+1 <天才很多时候是under-achievement的,在学校并不一定是好孩子,也不一定会跟着你教的内容走,他们自带马达要按自己的想法走的> My guess is there is always an obvious difference between two: A. Getting 100% mark by correctly memorising and understanding textbook contents, vs B. Getting whatever mark (even a fail mark) by refusing/rejecting standard textbook contents while wanting to challenge the existing standard contents by thinking and trying to find any better and correct solution for the relevant topic. 我的猜测是两者之间总是有明显的区别: A.通过正确地记忆和理解教科书的内容获得100%的分数, 与 B.通过拒绝/拒绝标准教科书内容来获得任何标记(甚至是失败标记),同时希望通过思考并尝试为相关主题找到任何更好和正确的解决方案来挑战现有的标准内容。
I guess a professionally trained teacher should be the one who is able to discover outlier students. Likely a conventional parent, who was once derived from traditional education, would even limit (if not destroy) the healthy development of outlier students. 我猜应该由一位受过专业训练的老师来发现异常学生。 曾经来自传统教育的传统父母,甚至可能会限制(如果不破坏)异常学生的健康成长。
建议WISC V测不止一次的同时,排除各种ADHD等等的测试。没有问题也不回去测,大概率是正常聪明娃
父母不要有太大压力不要太委屈自己,你们也是凡人一个也有脾气也会烦躁的,自己忍耐力下能做多少就多少,做不到永远心平气和的理解孩子也没有办法。凭什么孩子就要父母无限制的牺牲自我?这就是我认为小孩尽量不要homeschool,除非父母知道自己非常有忍耐力,天才浪费就浪费,没有那个命就得看开,保持家庭成员每个人身心健康家庭关系和谐是首要任务。每天推出去让起码懂得点教育心理学的人看着几个小时,大人孩子都有break,可以互相说说话
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<天才很多时候是under-achievement的,在学校并不一定是好孩子,也不一定会跟着你教的内容走,他们自带马达要按自己的想法走的>
My guess is there is always an obvious difference between two: A. Getting 100% mark by correctly memorising and understanding textbook contents, vs B. Getting whatever mark (even a fail mark) by refusing/rejecting standard textbook contents while wanting to challenge the existing standard contents by thinking and trying to find any better and correct solution for the relevant topic. 我的猜测是两者之间总是有明显的区别: A.通过正确地记忆和理解教科书的内容获得100%的分数, 与 B.通过拒绝/拒绝标准教科书内容来获得任何标记(甚至是失败标记),同时希望通过思考并尝试为相关主题找到任何更好和正确的解决方案来挑战现有的标准内容。
I guess a professionally trained teacher should be the one who is able to discover outlier students.
Likely a conventional parent, who was once derived from traditional education, would even limit (if not destroy) the healthy development of outlier students.
我猜应该由一位受过专业训练的老师来发现异常学生。
曾经来自传统教育的传统父母,甚至可能会限制(如果不破坏)异常学生的健康成长。
他们容易焦虑的,你要站在他的立场跟他沟通
但是intensity另一个好处是sweet起来说话是你想象不出的sweet,因为她想象力很丰富思维很敏锐,有这些moments时就好好记着,会在冲突时对你有帮助帮你熬过去的。bless