一句简单的英文“老师说我了”应该怎样翻译

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123kira
楼主 (北美华人网)
小朋友换了新学校 就是版上那个有名的C,pre-school 今年4岁,结果刚上不到一周回家和我说她不要去上学了。怎么也不说为什么。再仔细问会和我一个劲儿地说“老师说我了”之后也说不明白什么。打算和校长问一下,以前去学校从来没有这种情况。这个应该怎么翻译, teacher told me, teacher shouted at me, teacher educated me, 感觉都不太对劲。多谢!
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Asian123
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My daughter told me she felt uncomfortable at the classroom on xxx date, I want to understand what happened that day.
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M_OnTheWay
Be mad at me.

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wlsssw
criticize me
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graceka
Teacher scolded me.
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gokgs
Blamed me for ….
爱zumba
XXX teacher criticized me.
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baobaoguaiguai
Picked on me
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sugarbabylove
我也觉得mad at 比较好。中文意义上的“训”说实话我在这里说实话很少听到使用scold和criticize.
pick on 是不友善的针对,如果要用的花或许felt picked on更好?
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magnoliaceae
The teacher was harsh
mad at是对的
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lilywin
Blamed
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coretti
The teacher said something and her feelings were hurt
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123kira
等级不够无法点赞 不过这些说法感觉更adequate 一些 去写信了。。
被逼成了怨妇
Yell at me?
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gooog
小朋友换了新学校 就是版上那个有名的C,pre-school 今年4岁,结果刚上不到一周回家和我说她不要去上学了。怎么也不说为什么。再仔细问会和我一个劲儿地说“老师说我了”之后也说不明白什么。打算和校长问一下,以前去学校从来没有这种情况。这个应该怎么翻译, teacher told me, teacher shouted at me, teacher educated me, 感觉都不太对劲。多谢!
123kira 发表于 2022-08-19 16:21

in order to get accurate translation, first we need to know what exactly happened that day.
for example, did her teacher yell at her? did her teacher laugh at her? did her teacher mad at her? did her teacher blame at her? did her teacher praise her?
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apple44
小朋友换了新学校 就是版上那个有名的C,pre-school 今年4岁,结果刚上不到一周回家和我说她不要去上学了。怎么也不说为什么。再仔细问会和我一个劲儿地说“老师说我了”之后也说不明白什么。打算和校长问一下,以前去学校从来没有这种情况。这个应该怎么翻译, teacher told me, teacher shouted at me, teacher educated me, 感觉都不太对劲。多谢!
123kira 发表于 2022-08-19 16:21

我觉得第一步先跟老师沟通吧。问一下小朋友的表现,说一下小朋友好像适应有点问题,说不想上学了,问问老师有什么办法。 根据老师的反馈再决定下一步。
我娃4岁的时候说不清楚发生了什么。楼主娃说 “老师说我了” 可以有非常非常多的可能,而且很可能是老师是善意的提醒之类的,但娃不喜欢这种关注。
总之我觉得目前不需要跟校长沟通。

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Night_Cat
我也觉得mad at 比较好。中文意义上的“训”说实话我在这里说实话很少听到使用scold和criticize.
pick on 是不友善的针对,如果要用的花或许felt picked on更好?
sugarbabylove 发表于 2022-08-19 16:34

Scold不少见啊,lz说的就是应该用scolded,或者口语一点用told someone off
用mad at不准确,首先你并不需要be mad at someone to scold them,其次mad at描述的是老师的emotion,不是action,这种有潜在指责性质的话不适合这么说,会让人defensive
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wlsssw
ABC 孩子英语表达能力不够好的时候在学校一定很frustrated。
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lotusinsnow
建议楼主语气委婉一点:For some reason my daughter doesn't wanna go to school any more saying that her teacher was mad at her last Wed. I would like to know more about what happened and how I can help her out.
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franzia
mad at? 你们都是认真的?老师mad at四岁小孩?
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lotusinsnow
老美mad at随便用啊,就是有点生气呗。不是你想象的那么mad的。而且从小孩嘴里说出,就是觉得老师mad at 她啊。
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Lindtcafe
用mad或者criticize都太具体了,老师完全可以不认账。比较通常的说法是:Mrs XXX told me off.
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kuklara
Teacher corrected me impolitely
浮云淡淡
Teacher corrected me impolitely
kuklara 发表于 2022-08-19 17:23

。。。
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MoonRiverMe
要换了我就跟校长说:my little girl told me she didn’t want to go to school anymore, I asked why she then told me her teacher had a serious talk with her. She is only 4 years old I wonder what she has done in her class.
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littlelittle
blame,应该好点
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wlsssw
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这个可以
果酱罐子
4岁的小孩说mad at是合理的
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brookeyang
Single her out. Put her in the spot.
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linne
admonish
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123kira
我最后和老师用的是blamed her..Mad at更形象,不过感觉不够formal..比如小孩儿说我(她妈),她可以说mom gets mad at me..我写的是.......she mentioned to us that the teacher blamed her........xxxxx [还有其它的事情].......But as you know, at her age, she may not express clearly what actually happened....
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coretti
The teacher said something to her and she was upset and didn't want to go to school any more.
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Asian123
肯定是不能提老师不好的,要校长自己去调查一下就行了,然后等他答复为啥
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iamamrman
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Mr/Ms + last name talked to him/her (about something). 在美国学校不说某某teacher, 而说 Mr 或 Ms某某 。如果具体说了什么就要用特定的词,例如 told, yell at, shout at, blame on, criticize, mad at, 等.
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iamamrman
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或 Mr. / Ms. + last name said something about me.
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page394
ABC 孩子英语表达能力不够好的时候在学校一定很frustrated。
wlsssw 发表于 2022-08-19 17:02

有时候也能傻乐呵。 朋友说的,某daycare娃回家告诉家长老师表扬我了。家长说怎么表扬的啊,娃说,老师说 xx, be nice. 嗯。
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twincity
scold, 对应中文的训斥,你娃就是这个意思吧?
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csliz
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qingtian10
The teacher told me off.
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gvcc
The teacher's picking on me.
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Night_Cat
4岁的小孩说mad at是合理的
果酱罐子 发表于 2022-08-19 19:03

小孩可以这么说,你作为家长去跟学校理论不能这么说啊,得艺术一点,不然落人口实。除了上面说的scold和told her off,也可以说gave her a talking-to或者was stern with her
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Yuangungun
先问问孩子前因后果,老师说了,到底说了什么,为什么说
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crabbaby
个人觉得如果不问出来到底是“说了”什么,很难有一个准确的翻译,反而会误导或者歧义,或者让老师、学校有defensive的对应。 不如像ls一位jm说的,就说want to find out, or help me understand.
或者再耐心引导孩子说一下,孩子不能用英文表达吗?
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boxwood
The teacher said something and her feelings were hurt
coretti 发表于 2022-08-19 16:39

+1。这么说很准确
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Sophon
你的关注点不应该是英语表达的问题。你现在的问题更不是马上下定论说老师怎么怎么了你的孩子,而是自己冷静下来跟孩子多聊聊,然后找个机会跟老师说说孩子在学校的表现,弄明白问题才能对症下药。一上来就指责人家mad at you or my daughter told me blablabla 都只会make things complicated. 而且小孩子才四岁第一天上学有问题有情绪很正常,家长应该注意引导情绪。
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God2me
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这个是想说老师批评的意思么?这样的话叫 teacher reprimanded me.
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nihainihai
teacher had some negative feedback on her and she feels sad for it
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hifromhere
估计是说的语气不好,那就用raised her voice at my child吧。
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wchippo
The teach said a few reminders to me today.
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God2me
Raise voice 这个是脑补吗?说了不代表提高嗓门吧? 不要无中生有.
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God2me
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Pick on 是估意找茬,别不知道拿耒就用
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miavita
教你们一个gds的词 reprimand.
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ConnieBear
难道不是直译,Ms.xx said something to xx, and she is upset about it.
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goldfish
My teacher was so mean. Haha
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ecnanif
小朋友换了新学校 就是版上那个有名的C,pre-school 今年4岁,结果刚上不到一周回家和我说她不要去上学了。怎么也不说为什么。再仔细问会和我一个劲儿地说“老师说我了”之后也说不明白什么。打算和校长问一下,以前去学校从来没有这种情况。这个应该怎么翻译, teacher told me, teacher shouted at me, teacher educated me, 感觉都不太对劲。多谢!
123kira 发表于 2022-08-19 16:21


不要去问校长,先问老师发生了什么。 就说他不愿上学,说he is upset about sth the teacher said to him. 何老师交流后你觉得效果不好再找老师。 越级找校长老师不高兴的。
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coconutam
所以发生了什么
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Doe
关键的是老师说“什么”了。说,可以是the teacher said something to her。完全 neutral。scold,blame,mad at,感情色彩非常强烈,符合事实吗?pick on,对老师的行为就已经是贬义的叙述了。慎用。
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Zhaogu
最简单直接的:Ms. XX had a talk with X and X is very upset. I want to understand what has happened. Have a talk或者Give somebody a talk本身就有批评教育的意思
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thymesu
Teacher had attitude to my kid? Picky on? Unfriendly to my kid. Impatient?
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hifromhere
Raise voice 这个是脑补吗?说了不代表提高嗓门吧? 不要无中生有.
God2me 发表于 2022-08-19 22:22

网友只是根据上下文猜测这个说是什么意思而已。对,就是脑补。你不用那么mean地评论。碰巧昨天美国朋友孩子相似情况不愿意上学,跟我说她孩子说老师对他raised voice了(说他了,但是没有骂那么严重,声音语气不好而已)。楼上有建议得很好,楼主要做的是好好沟通找出孩子不愿意上学的原因。
再说,你建议的reprimand比这个严重多了。你自己查查字典再说吧。日常没有人这么用这个词的。这相当于正式的口头警告,再犯就有惩罚的了。
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peacemind
很简单,The teacher talked to / had a conversation with my daughter. She came back home really upset and wouldn’t go to school next day. I’d like to find out what was going on. 重点不在老师是吼了说了批评了还是骂了孩子,因为你不在现场,孩子又说不清,不能随便定义的。关键是老师跟她谈话以后她很不高兴不愿上学了。这么多回复都是想当然的用词。
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bellamia
在学校老师批评纠正孩子也是太正常了,孩子不懂家长要引导,大事化小。同时和老师沟通一下,是我的话会和老师说:Ms. XX, i just wanted to follow up to see if there’s anything I could do at home to help renforce the rules at school.
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jinhorse14
Tell off
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SonicBunny
老师说什么了?如果孩子讲话,老师叫不要讲话,这种我们叫redirect。一般老师都是先不说名字全班提醒两三次,如果孩子还是不听,才开始点名的,这还是redirect。pick on, scold, mad at,这种词是孩子complain老师的时候才会用的,我们跟家长说的都是redirect,如果需要time out,我们叫cool down/reset/refocus。Conversation一般都是在课后发生的,1对1的谈话,如果上课小声提醒那是reminder。
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boxwood
不要简单问题复杂化啊。娃还是要去这家幼儿园还是天天要跟这老师在一起。就说the teacher probably said a few words to my child and she seemed to be a little upset. She is still too young to articulate well so I am just reaching out to see if there is something we as parents should be aware of and can help.总之要抱合作态度,不能是兴师问罪。真有问题那就换一家。
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86度D
很简单,The teacher talked to / had a conversation with my daughter. She came back home really upset and wouldn’t go to school next day. I’d like to find out what was going on. 重点不在老师是吼了说了批评了还是骂了孩子,因为你不在现场,孩子又说不清,不能随便定义的。关键是老师跟她谈话以后她很不高兴不愿上学了。这么多回复都是想当然的用词。
peacemind 发表于 2022-08-20 11:41

同意这个,the teacher talked to / had a conversation with her
永远的小飞侠
Maybe “Ms.xxx called her doing something wrong?”
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ItIsTime
gave me a lession?
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123kira
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这个著名的C学校不让家长和老师直接接触 只能通过校长(其实是Director title)。。
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Stella
著名的C是啥 既然大家都知道 何苦用暗号
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poppyjasper
teacher say I 了

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Writingpad
gave me a lession?
ItIsTime 发表于 2022-08-20 14:01

这肯定不能用啊
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God2me
回复 61楼hifromhere的帖子
你才mean 还有神经病
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miaommiaomm
Her teacher was upset/not happy and had a talk with her.I want to follow up and get more details.
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fayehui
told off
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pianomastro
my teach went bat shit on me today.
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123kira
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就是学校名 不公布了
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linne
会上来说的,应该属于华人网友里面英文比较好的吧,除了少数几个讲得很好,也是被大部分华人大妈的英文给震住了。
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Dwar
学到了
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Dwar
可以的
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Dwar
说法真的挺多的·
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DmanK
哈哈哈
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DmanK
今天又学到了新知识!·‘’
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lotusyoga9
不过说真的我倒觉得meta志不在多赚钱,而是扎克伯格想要一些个人实现。fb marketplace当时刚一推出就非常有前途,不过并没有在这个最能赚钱的增长点上继续投入太多。 回错帖子了
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Pandatwins
mark
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123kira
真的是学习到了 能有这么多种说法
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gvcc
回复 41楼gvcc的帖子
Pick on 是估意找茬,别不知道拿耒就用
God2me 发表于 2022-08-19 22:25

当然看语境。如果LZ小孩表现不好,闹腾,违规,被老师说,则是mad at me, or upset about me。如果LZ孩子和其他学生一样,中规中矩,而老师针对他,就是picking on。而第二种情况在学校太常见了。从LZ的描述看,第2种情况居多。