其实很多couple不离婚是怕财产分掉一半,可要是配偶死掉财产基本全占吧

灰蓝哀huihui3
楼主 (北美华人网)
这就是为啥孩子长大了上大学了很多中产中老年夫妻各玩各的但不离婚,因为潜意识都绝对自己占有婚姻中财产的全部,可要是离婚,存了那么多年的那点财产就被腰斩了。可要是等到配偶死掉,自己不久完全占有财产了嘛。而特别有钱的couple因为财富自由宁可cash asset分掉,毕竟资源和生钱之路在那,钱生钱在离婚后财产很快能涨回来。特别没钱的也不怕。。。所以中产家庭的婚姻虚伪维持的%恐怕最高吧?
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miaoerl
楼主,有个东西,叫做遗嘱。
灰蓝哀huihui3
回复 2楼miaoerl的帖子
Most of the time, spouses are the major beneficiaries in a last will and testament. Even so, there are laws in all states that protect the surviving spouse from being disinherited. Some allow the spouse to take an elective share of the estate, usually one-third, regardless of the provisions in the last will. One method to disinherit a spouse may be through the use of a Premarital or Prenuptial Agreement, but the courts are apt to closely scrutinize such agreements to make sure that the agreement was signed in good faith and with full disclosure of assets.
If you do not want to leave property to your spouse, you should be aware that many states "protect" spouses with laws that permit a spouse to receive a portion of the estate even though the last will does not provide for the spouse. You may want to consult with a lawyer regarding the legal rights of your spouse to receive property from your estate, despite the provisions of your will to the contrary.
An agreement between you and your spouse, signed prior to your marriage (known as a Premarital Agreement) may permit you to exclude your spouse from your last will. It's possible to put limitations on the property that you leave to a spouse through the establishment of trusts for the benefit of your spouse that come into existence after you die. You should consider the following factors in deciding what kind of trust is best for your circumstances: The possibility that your spouse's needs may increase in the future The manner of living to which your spouse is accustomed The ability of your spouse to provide for his or her own needs The ability of your spouse to manage the trust assets The possibility that your spouse may remarry and the effect the marriage may have on your children or other beneficiaries.
沉沉辰辰
3楼是正解。共产州survivor自动获得婚内所得的财产。婚前的财产看 will。
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chuckle
我觉得很多couple就算貌合神离,但不是到了你死我活的话,因为惯性,就凑合着过吧。怕分财产啥的,想多了。
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Louisewu
难怪疫情期间我们这严重家庭暴力增加了28%……可能经济一下滑先拿配偶开刀
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Fhu
怎么知道自己不是先死那个?人生苦短及时行乐
大胖子
也還要看是賺錢的還是不賺錢/賺錢少的,離婚不賺錢/賺錢少的那個傷很大。賺錢的那個要離開容易多了。
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gabegabe
我觉得很多couple就算貌合神离,但不是到了你死我活的话,因为惯性,就凑合着过吧。怕分财产啥的,想多了。
chuckle 发表于 2020-10-22 23:34

我还真知道有个人说不想离是因为不想分一半家产给对方。因为自己过去比对方工资高
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bobbie
怎么能保证如果出问题娃可以拿到钱?钱放trust里?living will?
灰蓝哀huihui3
我觉得很多couple就算貌合神离,但不是到了你死我活的话,因为惯性,就凑合着过吧。怕分财产啥的,想多了。
chuckle 发表于 2020-10-22 23:34

可我怎么觉得很多男的出轨被发现闹得天翻地覆也不想离婚其实就是保住财产。。。女的不离婚有的都明说了为了给自己儿子攒他爸遗产,哈哈哈哈
灰蓝哀huihui3
也還要看是賺錢的還是不賺錢/賺錢少的,離婚不賺錢/賺錢少的那個傷很大。賺錢的那個要離開容易多了。
大胖子 发表于 2020-10-22 23:41

其实也不完全是。。很多小富的男的出轨也不太想离婚,尤其老婆稍微能干点要折腾1/2家产的,男的宁可忍者不离耗死老婆也舍不得自己赚的那点财产/收入分给老婆一半
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chuckle
回复 11楼灰蓝哀huihui3的帖子
出轨男不一定都想要娶小三啊
灰蓝哀huihui3
回复 11楼灰蓝哀huihui3的帖子
出轨男不一定都想要娶小三啊
chuckle 发表于 2020-10-23 00:01

其实大多数男的出轨都不想结婚吧,但小三恐怕不同意一直被白嫖或者拿点零花钱打发吧
灰蓝哀huihui3
怎么能保证如果出问题娃可以拿到钱?钱放trust里?living will?
bobbie 发表于 2020-10-22 23:52

你要多研究下你所在州的法律。。。婚姻法,遗产法,家庭发一类的吧
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miaoerl
怎么能保证如果出问题娃可以拿到钱?钱放trust里?living will?
bobbie 发表于 2020-10-22 23:52

咨询律师,每个州都不一样的。
大胖子
怎么能保证如果出问题娃可以拿到钱?钱放trust里?living will?
bobbie 发表于 2020-10-22 23:52

加州是 living trust,找律师做的
大胖子
其实大多数男的出轨都不想结婚吧,但小三恐怕不同意一直被白嫖或者拿点零花钱打发吧
灰蓝哀huihui3 发表于 2020-10-23 00:04

怀孕就不一定了,看了很多这种,有了新孩子就离了