My personal experience - Let the kids run their own life. My parents are both career minded and I was left alone almost all the time. I was able to grasp things and be responsible for my own life. It has been serving me right. But in the end, it is largely driven by each kids' own personality. There are kids that are naturally sensitive. My take is to let them be themselves and don't try to make them someone else.
My personal experience - Let the kids run their own life. My parents are both career minded and I was left alone almost all the time. I was able to grasp things and be responsible for my own life. It has been serving me right. But in the end, it is largely driven by each kids' own personality. There are kids that are naturally sensitive. My take is to let them be themselves and don't try to make them someone else. sNoOpY_cA 发表于 2021-04-10 06:54
比如我的孩子，经常这个做不好就quit，那个没人家强就说不学了。很怕有压力。
My personal experience - Let the kids run their own life.
My parents are both career minded and I was left alone almost all the time. I was able to grasp things and be responsible for my own life. It has been serving me right.
But in the end, it is largely driven by each kids' own personality. There are kids that are naturally sensitive. My take is to let them be themselves and don't try to make them someone else.
的确是个性，大部分的孩子成长过程中还是需要父母的监督和引导
re, 你能做到这些是因为你的经历，还有运气好的成分。很多人在挫折面前会更加颓废，而不是遇强则强。所以说人生是玄学。
中国传统文化里敏于行，讷于言,有失偏颇。其实说话真的是能力，不是夸夸其谈，组织语言，传递信息，在工作和生活中非常重要
我非常喜欢你的比喻，学习了
说得太好了
我是发现如果自己家长特别注重结果的话，我会不敢放开手去做事，会患得患失做不好怎么办。反而是家长不在乎的方向自推起来很带劲，因为做不好也没后果，自己可以enjoy这个过程，最后反而有了一套与父母推的方向不符的skill set。
说的太好了