上司or同事看了最近的亚裔歧视报道来表示慰问,怎么回应?

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snowpenguin
楼主 (北美华人网)
如果工作场合上司or同事(不是亚裔)说看了新闻对亚裔最近受到的歧视和攻击很shock,大家如何回应呢?

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white09
Oh, really?! Wow
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tuer
Oh, really?! Wow
white09 发表于 2021-03-09 12:08

你这个反应算是怎么回事?
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snowpenguin
你这个反应算是怎么回事?

tuer 发表于 2021-03-09 12:11

LS应该是觉得自己是白人吧……从ID来看 真可惜取消了点踩的功能
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dodgers
LS应该是觉得自己是白人吧……从ID来看
snowpenguin 发表于 2021-03-09 12:16

别人会觉得她是傻x吧。
应该直接面对, 还是要交流的,不能逃避。我遇到的所有老美,都说你们亚裔不能放弃自己的identity,和要多参与社区活动。也有老美说东亚裔愚蠢,理由是东亚裔不speak up.
Thanks and I appreciate it. Although personally I have not experienced things like that on the level reported in the news media, I could understand how they feel. It is tough to be constantly reminded that we are minorities, especially under today''s environment , but I think we will deal with it, and with your guy''s help.
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Jhon256
我白人同事问我竟然还有华裔支持川普强调中国病毒,表示不可思议。
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white09
别人会觉得她是傻x吧。
应该直接面对, 还是要交流的,不能逃避。我遇到的所有老美,都说你们亚裔不能放弃自己的identity,和要多参与社区活动。也有老美说东亚裔愚蠢,理由是东亚裔不speak up.
Thanks and I appreciate it. Although personally I have not experienced things like that on the level reported in the news media, I could understand how they feel. It is tough to be constantly reminded that we are minorities, especially under today''s environment , but I think we will deal with it, and with your guy''s help.
dodgers 发表于 2021-03-09 12:16

Wow, 你说的真好,真聪明!
姑逢獙獙
我觉得我的薪水和我的工作量不符,而且我的能力可以适应更高的职位
月光皎洁
我觉得我的薪水和我的工作量不符,而且我的能力可以适应更高的职位
姑逢獙獙 发表于 2021-03-09 13:05

bingo~~
橙色天空
回复 2楼white09的帖子
这句回答,你是想表达自己是傻叉吗?

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snowpenguin
别人会觉得她是傻x吧。
应该直接面对, 还是要交流的,不能逃避。我遇到的所有老美,都说你们亚裔不能放弃自己的identity,和要多参与社区活动。也有老美说东亚裔愚蠢,理由是东亚裔不speak up.
Thanks and I appreciate it. Although personally I have not experienced things like that on the level reported in the news media, I could understand how they feel. It is tough to be constantly reminded that we are minorities, especially under today''''s environment , but I think we will deal with it, and with your guy''''s help.
dodgers 发表于 2021-03-09 12:16

我觉得这个答案不错,适合比较正式的场合,但太低调了吧。觉得可以再强调一下针对亚裔的歧视是不可接受的,可以参考BLM的时候黑人同事们尤其黑女们跳的有多高……
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squirrel40
当然是感谢,再表示一下愤慨啊。 前面某些ID的回复简直是SB.
月光皎洁
我觉得这个答案不错,适合比较正式的场合,但太低调了吧。觉得可以再强调一下针对亚裔的歧视是不可接受的,可以参考BLM的时候黑人同事们尤其黑女们跳的有多高……
snowpenguin 发表于 2021-03-09 13:36

关键看你公司的环境如何了,反正表达感谢或者表达诉求的模板都有。
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yogima
当然是感谢关心并欣慰这个问题最终引起注视了
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bytegudu
Say it jokingly -- "Guess what, I am hiring bodyguards!" 和上司关系好的话,加一句 -- "So I need a raise."
感觉上除非很正式的场合,幽默一点好。开完玩笑后再加句感谢的话。
当然正式发言是另一回事。



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doublemint
别人会觉得她是傻x吧。
应该直接面对, 还是要交流的,不能逃避。我遇到的所有老美,都说你们亚裔不能放弃自己的identity,和要多参与社区活动。也有老美说东亚裔愚蠢,理由是东亚裔不speak up.
Thanks and I appreciate it. Although personally I have not experienced things like that on the level reported in the news media, I could understand how they feel. It is tough to be constantly reminded that we are minorities, especially under today''s environment , but I think we will deal with it, and with your guy''s help.
dodgers 发表于 2021-03-09 12:16

我觉得自己这个答案太冷静了。首先要感谢老板和同事看到这个问题并且来关心你。因为事实上并不是所有人都能看到承认并且在意的亚裔受到的歧视!(很多人甚至亚裔本身还在denial的阶段)。就算说到自己没有歧视经历,也要表明自己自己只是运气好,别人的经历是真实的令人痛心的。尽管疯子歧视者还是少数,但是自己也有担心那些事情会发生在自己身上。希望这个事情尽快得到解决,也希望整个社会包括亚裔本身能正视这个问题,并且愿意尽自己的能力消除歧视。
月光皎洁
Say it jokingly -- "Guess what, I am hiring bodyguards!" 和上司关系好的话,加一句 -- "So I need a raise."
感觉上除非很正式的场合,幽默一点好。开完玩笑后再加句感谢的话。
当然正式发言是另一回事。




bytegudu 发表于 2021-03-09 13:45

这个段子好。。。一些比较随意的场合可以这样用~~
剑骨琴心
别人会觉得她是傻x吧。
应该直接面对, 还是要交流的,不能逃避。我遇到的所有老美,都说你们亚裔不能放弃自己的identity,和要多参与社区活动。也有老美说东亚裔愚蠢,理由是东亚裔不speak up.
Thanks and I appreciate it. Although personally I have not experienced things like that on the level reported in the news media, I could understand how they feel. It is tough to be constantly reminded that we are minorities, especially under today''s environment , but I think we will deal with it, and with your guy''s help.
dodgers 发表于 2021-03-09 12:16

写的挺好的
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doublemint
这么好的同事,上司,你就开个玩笑或者轻描淡写过去,关心你的人会怎么想?会不会自然而然觉得果然是我小题大做了,没这回事或者我多管闲事了,人家事主都不在乎。当然你要是确定同事或者上司就是看笑话和嘲讽的心态,那你可以不要发自内心的应对。
月光皎洁
这么好的同事,上司,你就开个玩笑或者轻描淡写过去,关心你的人会怎么想?会不会自然而然觉得果然是我小题大做了,没这回事或者我多管闲事了,人家事主都不在乎。当然你要是确定同事或者上司就是看笑话和嘲讽的心态,那你可以不要发自内心的应对。
doublemint 发表于 2021-03-09 14:17

很有道理。
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chenshuise
就回 谢谢关心,hope those losers stop bullying innocent people and messing up their own country.
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tankerRock
趁机和同事一起声讨hate crime的犯罪人。表明了自己的立场,也给同事个moral high ground站会。

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facet
如果工作场合上司or同事(不是亚裔)说看了新闻对亚裔最近受到的歧视和攻击很shock,大家如何回应呢?


snowpenguin 发表于 2021-03-09 11:57

能不能说,心灵上的痛苦和挣扎用涨工资来修复是最有效的了
公用马甲2
别人会觉得她是傻x吧。
应该直接面对, 还是要交流的,不能逃避。我遇到的所有老美,都说你们亚裔不能放弃自己的identity,和要多参与社区活动。也有老美说东亚裔愚蠢,理由是东亚裔不speak up.
Thanks and I appreciate it. Although personally I have not experienced things like that on the level reported in the news media, I could understand how they feel. It is tough to be constantly reminded that we are minorities, especially under today''s environment , but I think we will deal with it, and with your guy''s help.
dodgers 发表于 2021-03-09 12:16

这个回答值得商榷。这什么意思啊, 还要说 we, your guys,大家都是美国人好不好? Thank you for your support 就可以啦。
Thanks and I appreciate it. Although personally I have not experienced things like that on the level reported in the news media, I could understand how they feel. It is tough to be constantly reminded that we are minorities, especially under today''s environment , but I think we will deal with it, and with your guy''s help.
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immue
来,我给你draft一个
I know! This is disturbing and unacceptable. Hard to understand why this type of ridiculous racism still exist. I appreciate your concern/rapport-it's asians this time but who knows who they will target next? This is a problem for us all.
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whatever.
感谢他们的关心啊,你就说你个人也非常shock,希望可以借由这次广泛的关注来改善亚裔的处境
小花卷
别人会觉得她是傻x吧。
应该直接面对, 还是要交流的,不能逃避。我遇到的所有老美,都说你们亚裔不能放弃自己的identity,和要多参与社区活动。也有老美说东亚裔愚蠢,理由是东亚裔不speak up.
Thanks and I appreciate it. Although personally I have not experienced things like that on the level reported in the news media, I could understand how they feel. It is tough to be constantly reminded that we are minorities, especially under today''s environment , but I think we will deal with it, and with your guy''s help.
dodgers 发表于 2021-03-09 12:16

这个回复好