回复 66楼tidewater的帖子 I cannot type Chinese on this computer so bear with my English. Thank you very much for sharing your analysis. I would love to know what books you have read to form the ideas. I observed colleagues in my work environment for a while. Within the small sample, the more collaborative coworkers largely are from families have the traits of love and encouragement. They feel secure to share info, problems they are facing, or disagreement. They take difficulties a normal process in life. Expression of frustration is not atypical among them but after that they tend to shift focus to to figure out ways to solve the issue or choose to move on if they can. The art of not making assumption on other people or their motives rather trying to figure out how to facing the issue is what I could really steal a page from. The saying "taking negative comments for making improvements, not as judgments." is a good reminder to me. Thank you very much.
同求书名。真的是这样的。
哦我曾经多彷徨，四周一无安息土 笑声留不住欢乐，眼泪带不走痛苦
我说生命不稀奇，一声叹息归尘土 放弃一切的追求，任凭潮水带我走
一首歌，空谷的回声，有兴趣的可以去听听。我觉得这几句歌词真的反映了我那时的心境，低得不能再低。但是后来我找到了人生的盼望
从来都是自己， +1. 只要怀着希望,给自己设个目标，会跨过去的。 还有就是今天多不开心的事儿到明天都淡了，今年再大的事儿，到明年都是小事了·~~
还有人生无大事，钱，感情，回头看都不是什么过不去的坎，要好好的快乐的活着，对别人没有期望也就没有失望。
Support system 就是你自己
I cannot type Chinese on this computer so bear with my English. Thank you very much for sharing your analysis. I would love to know what books you have read to form the ideas.
I observed colleagues in my work environment for a while. Within the small sample, the more collaborative coworkers largely are from families have the traits of love and encouragement. They feel secure to share info, problems they are facing, or disagreement. They take difficulties a normal process in life. Expression of frustration is not atypical among them but after that they tend to shift focus to to figure out ways to solve the issue or choose to move on if they can. The art of not making assumption on other people or their motives rather trying to figure out how to facing the issue is what I could really steal a page from.
The saying "taking negative comments for making improvements, not as judgments." is a good reminder to me. Thank you very much.
只有自己，和就算为了孩子也不能死的信念
再顶一下，我们已经成团了
抱抱妹妹！妹妹真的是生活的强者！希望妹妹生活越走越好！
女人对包真是有执念啊，这种至暗时刻想到的居然是包。同祝生活越走越好！
是啊，有时候也不知道怎么熬过来的。所有关心过的，被关心过的等等等等
对自己的自我肯定，天生我才必有用。心灵的安慰从来都只是靠自己而来。不攀比不假装，面对真实，肯定真实，接受真实。
对啊 一眼就看到包😂
失去执念也是成长的一部分啊！之前追求的那些虚无缥缈的东西，在真正的人生挫折面前就是这么不堪一击。
不容易啊！ 抱抱层主
Only yourself
Bless
孩子老公和闺蜜们亲友们 爸妈不靠谱 这世界有很多人很幸运 大家各自有福 没有爹妈帮 有其他人也很好 那是爹妈花了两百万rmb的低谷 不多也不少的漫长一年
佩服
想想上有老，下有小，真是没有战斗的勇气
你们觉得，很苦很苦，该有多苦？