我有过，当自己第一次被问有没有高潮时，不知道如何回答，默认了。 产后有过很长一段时间不喜欢sex，期待赶快结束，所以假装。 告诉对方自己假装高潮，我们需要改变现状，是最难的一次关键对话。为什么要说出来呢？因为和自己做了一个约定，余生，忠实于自己的身体和内心。 现在呢，无论是高潮迭起的时刻，还是没高潮，我都爱每一个当下，爱身体所体验的全部感受，这种感觉很好。 分享一段话，你有共鸣吗？ “Dr. Gayle Brewer of the University of Central Lancashire and Dr. Colin A. Hendrie of the University of Leeds, answered probing questions about "vocalization" during sex, specific times during the sex act they make noise, what kinds of noises or words they make, and their reasons for doing so. Researchers found that women are often quietest when they are actually receiving pleasure, like during oral sex or foreplay. They make the most erotic noises when sex starts feeling uncomfortable or when they get bored. They also get noisy when they sense their partner is ready to climax - to boost their partner''s self-esteem, many reported.”
告诉对方自己假装高潮，我们需要改变现状，是最难的一次关键对话。为什么要说出来呢？因为和自己做了一个约定，余生，忠实于自己的身体和内心。
现在呢，无论是高潮迭起的时刻，还是没高潮，我都爱每一个当下，爱身体所体验的全部感受，这种感觉很好。
分享一段话，你有共鸣吗？ “Dr. Gayle Brewer of the University of Central Lancashire and Dr. Colin A. Hendrie of the University of Leeds, answered probing questions about "vocalization" during sex, specific times during the sex act they make noise, what kinds of noises or words they make, and their reasons for doing so. Researchers found that women are often quietest when they are actually receiving pleasure, like during oral sex or foreplay. They make the most erotic noises when sex starts feeling uncomfortable or when they get bored. They also get noisy when they sense their partner is ready to climax - to boost their partner''s self-esteem, many reported.”
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第一次看这个电影是高中时，和家长一起，这段被他们给快进过去了，后来趁他们出门我就又补课了一下，印象深刻，哈哈
哈哈，这么快就看到版主回复。最后老太太说：I'll have what she is having 真是点睛之笔
Megan Ryan
Megan Ryan
谢谢更正
其实我觉得最简单的就是 don't ask, don't tell.
Why even bother to ask / tell?
另外楼主说的有研究，网上搜索 female copulatory vocalization 。
我觉得这有点 overdo。
那你打算继续装，还是找个机会告诉他呢
再几年就半百了，不用受罪装了
支持你！
装的有价值就继续装。我也有装过，只是不是装高潮。被我前夫性爱时，我不想他因为我痛而停止，所以我装不痛，咬紧牙根，没叫出声。