回复 22楼laurenplus的帖子 夜里不喂奶特别是开始一个月is really bad for establishing breast milk supply.... Peak breast milk is around 2am You have to at least pump or feed once.
回复 27楼vivil的帖子 You have to feed frequently at night in the first few weeks. The baby is often cluster feeding where they are essentially hanging off your boob. You don't need to change diaper every three hours for newborn.. I didn't have to do anything other than watch tv lay in bed, take walks, and feed the baby around the clock. I don't think any nanny can feed the baby on your behalf. I didn't want to risk my breastmilk supply. I don't see any value at all in the first month for someone to feed the baby at night on my behalf since this period is crucial for establishing breastfeeding relationship. someone can feed the baby at night once the baby is a bit older and can sleep through the night and it won't impact the breastmilk supply. I see much more value in someone helping at that point rather than the immediate postpartum period.
回复 27楼vivil的帖子 You have to feed frequently at night in the first few weeks. The baby is often cluster feeding where they are essentially hanging off your boob. You don't need to change diaper every three hours for newborn.. I didn't have to do anything other than watch tv lay in bed, take walks, and feed the baby around the clock. I don't think any nanny can feed the baby on your behalf. I didn't want to risk my breastmilk supply. I don't see any value at all in the first month for someone to feed the baby at night on my behalf since this period is crucial for establishing breastfeeding relationship. someone can feed the baby at night once the baby is a bit older and can sleep through the night and it won't impact the breastmilk supply. I see much more value in someone helping at that point rather than the immediate postpartum period. sweatyarmpit007 发表于 2022-06-01 05:51
回复 32楼的帖子 I hired someone to do almost everything else other than breastfeeding and take care of the baby at night. You know, my husband also has arms.. that can carry baby, wipe the baby''s ass and cook.. I didn''t cook or clean that much because between my husband and our housekeeper there wasn''t that much to do
I don''t think many people need an 24 hours a day nanny if someone is already cleaning cooking and helping with the baby during day time and the mother only needs to breastfeed, and help with the baby at night
You are making it sound like everyvody needs these 月嫂。 Most really are fine with sufficient domestic help.
I don''t think many people need an 24 hours a day nanny if someone is already cleaning cooking and helping with the baby during day time and the mother only needs to breastfeed, and help with the baby at night
You are making it sound like everyvody needs these 月嫂。 Most really are fine with sufficient domestic help.
多谢 各位热心mm的回复 我大体上有了解了
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问一下版上最近请过月嫂的姐妹，现在都什么价格？
刚跟一个月嫂聊了一下 26天 8800+10%小费….
她是专业持证十年经验
我们daycare也有一个看起来是墨西哥裔的老师，我娃和其他几个娃超级喜欢，真的是能干，有亲和力，有经验管娃，关键真心爱娃。很多墨西哥裔的阿姨真的很不错的
多谢MM提供这些信息 我都不知道这些网站….. 我去翻翻看
可能有点焦虑 当初没想到还有这些可行性…. 多谢 经验分享
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多谢 MM 问一下 你的月嫂在哪里找的？我在月嫂红黑榜上找的
月嫂主要是为了半夜有人搭把手确保新妈妈睡好觉 请普通墨西哥阿姨难道带晚上而且也不管做饭啊？钟点工也不做饭啊 请night nurse比月嫂还贵
但最好不要自己瞎找，找熟人或者熟人的熟人推荐最近用过的最好。
我也是疫情前请的，楼主这个价格比当时高但是没有跑赢通胀
可以在红黑榜上贴广告。也可以在圣诞妈妈网上贴广告。我还加了一个本地保姆群。里面有月嫂把我的广告转到了他们月嫂自己的群里。本地口碑好的月嫂不一定上这些网站上求职。比如我的月嫂阿姨是马里兰的，基本只在本地接单不愁没工作。正好有一单临时cancel我通过微信群才找到了她。 一定要不怕麻烦多面试，谈5-10个你就有感觉了。不要怕麻烦随便谈一个就签了。
Postpartum doula没听说过吗？老美也要找人照顾新生儿的，只是大部分人请不起而已，只能自己来或者老妈帮忙
月子里不起夜不涨奶吗？？就算不亲喂
我请墨西哥阿姨 （其实是美国人）都可以做。 人家一下子看七八个小孩都不在话下。 业务能力强。
夜里不喂奶特别是开始一个月is really bad for establishing breast milk supply.... Peak breast milk is around 2am You have to at least pump or feed once.
新生儿夜里三小时一次喂奶换尿布，这个墨西哥阿姨可以做到吗？新妈妈半夜和一大早泵奶，还是可以睡6-7小时的整觉。前两周休息的好很重要。
多谢 多谢
所以我一开始的安排是订月子餐3500+请美国的overnight care doula 一小时30 一晚上270 +清洁工
结果我生娃非常不顺利 生完孩子身体极度虚弱 我先生在不用做饭做清洁 也不用夜里陪护宝宝的情况下 因为白天要照顾我和宝宝 他还是日渐憔悴……这时候我们的朋友推荐了一个月嫂给我们，简直是救命。帮我调理身体，推拿；白天晚上都帮我们照顾宝宝……宝宝一开始有一点尿布疹，月嫂来了三天就调整好了，宝宝和我的睡眠都改善很多。我月嫂是250一天+20%小费
我们的经验教训总结来说就是 月嫂肯定良莠不齐 但如果有朋友推荐能请到好的 还是比分散开来外包要效果好很多 还省钱。
月子里三个小时不泵奶 就涨的不行。。
You have to feed frequently at night in the first few weeks. The baby is often cluster feeding where they are essentially hanging off your boob. You don't need to change diaper every three hours for newborn.. I didn't have to do anything other than watch tv lay in bed, take walks, and feed the baby around the clock. I don't think any nanny can feed the baby on your behalf. I didn't want to risk my breastmilk supply.
I don't see any value at all in the first month for someone to feed the baby at night on my behalf since this period is crucial for establishing breastfeeding relationship.
someone can feed the baby at night once the baby is a bit older and can sleep through the night and it won't impact the breastmilk supply. I see much more value in someone helping at that point rather than the immediate postpartum period.
你运气好，生下来就能够喝全母乳，拉了捂着六小时才换尿布娃不会红屁股，小娃不用抱睡走来走去哄。月子里抱娃不会有腰疼胳膊疼的问题。而且看起来你还不用操心做饭呢？而且你恢复的好马上可以带娃我有朋友生完一个月没法下床呢
不是所有人都有这个运气
我当时两小时跟娃同步起来亲喂不够喝要用奶泵再继续追奶
同时娃要补瓶喂，小屁股娇嫩必须要换尿布，睡觉必须抱着走来走去哄谁再轻轻放下。这些都是月嫂的活。全我来不用睡觉了。
白天也是有人帮忙我可以母乳完呼呼睡补觉，啥活都不干。
微信群里多少人抱娃抱久了落下疼痛未来几年跑physical therapy 的。我也是其中一个，整个月子就抱了一次娃，就那一次落下一边腰疼的毛病，后来再没敢抱过娃，之后站着坐着都腰疼花了两年才算显著改善平时不疼了，现在快五年了还没有彻底恢复。
I hired someone to do almost everything else other than breastfeeding and take care of the baby at night.
You know, my husband also has arms.. that can carry baby, wipe the baby''s ass and cook.. I didn''t cook or clean that much because between my husband and our housekeeper there wasn''t that much to do
I don''t think many people need an 24 hours a day nanny if someone is already cleaning cooking and helping with the baby during day time and the mother only needs to breastfeed, and help with the baby at night
You are making it sound like everyvody needs these 月嫂。 Most really are fine with sufficient domestic help.
这不废话吗？有sufficient help当然可以想怎么就怎么。我可没一句说必须请月嫂，何况月嫂也不是24h的。大家请月嫂不就是为了sufficient help吗