请问如何委婉礼貌的说出：I don't know what you don't know

请问如何委婉礼貌的说出, 在工作中间： I don't know what you don't know

没看明白，看来楼主得先学学怎么说话再学怎么委婉说话

请问如何委婉礼貌的说出, 在工作中间： I don't know what you don't know
christinalop 发表于 2022-01-13 12:37

你到底想要表达什么

Please let me know how to help you.

you mean "I don't know what I don't know"? 我不知道的事你能怎么着？I would say: We'll have to get back to you on that after a deeper dive into it. or Can we take this offline and I will follow up with more analysis?

读了五遍才明白楼主想说什么

You know as much as I do/ your guess is as good as mine

I know nothing more than you

you mean "I don't know what I don't know"? 我不知道的事你能怎么着？I would say: We'll have to get back to you on that after a deeper dive into it. or Can we take this offline and I will follow up with more analysis?
bellamia 发表于 2022-01-13 12:49

我觉得楼主想说
I don't know what you don't know (so I cannot tell you what you don't know / stop asking me when you don't know)
类似于别老来烦我的意思
不过她这个表达能力实在是。。。。

You know as much as I do/ your guess is as good as mine
3kingdom 发表于 2022-01-13 12:50

你没看懂楼主意思
楼主想说，你都不知道自己不懂在哪里，我也很难帮你。

you mean "I don't know what I don't know"? 我不知道的事你能怎么着？I would say: We'll have to get back to you on that after a deeper dive into it. or Can we take this offline and I will follow up with more analysis?
bellamia 发表于 2022-01-13 12:49

你显然理解错了

Your guess is as good as mine.

我觉得楼主想说
I don't know what you don't know (so I cannot tell you what you don't know / stop asking me when you don't know)
类似于别老来烦我的意思
不过她这个表达能力实在是。。。。
Cumberbitch 发表于 2022-01-13 12:52

正解

I have as much information as you do right now.

楼主说：你不知道的别人没法教会你！

Your guess is as good as mine.
morningcoffee 发表于 2022-01-13 12:53

完美。

楼主说：你不知道的别人没法教会你！
SAT 发表于 2022-01-13 12:54

但那句英文没这个意思。

Help me understand your concern

楼主是想说什么？用中文说一遍？

我立刻就get了楼主，因为也遇到这样的情况。比如一个新人干不好自己的任务，老是拿I'm still new做借口，觉得人家没有把要做的任务给他讲清楚怎么做，所以不是自己的错。于是交待事情的人就郁闷了，我哪知道你会干啥不会干啥，我从哪里给你讲起啊？
我也不太会说话，所以也不知道怎么委婉的说。

你没看懂楼主意思
楼主想说，你都不知道自己不懂在哪里，我也很难帮你。
789 发表于 2022-01-13 12:52

我一开始也以为是这个意思， 再一看还是应该是： 你不知道的，我也不知道。

我时不时在工作中也会说呀，很rude吗？我说的时候一般是教新人的时候，想表达的是：如果你有问题但是不问，我是不会知道的，我会假设你都知道了。

我不知道你不知道的？ 哲学问题了

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学习啦！！！

楼主来揭开谜底吧～～～

没看懂楼主意思

我立刻就get了楼主，因为也遇到这样的情况。比如一个新人干不好自己的任务，老是拿I'm still new做借口，觉得人家没有把要做的任务给他讲清楚怎么做，所以不是自己的错。于是交待事情的人就郁闷了，我哪知道你会干啥不会干啥，我从哪里给你讲起啊？
我也不太会说话，所以也不知道怎么委婉的说。
jeweljewel 发表于 2022-01-13 13:19

我也懂楼主的意思。不过就是这种情况没法委婉了。如果是下属，我碰到这种情况就要求对方写一下他的理解，步骤细节。。。然后大家来订正。如果是同事，就请他讲一下，或者我自己讲一遍。如果对方是老板的话，那就仔仔细细地汇报工作吧。

I would ask him/her to ask specific questions. 会问问题了才是解决问题的开始

楼主的意思应该是： 我不知道你有哪些地方不懂或需要帮助。 有些新人不干活，还抱怨都是因为你没有教他，这里就可以用到这句话了。

我觉得你没必要再交流下去了，你想想怎么跟她/他的reporting manager讲/share一下你的feedback吧。communication is a skill, 两个skill都不好的人在一起会越来越麻烦。

Beats me 或者 I ain’t your mama

lz是想说你不出声我哪知道你不懂啊？
If you have any questions or need any help, please don’t hesitate to speak up. I would have assumed you are good to start otherwise.