, he also gave his divorce agreement to the woman for reference and encouraged her to get divorced.
This man, he cheated on my best friend for many years, he has been infatuated with my best friend for many years, and now he is tired, hurt, feeling powerless and stressed in life, and started dating another girl behind my back. Caring for him and dating. She didn''''t know about the other, and she was also innocent and kept in the dark. Both were greened separately.
He said that he was too lonely after the divorce and wanted to find someone to accompany him every day. At this time, someone separated and wanted to divorce. So he wanted to think about a dull life and find someone to help him cook and take care of the children.
The female compatriots brighten their eyes: the person who is dating you may be someone who has cheated on someone for ten years behind his back. It is a common tactic to hook up with chat when you are not divorced. You are not the first, nor the last. One, please respect yourself!
He may be a nice guy, but he''''s not an honest guy, he''''s used to cheating, to the closest people. He will coax his wife, children, her and her in all kinds of ways. None of them are unique, nor are they the last. Can such a person save his unhappy marriage? Can you be a good stepfather to your child?
All the women he got along with were unaware of each other''''s existence. He thought he was handling it well. He would recently go out with a woman for a drive, and then said that he would go home early with the children, and then turned off his phone and went on a date with another woman.
Just a few days ago, after he came back from dating with my best friend, he hurriedly said a few words to my best friend, and after that, he turned off the phone and didn''''t reply. He said he was teaching children to study. He later took the time to see another her. Later, at 12 o''''clock, he called and said that he wanted to make a video with my girlfriend to prove that he was at home. His lying face didn''''t change at all. He won''''t be trusted by anyone. Before, now, and in the future, it will not be trusted. He must die alone, this is his destination. Really don''''t go to harm others, anyone!
Men who like to turn off their phones and mute messages are men with problems. Self-esteem and self-love stay away from scumbags.
He is not worthy of the pursuit of happiness, the cuckold he wears to others has not been taken off completely, and the 11-year emotional entanglement between him and someone else''''s wife is not over yet, why should he pursue another person''''s wife on his own initiative, destroy another''''s marriage and children ?
With the mutual respect and love of women for women, I wish you all the best of luck!
是的，这点很重要，得抓住中年的尾巴穿漂亮衣服，要不高跟鞋都无用武之地了。
对家庭的经济上的贡献
可惜马上要离职了，又不得不找新工作了。😭
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啥工作？layoff还是自己辞职啊
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