3.0 out of 5 stars Amusing, blunt..... but not all that useful. Reviewed in the United States on April 23, 2018 Verified Purchase I'm embarassed I got this (I think I was drunk), not because of the subject matter but because it's really obvious advice for the most part. Not to say it's not good advice, it's just pretty obvious. If you're an adult who's been out in the dating world you've (hopefully) figured out by yourself most of the advice in this book.... if you're a college-age woman or haven't dated much you might get some good tips. A few references in it definitely make it seem geared for women in their early-20s. Some things the book tells you to do I don't agree with on a moral level, like dating guys even if you KNOW you don't like them and then ghosting them or "putting them on the back-burner" when a better option comes along. I totally agree with the author that some men do this, but I personally don't think that justifies playing around with people's feelings like that. Sure, I agree with dating several guys if you're not exclusive and dating guys you don't normally consider "your type", but I don't agree with intentionally stringing men along when you know it won't go anywhere, using them to make other men jealous, or just ghosting them when they're no longer useful. That's a great way to be a pretty crappy human being, just saying. Now, there is a lot of good advice (if often obvious) and sometimes it helps to "hear it from someone else" because too many women KNOW what they should do and yet don't. Whether reading this book will make them follow through I don't know, I don't think it's that easy. But I'm still giving it 3 stars for laying it out there bluntly. It's a quick read and there's not much depth, and I think more experienced women might be disappointed. Also the advice is strictly for FINDING a relationship - the only advice for those IN a relationship is to dump your guy (the book makes the assumption he's not treating you right), so it's of no use to people in a relationship who want to stay in the relationship. All in all an ok use of $7, I'd be mad if I paid more though.
women power, know your value, 很多很现代的dating 观点， 跟 cutewheat的观点有点像
同意你的观点，这本书其实也是女人的智慧，绝对不是躺赢，要躺也要有技术的躺，但是这本书没让你躺 LOL
amazon 我一般买书都再amazon 很懒的找deal 不知道别的地方有没有便宜的
我现在一般都听书 觉得听书比看书不那么费眼睛
and know what you want ahaha
不知道自己想要啥的妹子可以用排除法，先琢磨自己不想要的， 慢慢的就琢磨出自己想要啥了
Some things the book tells you to do I don't agree with on a moral level, like dating guys even if you KNOW you don't like them and then ghosting them or "putting them on the back-burner" when a better option comes along. I totally agree with the author that some men do this, but I personally don't think that justifies playing around with people's feelings like that. Sure, I agree with dating several guys if you're not exclusive and dating guys you don't normally consider "your type", but I don't agree with intentionally stringing men along when you know it won't go anywhere, using them to make other men jealous, or just ghosting them when they're no longer useful. That's a great way to be a pretty crappy human being, just saying.
Now, there is a lot of good advice (if often obvious) and sometimes it helps to "hear it from someone else" because too many women KNOW what they should do and yet don't. Whether reading this book will make them follow through I don't know, I don't think it's that easy. But I'm still giving it 3 stars for laying it out there bluntly.
It's a quick read and there's not much depth, and I think more experienced women might be disappointed. Also the advice is strictly for FINDING a relationship - the only advice for those IN a relationship is to dump your guy (the book makes the assumption he's not treating you right), so it's of no use to people in a relationship who want to stay in the relationship. All in all an ok use of $7, I'd be mad if I paid more though.
是的，学会控制自己的情绪，不在错误的人身上消耗自己。