婚后嫩肉老公拒绝圆房,加州老中女教授法庭提告称自己被骗婚,哈哈

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eyesons
楼主 (北美华人网)
https://mynewsla.com/crime/2020/08/05/college-professor-alleges-younger-man-courted-then-fleeced-her/
College Professor Alleges Younger Man Courted, Then Fleeced Her
A college professor is suing her ex-husband, who is 11 years younger, alleging he convinced her to marry him in 2016 by saying he wanted a family, then never consummated the marriage and stole money from her bank account.
Shasha Zheng’s Los Angeles Superior Court lawsuit against Xiuyuan “Tony” Hu alleges fraud, theft, unjust enrichment, libel and intentional infliction of emotional distress. She seeks unspecified damages in the suit brought Monday. A representative for Hu could not be immediately reached for comment.
Zheng, of Riverside, holds a doctoral degree in human molecular nutrition and is an assistant professor of nutrition at California Baptist University in Riverside, according to her court papers. She says she met Hu in 2015, when she was 34 years old and he was 23 and enrolled in law school at UC Berkeley.
They began an “intense courtship” in which the defendant repeatedly said he loved her, wanted to spend the rest of life with her and raise a family with her, according to her lawsuit.
Although concerned about their age difference, Zheng “finally succumbed” to Hu’s “persistent wooing” and the two married in April 2016, the suit says.
Hu did not allow his relatives to meet Zheng before the wedding. After the ceremony, Hu’s mother told Zheng she should not get pregnant until after her son finished law school, the suit states.
Hu and Zheng never lived together after they wed because he told her he needed to stay and take care of his mother in Monterey Park, according to the lawsuit.
Despite his premarital claims of wanting to have a family, Hu told Zheng he had “an inability to have normal marital relationships” and used various justifications to “avoid physically consummating the marriage,” the plaintiff alleges.
The couple discussed getting a divorce in July 2017 and a judgment ending the marriage was entered a month later. But during the two days after they separated, Hu withdrew about $13,315 from a bank account the two had agreed was Zheng’s separate property and he refused her demands to return the money, the suit alleges.
Zheng also maintains Hu defamed her by sending an email in August 2018 to the CBU administration accusing her of hacking into his email and providing the Chinese government with information that was “nothing short of espionage.” Hu’s email alleged her aim was to harass his relatives in that country and prevent him from returning there, according to the plaintiff’s court papers.
Hu also falsely alleged Zheng was not really a Christian, even though she was a practicing Christian at a Christian university, the suit states. Hu sent another defamatory email the same day to a dean at UC Berkeley, also falsely claiming that Zheng had given information about him to the Chinese government, according to her suit.

 

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b
berlin
149 楼
gay吧
x
xrxr
148 楼
感觉是前期没有沟通好,女方没有得到一个说法,一个closure, 心里憋着一口气。其实可以更好地解决的。挺多这样的中国女生,也挺多这样的中国男生的。男生逃避,不愿意沟通,遇事躲起来。女生就追着哭闹。都挺可怜的。
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banchui
147 楼
女主长得像何美钿,娇俏可爱。希望能move on吧。
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qinggegege
146 楼
谁也不怪,主要原因还是都没找对合适彼此的人。
愉快灌水
145 楼
已经离婚了,move on 吧

 

🛋️ 沙发板凳

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karenwqw
小11岁!!!!
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Ruth
如果骗婚,目的是?总不会为了一万多刀吧?也没看见身份相关的事情
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eyesons
如果骗婚,目的是?总不会为了一万多刀吧?也没看见身份相关的事情
Ruth 发表于 2020-08-06 12:57

所以才很玄妙。。。。。。。
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huaren_ID
婚前没有“圆房”过?lol
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TotallyNaked
好奇最后会怎么判
哲仁布措
抓了个唐僧回来。。
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nbixxibn
她长得还显年轻,也其实是受害者,男方一点不是好鸟,楼主你的猜测没有根据,很是刻薄。
我喜欢帅哥
港真,小11岁,不是贪色就是图钱,除非是高圆圆那种大美女,肯定有别的不可告人的目的啊。女教授也应该有个防备之心。
白色骨瓷杯
男方母亲说毕业前不能怀孕,结果男方根本就是性无能,婚后一次夫妻生活都没有,真是遂了婆婆的意了
我喜欢帅哥
闹成这样也真的太。。。。男的居然还告到学校去,说女的不是基督徒。。。
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bluefly21
骗婚+诽谤+偷窃,哈哈,这个有意思了,希望有后续update
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pwwp
Interesting...
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Ruth
男方母亲说毕业前不能怀孕,结果男方根本就是性无能,婚后一次夫妻生活都没有,真是遂了婆婆的意了
白色骨瓷杯 发表于 2020-08-06 13:01

男方母亲说毕业前不能怀孕,根本就是帮儿子打掩护吧?女的年纪一把有工作,如果她没说怀孕生孩子要婆婆来照顾,婆婆跳出来说这个,本身就是警示信号,不正常。
我喜欢帅哥
Interesting...

pwwp 发表于 2020-08-06 13:04

诗人你就好这一口。
白色骨瓷杯
男方母亲说毕业前不能怀孕,根本就是帮儿子打掩护吧?女的年纪一把有工作,如果她没说怀孕生孩子要婆婆来照顾,婆婆跳出来说这个,本身就是警示信号,不正常。
Ruth 发表于 2020-08-06 13:05

性无能居然主动追求女的 难道是传说中的金手指加藤鹰转世。。。
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liliefng799
明显就是女的被骗了,为啥大家要对女的这么刻薄呢?如果性别反过来,大家还会苛责女方吗?
哲仁布措
诗人你就好这一口。
我喜欢帅哥 发表于 2020-08-06 13:07

我也在想歪歪快憋不住了。。哈哈
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iloveGelato
男的全家一起帮着骗?图什么呢?能上法学院家里也不会穷啊。
雁过
她长得还显年轻,也其实是受害者,男方一点不是好鸟,楼主你的猜测没有根据,很是刻薄。
nbixxibn 发表于 2020-08-06 13:00

照片在哪里呀?
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keluoyi
如果骗婚,目的是?总不会为了一万多刀吧?也没看见身份相关的事情
Ruth 发表于 2020-08-06 12:57

是很诡异。1万块真算不上骗钱;男生是法学院,以后也不差钱;男方家人在美国,所以也不是骗身份;不允许生孩子,所以也不是gay骗子宫传宗接代。
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pwwp
诗人你就好这一口。
我喜欢帅哥 发表于 2020-08-06 13:07

我就说了一个单词,你瞬间脑补出一个长篇。。。
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pwwp
我也在想歪歪快憋不住了。。哈哈
哲仁布措 发表于 2020-08-06 13:10

嫩肉的不可靠性的社会氛围的养成,对我们只有利好啊!
相煎何太急啊!
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yeisa
女主年纪不算大,姐弟恋是很有可能的。遇人不淑罢了
不娶何撩
c
complicated
为啥?
f
foot16
估计是同性恋,弄个婚姻做掩护
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intersky
.....
不娶何撩
男的长得也丑
男的长得也丑
不娶何撩 发表于 2020-08-06 13:31

可真不像小那么多,看着很显老又难看
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marytng
可能还是骗身份。有些已经全家在美国好多年了,但是还somehow没有身份(仍然是F1)。
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180maidenlane
好丑的男的。而且本科和jd都在berkeley念的,怎么把自己的简历弄的那么诡异?我是指他又在念llm
梅干茶泡饭
不会吧?我竟然认识
intersky 发表于 2020-08-06 13:31

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TotallyNaked
好丑的男的。而且本科和jd都在berkeley念的,怎么把自己的简历弄的那么诡异?我是指他又在念llm
180maidenlane 发表于 2020-08-06 13:37

他LLM是有专业的,读的税法,很正常
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marytng
但是话说,即便是片身份,身边有个女的天天求着行房,这男的也应该会想那事吧?除非是个骗身份的男同。
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TotallyNaked
去搜了一下,这个离婚还真是ugly,女的还诬告男的harrass,要申请家暴restraining order,法官没同意
梅干茶泡饭
这男的叫Tony.....
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meetmylove2015
男女主照片大家哪里看的?
哲仁布措
嫩肉的不可靠性的社会氛围的养成,对我们只有利好啊!
相煎何太急啊!
pwwp 发表于 2020-08-06 13:23

我不急,喜欢看你急。。
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keluoyi
估计是同性恋,弄个婚姻做掩护
foot16 发表于 2020-08-06 13:31

才23岁,又不是33岁,单身很正常。没必要急吼吼得用婚姻做掩护。而且加州尤其是Berkeley那种地方,很宽容的,没必要掩护。
b
babyG
OMG 我居然也认识男主
哲仁布措
回复 37楼梅干茶泡饭的帖子
香港同胞?
我喜欢帅哥
我就说了一个单词,你瞬间脑补出一个长篇。。。
pwwp 发表于 2020-08-06 13:22

我只说了你就好这一口。。。。你自己说自己要写一长篇生死恋?
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sleepybear0423
照片在哪里!
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TotallyNaked
“Dear Dean Hirshen. I hope you’ve had a great summer. Since I am not in Berkeley to meet you in person at this point, I can only write you this letter. I am writing this letter because my ex-wife has repeatedly harassed my family in China, and I am afraid that she will come to Berkeley Law to make a spectacle out of our private life. I worked as an editor and researcher for China Digital Times (CDT), a UC Berkeley based news website covering China’s internet censorship. Since CDT receives funding from the U.S. Department of State for advocating freedom of speech and government transparency, CDT is currently blacklisted by mainland China. For my own safety as an editor and researcher of CDT, I had remained a low profile, and I also did not want my relatives in China to get into trouble with the Chinese government. She was my wife, so I told her about my work with CDT. But she reported me to the Chinese government. As a result, the Chinese Communist Party’s National Security Bureau has deployed police to interrogate my grandmother and grandfather, who still reside in China and are 75 years and 82 years of age respectively. Worse is that they are afraid that I would never be able to go back to China. Since the police’s interrogation of my grandparents, I have ceased my work with CDT to trade for my grandparents’ peace with the Chinese government. She has also accused me being a drug addict, which is completely false, for I just passed a drug test for my externship with Kaiser Permanente this upcoming fall semester. If she were to come to Berkeley Law or write any damaging letter pertaining to me, please read it with caution and at least give me a chance to refute her points. ps: I have cc’d this e-mail to my ex-wife Shasha Zheng, so she can read it as well. I am so sorry for the inconvenience.
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Ethangirl
男的是不是为了转身份?
我喜欢帅哥
照片在哪里!
sleepybear0423 发表于 2020-08-06 13:44

你去google 他们两个名字就出来了。
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TotallyNaked
The First Amended Complaint alleges that on August 24, 2018, the Riverside Family Law Court granted Blut’s client a temporary restraining order against Hu, and on November 5, 2018, after a full evidentiary hearing, the court held Hu did not harass Blut’s client, denying her petition for the restraining order.
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TotallyNaked
这一万多块钱肯定有故事,不是女主说的直接偷钱那么简单
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claire888
事出反常必有妖 不过常见的动机都排除了 是很蹊跷
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ainana
谁能给个照片link啊?
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ainana
找到女的了,长得不错。男的谁有?
梅干茶泡饭
话说如果女的是处女可以证明老公的确没啪啪啪。。。

否则怎么prove....
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zenmebane
谁能给破个案?好奇,在线等。
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greengrass12
估计是为了身份吧
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xgq32
女主很清秀 就是年纪不小了
愉快灌水
已经6页了,也没看见照片,差评!
c
complicated
去狗了一下 不知道是不是, 这女的是这个头衔吗? Ph.D. Associate Professor of Nutrition 这男的骗婚吧,太不上道,女的也是受害者
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changan5
已经6页了,也没看见照片,差评!
愉快灌水 发表于 2020-08-06 14:19

名字一艘就有
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180maidenlane
他LLM是有专业的,读的税法,很正常
TotallyNaked 发表于 2020-08-06 13:38

还是不懂。 ucb毕业了不应该在大所里工作吗,为什么会读taxation llm。 读完了比jd还有用处?
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TotallyNaked
还是不懂。 ucb毕业了不应该在大所里工作吗,为什么会读taxation llm。 读完了比jd还有用处?
180maidenlane 发表于 2020-08-06 14:36

如果他的职业规划是将来做税法,LLM不都是给国外混混儿读的,从学位上说,是比JD更advanced一级的,JD属于general,LLM用于加强某一个专业方向。 有很多专门做税法的big Law。
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.岸.
骗婚+诽谤+偷窃,哈哈,这个有意思了,希望有后续update
bluefly21 发表于 2020-08-06 13:04

做律师挺合适,无下限
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xgq32
https://www.law.berkeley.edu/article/diversity-pipeline-programs-funnel-first-year-students-work-judges/ 原来是个和尚
.岸. 发表于 2020-08-06 14:48

天哪 f2和尚 女主怎么想的
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crichris
回复 1楼eyesons的帖子
是个难得就叫tony系列
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SSBN826
女主的中文名是什么啊?难道是:真傻傻
鸿
鸿影疏桐
https://www.law.berkeley.edu/article/diversity-pipeline-programs-funnel-first-year-students-work-judges/ 原来是个和尚
.岸. 发表于 2020-08-06 14:48

这是一个怎样的世界啊。 太玄幻了。
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handan11
唉,唐僧肉没吃着。女主挺漂亮的,亏了。
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Constancewong
回复 37楼梅干茶泡饭的帖子
香港同胞?
哲仁布措 发表于 2020-08-06 13:41

一看姓氏就知道兩位當事人都不是香港人,別亂扯
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mj2012
“Dear Dean Hirshen. I hope you’ve had a great summer. Since I am not in Berkeley to meet you in person at this point, I can only write you this letter. I am writing this letter because my ex-wife has repeatedly harassed my family in China, and I am afraid that she will come to Berkeley Law to make a spectacle out of our private life. I worked as an editor and researcher for China Digital Times (CDT), a UC Berkeley based news website covering China’s internet censorship. Since CDT receives funding from the U.S. Department of State for advocating freedom of speech and government transparency, CDT is currently blacklisted by mainland China. For my own safety as an editor and researcher of CDT, I had remained a low profile, and I also did not want my relatives in China to get into trouble with the Chinese government. She was my wife, so I told her about my work with CDT. But she reported me to the Chinese government. As a result, the Chinese Communist Party’s National Security Bureau has deployed police to interrogate my grandmother and grandfather, who still reside in China and are 75 years and 82 years of age respectively. Worse is that they are afraid that I would never be able to go back to China. Since the police’s interrogation of my grandparents, I have ceased my work with CDT to trade for my grandparents’ peace with the Chinese government. She has also accused me being a drug addict, which is completely false, for I just passed a drug test for my externship with Kaiser Permanente this upcoming fall semester. If she were to come to Berkeley Law or write any damaging letter pertaining to me, please read it with caution and at least give me a chance to refute her points. ps: I have cc’d this e-mail to my ex-wife Shasha Zheng, so she can read it as well. I am so sorry for the inconvenience.
TotallyNaked 发表于 2020-08-06 13:44

哈哈,男的女的都鬼精
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lhu2006
https://www.law.berkeley.edu/article/diversity-pipeline-programs-funnel-first-year-students-work-judges/ 原来是个和尚
.岸. 发表于 2020-08-06 14:48

这个故事越来越神奇了。
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Micamino
三十五的老女人 装嫩的结果。 美国有大把这样的老女人
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yanle
男的和尚经历好魔幻,跟他的婚姻一样。到底这个婚姻谁骗谁?
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lastunas
回复 1楼eyesons的帖子
我朋友的朋友离了婚有两个孩子,一个小留小她很多一定要和她结婚,她是公民。女的开始不同意,后来有孩子了就结婚了
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facet
男方母亲说毕业前不能怀孕,结果男方根本就是性无能,婚后一次夫妻生活都没有,真是遂了婆婆的意了
白色骨瓷杯 发表于 2020-08-06 13:01

两个成年人的事情,他母亲为什么掺合
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keluoyi
https://www.law.berkeley.edu/article/diversity-pipeline-programs-funnel-first-year-students-work-judges/ 原来是个和尚
.岸. 发表于 2020-08-06 14:48

男主是骗身份的说法可以打消了,13岁来美国,就算是黑下来的,这么多年来也DACA了,不需要通过结婚办绿卡。更何况他跟女主没结婚多久就闹到法院,哪个illegal会这么高调,至少要等绿卡拿下来再闹吧。
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eatsilver
我愿意接盘
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awesomeiris
这应该算活久见一类的奇葩事件吧?
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greengrass12
女主2015年34,今年估计也差不多39, 40了吧,也没有孩子,真的是大好年华被这个人耽误了啊,也难怪会告上法庭
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chacha2013
是很诡异。1万块真算不上骗钱;男生是法学院,以后也不差钱;男方家人在美国,所以也不是骗身份;不允许生孩子,所以也不是gay骗子宫传宗接代。
keluoyi 发表于 2020-08-06 13:19

法学院出来当ASSITANT苦兮兮的多得是,没见到哈佛毕业出来也有混的惨的吗? 男方父母在美国,如果有身份,帮成年子女办身份也要好久的吧。如果他父母黑在这没身份,那更能理解男方的动机了。
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renren2
有可能是 DACA 因為2016年曾經 暫停過 後來發現 不用LGBTQ做闢戶 也不用靠婚姻 就行 幹嘛要結婚呢 ?
有條件的婚姻 走不遠 要放下 更何況是雙方宗教 年紀差距太大 何苦呢
c
ccang1234
抓了个唐僧回来。。
哲仁布措 发表于 2020-08-06 12:59

太好笑了
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lindadouwu
这女的就是被这小弟弟骗,小弟弟原想找个大姐照顾自己是个妈宝,结果女的不愿意做老妈子,不给钱也不伺候,两人就闹翻了
OMG 我居然也认识男主
babyG 发表于 2020-08-06 13:41

mm出来说说呗!
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Hudsonbay7
太好笑了
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daysun
avoid physically consummating the marriage
学到新词汇了。
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TotallyNaked
女主2015年34,今年估计也差不多39, 40了吧,也没有孩子,真的是大好年华被这个人耽误了啊,也难怪会告上法庭
greengrass12 发表于 2020-08-06 16:37

2016年4月结婚,2017年婚就离了
梅干茶泡饭
说起来欧洲中世纪的时候妻子可以以性无能为名把丈夫告上法庭。。。 丈夫可以当场来一发来证明自己。。。or妻子胜诉= =
想想那画面呃呃呃呃呃
白色骨瓷杯
说起来欧洲中世纪的时候妻子可以以性无能为名把丈夫告上法庭。。。 丈夫可以当场来一发来证明自己。。。or妻子胜诉= =
想想那画面呃呃呃呃呃
梅干茶泡饭 发表于 2020-08-06 17:11

歪哥如果被告了 不知道需不需要花钱雇自己家的园丁来顶替自己上庭
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qingr67
真是家家有本难念的经,竟然还有这种事情
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chatchat
说起来欧洲中世纪的时候妻子可以以性无能为名把丈夫告上法庭。。。 丈夫可以当场来一发来证明自己。。。or妻子胜诉= =
想想那画面呃呃呃呃呃
梅干茶泡饭 发表于 2020-08-06 17:11

after 妻子胜诉, a divorce approved?
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xyzgw
我愿意接盘
eatsilver 发表于 2020-08-06 16:33

接男还是接女啊?
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chopincminor
男的和尚经历好魔幻,跟他的婚姻一样。到底这个婚姻谁骗谁? yanle 发表于 2020-08-06 16:05
肯定男的骗婚啊,为啥就不清楚了。看起来跟他妈有关。
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chopincminor
“Dear Dean Hirshen. I hope you’ve had a great summer. Since I am not in Berkeley to meet you in person at this point, I can only write you this letter. I am writing this letter because my ex-wife has repeatedly harassed my family in China, and I am afraid that she will come to Berkeley Law to make a spectacle out of our private life. I worked as an editor and researcher for China Digital Times (CDT), a UC Berkeley based news website covering China’s internet censorship. Since CDT receives funding from the U.S. Department of State for advocating freedom of speech and government transparency, CDT is currently blacklisted by mainland China. For my own safety as an editor and researcher of CDT, I had remained a low profile, and I also did not want my relatives in China to get into trouble with the Chinese government. She was my wife, so I told her about my work with CDT. But she reported me to the Chinese government. As a result, the Chinese Communist Party’s National Security Bureau has deployed police to interrogate my grandmother and grandfather, who still reside in China and are 75 years and 82 years of age respectively. Worse is that they are afraid that I would never be able to go back to China. Since the police’s interrogation of my grandparents, I have ceased my work with CDT to trade for my grandparents’ peace with the Chinese government. She has also accused me being a drug addict, which is completely false, for I just passed a drug test for my externship with Kaiser Permanente this upcoming fall semester. If she were to come to Berkeley Law or write any damaging letter pertaining to me, please read it with caution and at least give me a chance to refute her points. ps: I have cc’d this e-mail to my ex-wife Shasha Zheng, so she can read it as well. I am so sorry for the inconvenience.
TotallyNaked 发表于 2020-08-06 13:44

呃水这么深吗……紫薯
白色骨瓷杯
呃水这么深吗……紫薯
chopincminor 发表于 2020-08-06 18:32

这篇文章的行文水平真是配不上伯克利法学院的水准 他的祖父母都在中国 父母带着他移民美国上牛校 祖父母估计也很有钱 他不是红三代那至少也是个富三代 这种在中国有基业的 居然在美国参与颠覆中国的工作 真是一言难尽啊
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catakiri
她长得还显年轻,也其实是受害者,男方一点不是好鸟,楼主你的猜测没有根据,很是刻薄。
nbixxibn 发表于 2020-08-06 13:00

哪里有照片??
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hellokitty00
这男的没准天生畸形,jj都没长呢。
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zenmebane
这男的经历太古怪了,谁给他从小到大捋一捋