回复 1楼xinchina的帖子 你听过爱有五种语言吗？赞美，服务，礼物，特别时光，还有physical touch。你了解自己喜欢什么语言吗，是否得到了足够的满足，有勇气和对方沟通你喜欢什么样的语言，以及为什么吗？ 如果你知道爱的五种语言，今天我来介绍一个新的知识，情欲，也有五种语言： The Energetic types are turned on by anticipation, yearning, and partner’s arousal. They tend to be highly sensitive to emotion, need safe boundaries, and prefer gentle, hovering touch as foreplay. The Sensual types experience arousal through all their five senses being engaged. The physical environment, romance, and ambiance are essential. They are often stuck in their heads and need to relax before sex. The Sexual types are turned on by straightforward sex, visual or touch stimulus, nudity, and erotica, often very quickly. They use sex to relax. The sexual stereotype, they are the most accepted in our culture. The Kinky types experience arousal through anything that they perceive as taboo or “out-of-the-box,” whether psychological (like power dynamics) or physical. They often have a rich fantasy life and may have felt shut down by shame or judgment about their desires. The Shapeshifter types are turned on by and can shift between all the other four types with ease. They desire variety and tend to be highly erotically intelligent. 来源：https://imagocenterdc.com/how-erotically-intelligent-are-you/ 我简单的翻译以便阅读： 充满活力的类型：是通过期望，渴望和伴侣的唤醒而开启的。他们倾向于对情感高度敏感，需要安全的界限，并且喜欢轻柔，盘旋的触摸作为前戏。 感性类型：通过参与的所有五种感官而受到唤醒，物理环境，浪漫和氛围至关重要。他们经常脑子事情太多，需要在做爱前放松。 性癖好类型：喜好不循规蹈矩的性，打破常规会引起欲望，可以是心理层面也可以是肉体层面的。有非常丰富的性幻想，也会因此而容易感受到羞耻感，或害怕被评判，因而封闭自己。 直接型：喜好通过视觉和触觉获取刺激，喜好赤裸的，有激情的性，欲望来的快。这类型喜好用性来放松自己。 综合型：以上四种都能轻松的切换，游刃有余。他们渴望变化，往往具有极高的性商。 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 夫妻之间如果能找到common ground，或轮流说对方的性爱语言，这样大家都能感受到被接纳和被爱。性是一种多重的沟通，语言，肢体语言，心灵的一场沟通。
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你听过爱有五种语言吗？赞美，服务，礼物，特别时光，还有physical touch。你了解自己喜欢什么语言吗，是否得到了足够的满足，有勇气和对方沟通你喜欢什么样的语言，以及为什么吗？
如果你知道爱的五种语言，今天我来介绍一个新的知识，情欲，也有五种语言： The Energetic types are turned on by anticipation, yearning, and partner’s arousal. They tend to be highly sensitive to emotion, need safe boundaries, and prefer gentle, hovering touch as foreplay.
The Sensual types experience arousal through all their five senses being engaged. The physical environment, romance, and ambiance are essential. They are often stuck in their heads and need to relax before sex.
The Sexual types are turned on by straightforward sex, visual or touch stimulus, nudity, and erotica, often very quickly. They use sex to relax. The sexual stereotype, they are the most accepted in our culture.
The Kinky types experience arousal through anything that they perceive as taboo or “out-of-the-box,” whether psychological (like power dynamics) or physical. They often have a rich fantasy life and may have felt shut down by shame or judgment about their desires.
The Shapeshifter types are turned on by and can shift between all the other four types with ease. They desire variety and tend to be highly erotically intelligent. 来源：https://imagocenterdc.com/how-erotically-intelligent-are-you/
我简单的翻译以便阅读：
充满活力的类型：是通过期望，渴望和伴侣的唤醒而开启的。他们倾向于对情感高度敏感，需要安全的界限，并且喜欢轻柔，盘旋的触摸作为前戏。
感性类型：通过参与的所有五种感官而受到唤醒，物理环境，浪漫和氛围至关重要。他们经常脑子事情太多，需要在做爱前放松。
性癖好类型：喜好不循规蹈矩的性，打破常规会引起欲望，可以是心理层面也可以是肉体层面的。有非常丰富的性幻想，也会因此而容易感受到羞耻感，或害怕被评判，因而封闭自己。
直接型：喜好通过视觉和触觉获取刺激，喜好赤裸的，有激情的性，欲望来的快。这类型喜好用性来放松自己。
综合型：以上四种都能轻松的切换，游刃有余。他们渴望变化，往往具有极高的性商。 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
夫妻之间如果能找到common ground，或轮流说对方的性爱语言，这样大家都能感受到被接纳和被爱。性是一种多重的沟通，语言，肢体语言，心灵的一场沟通。