避免说冒犯人的英语!

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mouton
楼主 (北美华人网)

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  1 要问别人是否听懂自己表达的意思了,   不要说 Do you understand? Do you understand? – 实际的意思听到了没?听懂了没? 用在大人说孩子的语境里是可以的,但平时日常沟通这样说语气其实是有攻击性的,比如 不要说Did I make myself clear? / do I make myself clear? / is that clear? Did I make myself clear- 实际的意思 - 我讲得够清楚了吗?听明白我意思了吗? 正确说法 - Does it make sense? Do you know what I mean? See what I mean? Do you know what I’m saying?   4要表达”我明白了, 我懂了” 不能说I know I know实际的意思是表示我早知道了,别啰嗦了,有点不耐烦的意思。 正确说法 - I see (what you mean) / I got it / I got you.   @@@@ 其实I know 有个特别好的用法,生活工作中经常用到,show you agree with something someone has just said就是 (表示赞同,感同身受) 是的,没错;是!感叹语气   A: He has a high opinion of himself.  B: I know! A: 他自我感觉良好。B: 没错!   A: His presentation was so boring!  B: I know! A: 他的报告太无聊了。B: 是!   2 要询问别人的名字, 最好不要直接问What's your name?” What"s your name的问法其实是不太礼貌的,对刚认识的同事,上司这样说有些唐突   那该怎么问呢?最好用请求句式 ,请求句式最能表达出委婉客气。 Can I have your name please?/ May I have your name?   @@@假如别人告诉过我们名字,可是我们自己忘记了,想再问一下,怎么说呢?sorry I forgot your name, what is it? 这样说虽然对方也能明白,但是听起来就不地道,   正确说法 -  Sorry, what was your name again? 对不起,你叫什么来着?请再说一遍你的名字好吗?   這個句子和what’s your name?很像,但是注意这里用的是 was (is的过去式) 。说明我们知道别人告诉过我们名字了,我们自己忘记了。最后,我们再加again到末尾,再次告诉对方你记得以前他告诉过你名字,只是现在想不起来了。
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shanggj
Do you understand the words that coming out my mouth?
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tinytoy
lz的发音还是needs work。另外,这些也不是特别让人感觉良好的说法 - Do you know what I mean? See what I mean? Do you know what I’m saying?
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yolandos
Are you talking to me?
Are you talking to me?
They call me...Mister....Pig!!!