看了这个帖在想是不是错怪了一个认识的人。她跟我说她妈妈就是躁郁症，把家里人折磨得够呛。后来我跟她交往时发觉她有时候会非常sweet和热情，但私底下又非常多疑，会觉得我背后要害她，或者跟我说别的朋友对她的孩子过分热情是不是恋童癖之类。而且聊天好好得会突然snap at me。 交往了一阵我觉得这个人很难搞，不想继续交往了就淡了。现在想想可能家族遗传自己也有躁郁症，控制不了自己的行为
She believed that I did something bad to her at the very beginning, I tried to explain, and my friends tried to explain to me when she told all these to all her friends and mine, she wouldn't listen, and since then on, looks like her emotion was out of control. When her mind is out of control (sorry I have to use this word), she throws whatever she can reach and uses the meanest word to attack me, kids, and my parents. I tried to explain, clam her down, admit all my mistakes, apologize, and not talk back at all, no use. Sometimes when she calms down, she says that she wants to confirm I still love her and she admits that she feels sick mentally, but she just can't stop. Here are things I felt abnormal, 1, She talks to herself very often, just like she is talking to another person, sometimes very angry, sometimes very sweet. This is really creepy, since when she is doing that, she is fully conscious, not in a dream. Sometimes in the mid-night, I was woken up by her talking and saw she was cursing me or someone else, with eyes open. 2, She got illusions. She thought something she had done, but actually she didn't, or she thought someone said or done something, but actually not. 3, She always forgets things, keys, cell phones, documents, appointments, and so on. 4, she always says something about her past, very often, literally, over 100 times about what kind of luxury life she had when she was young during her first marriage in Indonesia, and what she achieved before, and there is nothing she couldn't do. 5. When she is showing a nice side, she will be super nice, so sweet, I mean, sweet to an unreal level. But when she goes crazy, she will bring up all the topics, all the "wrongdoings" that she believed I had. Throwing, insulting, scolding, even physically hit me like a slam on my face. I am of course not saying anything back and not fighting back, I know it will make things worse. She will be calm down after like 4 hours when she is really tired, 6. She got a lot of business ideas, yes she is a very smart lady, friends or businessmen come to consult her, but to me, or her employees, we feel like...... the thing she is talking about is not that realistic, she could give 3 different versions of work order on one thing, employees sometimes feel confused, but we don't dare to ask. A lot of times they have to discuss alone to figure out what she meant. 7, very easy to make a decision. We bought a 1.75M house with an $8000 mortgage! It is obviously over our affordability, but I didn't dare to say no since she is so ambitious 8. When she makes an order (yes, she makes an order all the time even at home), if it is not do-able, I will just try to delay. She might forget after a while. 9. She thought she is better than almost everyone else, she debases almost everyone, says bad things about them, but only before me. In public or before those friends, she is so sweet and polite.
BI-POLAR 家属们应该团结起来，探讨这个问题，华人里面知道这个的太少了。
来了解一下吧，顺便测测自己是不是有BI-POLAR的特征。 https://www.heretohelp.bc.ca/sites/default/files/schinese_bipolar.pdf
家人有bipolar，整个家庭氛围都降到冰点，很无奈！
最后只有离婚。律师说的。
电视了整天作这个病的药的广告
遗传概率很小，但是的确和基因有关。
歪一下，还是从shameless 剧里才知道有这个病
来了解一下吧，顺便测测自己是不是有BI-POLAR的特征。 https://www.heretohelp.bc.ca/sites/default/files/schinese_bipolar.pdf
他杀率也很高。 sigh。
有好几个。homeland里面的女主。ozark里面女主的弟弟。 不过不知道是不是bipolar里面更极端的，反正一般人handle不了
我怎么觉得这个听起来更像BPD呢？你肯定她是bipolar？
对的，之跟最亲近的人发作。你跟别人说，别人还以为你是胡编的，故意诬陷。
太对了，我们当时怕出大事跟一个长辈求助，结果这个长辈觉得我们小题大做，好像是我们凭想象瞎掰的
还真没深入了解过，不知道bipolar有没有自愈的可能性？希望我那个朋友现在好了，否则这样的人生对所有人都是一种折磨
这个是偏 schizophrenia 。。。 更可怕的不是 bipolar，而是 schizophrenic 。。。 当然我们心理系的 taxonomy 和诊断的问题都很大，这里不考虑误诊。
我也觉得是一种病态人格，不是燥郁型抑郁症，后者起码几个月才能完成情绪转换。 病态人格根本不可能被治愈
有点恐怖
不停的说话 开会基本其它人没有说话的机会
有人说那人是高智商 什么都懂
我觉得也不一定 她天天都从 Reddit 拔信息
但是真的不知道怎么共事
根本没有发言机会
跟她意见不一样会被 骂 真的是上来就F 这个的
马上就辞职了
还有一种叫边缘性人格，跟BIPOLAR 不同。
听起来和我妈症状很像。。。
边缘性人格障碍有两种心理疗法比较有效，认为不可能被治愈的是比较老的看法了。
Homeland那个女主角
我熬了13年，还是出来了。忠告在谈恋爱的小妹妹，如果对方是有这个病，趁早走出来，不然一辈子痛苦。
Bipolar 是所有精神疾病中最难治的，因为周期性发作，抑郁的时候医生给加抗抑郁药物，稍不留神就直接发展到发疯。发疯的时候更加难控制，因为病人那个时候感觉奇好，谁愿意在感觉奇好的时候吃药把这种感觉干掉？
至于ECT，到目前为止效果也是暂时的，维持几周到几个月不等。
没有治愈的手段，充其量只是控制，而且再好的控制到最后都以失控结束。
忘了说了，发疯的时候典型症状是自我感觉良好，说觉得自己是上帝都不是开玩笑的（参见Kyane West),另外的症状有大量买东西，和出轨，这些都是婚姻杀手啊！
张嘴就乱说，bipolar可以说根本没什么法子治
找个性格不好的，日子都难过下去，更何况对方有mental disorder或personality disorder。刚开始有激情爱情，可以强行支撑，时间久了只剩下痛苦和埋怨。
She believed that I did something bad to her at the very beginning, I tried to explain, and my friends tried to explain to me when she told all these to all her friends and mine, she wouldn't listen, and since then on, looks like her emotion was out of control. When her mind is out of control (sorry I have to use this word), she throws whatever she can reach and uses the meanest word to attack me, kids, and my parents. I tried to explain, clam her down, admit all my mistakes, apologize, and not talk back at all, no use. Sometimes when she calms down, she says that she wants to confirm I still love her and she admits that she feels sick mentally, but she just can't stop.
Here are things I felt abnormal, 1, She talks to herself very often, just like she is talking to another person, sometimes very angry, sometimes very sweet. This is really creepy, since when she is doing that, she is fully conscious, not in a dream. Sometimes in the mid-night, I was woken up by her talking and saw she was cursing me or someone else, with eyes open.
2, She got illusions. She thought something she had done, but actually she didn't, or she thought someone said or done something, but actually not.
3, She always forgets things, keys, cell phones, documents, appointments, and so on.
4, she always says something about her past, very often, literally, over 100 times about what kind of luxury life she had when she was young during her first marriage in Indonesia, and what she achieved before, and there is nothing she couldn't do.
5. When she is showing a nice side, she will be super nice, so sweet, I mean, sweet to an unreal level. But when she goes crazy, she will bring up all the topics, all the "wrongdoings" that she believed I had. Throwing, insulting, scolding, even physically hit me like a slam on my face. I am of course not saying anything back and not fighting back, I know it will make things worse. She will be calm down after like 4 hours when she is really tired,
6. She got a lot of business ideas, yes she is a very smart lady, friends or businessmen come to consult her, but to me, or her employees, we feel like...... the thing she is talking about is not that realistic, she could give 3 different versions of work order on one thing, employees sometimes feel confused, but we don't dare to ask. A lot of times they have to discuss alone to figure out what she meant.
7, very easy to make a decision. We bought a 1.75M house with an $8000 mortgage! It is obviously over our affordability, but I didn't dare to say no since she is so ambitious
8. When she makes an order (yes, she makes an order all the time even at home), if it is not do-able, I will just try to delay. She might forget after a while.
9. She thought she is better than almost everyone else, she debases almost everyone, says bad things about them, but only before me. In public or before those friends, she is so sweet and polite.
你说得一点也没错，真是非常痛苦的一种心理疾病。
真好笑，踩我我有什么意义，我说个大实话罢了，你看楼里最后总结出来的方法不就是我说的这几种
所以是真的是吗？不就是家里横吗？
我就好了啊，有啥治不好的，不过我老怀疑医生误诊了，我可能根本就从来都没有bipolar
看你写的这些，我更怀疑以前医生给我误诊了，我就没有bipolar 这些症状，可是为啥他们给我诊断bipolar呢
同款老板！！！！悲催的是， 他还是现任……
你确定你现在不用吃药也没症状了吗？
你知道会有抗药性这回事吗？Bipolar吃的药很少有一种药一个剂量能吃一辈子的，抗药性很容易发生，这个时候特别容易出问题
而且，精神科用药，都是要试的，不是每一个药对每一个病人都有效，试的过程，少则几周，多则几个月，不是吃两片马上就知道管不管用的。尽管有经验的医生会帮你选择，但是，再有经验的医生都不敢打包票某一个药对你一定有效。