鲜花的这个帖子,你们怎么看?

weee21
https://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.html?topicid=2667216&fid=398
ChristinaW 发表于 2021-03-22 22:59

一个白男, 如果他约会过各种族裔, 他约会亚裔女子没什么可说的; 如果他只约会亚裔女子, 但都是背景与之匹配的,我觉得也无可厚非。 如果他约会的亚裔女子, 从洗头妹到女医生都有, 那就是fetish, deal breaker
MeekSarah
初步略读,我个人的观点取向是 如此 sort out this information: 
无论族裔:我想分享以下以下的概念:
"Consent to sexual activity: Consensual sex is when both parties are of legal age, agree to engage in intercourse by choice, and have the freedom and capacity to make that choice. This means agreeing to sexual relations without fear, coercion, force or intimidation. Giving consent is active, not passive. It means freely choosing to say ‘yes’ and also being free to change your mind at any time…. If someone is not able to give consent to sex, regardless of their age, it is a crime to have a sexual relationship with them."  ~ Department of Health, Western Australia  [ https://healthywa.wa.gov.au/Articles/A_E/Consent-to-sexual-activity#:~:text=Consensual%20sex%20is%20when%20both,consent%20is%20active%2C%20not%20passive. ]
感觉所 presented 的资料被「调包」了。同时,我也尊重每一楼层主 个人所持的 观点取向 來 sort out 大量的 public information。
Houstonlove
我觉得中国女生最好,最温柔可爱,白男喜欢也无可厚非。
ChristinaW
我觉得中国女生最好,最温柔可爱,白男喜欢也无可厚非。
Houstonlove 发表于 2021-03-23 18:18

是啊,本来我也觉得这种stereotype总的来说是正面的,是个plus~~
Houstonlove
是啊,本来我也觉得这种stereotype总的来说是正面的,是个plus~~
ChristinaW 发表于 2021-03-23 18:48

但我觉得白男配不上国女,应该留给我们中国男人。
xinchina
文学作品也好,社会现象也好,反映的都是当下人们的意识。我们无法排除人内心的偏见,黑暗面,以及刻板印象,只能竭尽所能的去发出自己的声音,保护自己和他人的安全,为这个社会的进步做自己的努力。
我很赞同那个作家公开的表达自己的看法,如果每个华人女性在面对歧视,性骚扰,或者自己觉得不舒服的事件时,都不去做沉默的羔羊,集体意识才能有所提高。