當你猶豫他值不值得嫁時,不妨參考“愛彌爾定理”。

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miQQim
楼主 (北美华人网)
每個人在進入婚姻之前,其實都會有所考量,能不能跟眼前這個人同甘共苦,相互扶持。
而基於每個人身上都會有缺點,都沒有那麼十全十美,我們又會十分糾結和猶豫,在進入婚姻後,能不能相互包容和理解。
當你因為某一點糾結猶豫眼前這個人值不值得嫁時,千萬不要進入“愛彌爾定理”的圈套,要麼勇敢分手,繼續尋找更合適的那一個,要麼勇敢一點,賭一把。糾結猶豫,只會讓你浪費時間,浪費生命,蹉跎了大好的時光。
活在當下!不要妄圖時間給我們答案,也不要妄想遺失的歲月能夠換來我們想要的天長地久。
有時候愛情就需要一點點冒險,不去嘗試,又如何知道對方是不是命中註定的那個人呢?

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tidewater
要么嫁,要么滚。所谓的爱情长跑,如果不是环境限制,都是小九九。
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