调情不逾矩是门艺术，除了个人魅力之外，还要有自在从容的心态，才能收放自如。动不动就紧张兮兮，小鹿乱撞，一句话就能联想到十万八千里的人是没法好好调情的。一场势均力敌的witty conversation是最有意思的调情, 双方智商情商都要在线。wit is a seduction of intelligence。
不如做个测试来看看五种调情类型你适合哪一种吧。 http://flirtingstyles.dept.ku.edu/#sthash.MbjWcOFG.gKszm9zs.dpbs Physical. If you’re a physical type of flirt, you touch the people to whom you''re physically attracted, even if only so subtly. In the Hall and Xing study, women who described themselves as physical flirters indeed tended to “open up” their bodies by moving their hands out and away from their torsos, and nodding their heads often during conversation. Surprisingly, men who described themselves as physical flirts and felt attracted to their partners looked at them less and rarely gave them compliments. Traditional. If you’re a traditional flirt, you believe that men should make the first move. Accordingly, as shown in the study, men who saw themselves as fitting this type were more likely to lean toward their partner while traditionally flirtatious women used verbal teasing as their means of communication. Sincere. You appear to have a true interest in the other person if you’re a sincere flirt, and before long, you’ll find that other people are revealing their deepest truths to you. Behaviorally, as shown in this study, you’ll be less likely to tease (especially if you’re a man) and more likely to exchange flirtatious gazes early in your meetings with strangers. Polite. If you don’t really like flirting per se, but prefer to take your time to get to know someone, your interactions with a new person will take on a more formal or polite quality. As shown by Hall and Xing, even if you’re physically attracted to someone, you won’t make a move to get closer, you won’t engage in teasing, and (if you’re a woman) you won’t even ask too many questions. Playful. A playful flirt enjoys the game, but isn’t really in it for the relationship. If you fit this profile, you’re not really sincere about getting to know the other person and you may even be using the flirtation as the means to another end, such as getting someone to do you a favor. Without even realizing it, you may be sending physical signals such as protruding your chest (whether male or female) but if you’re a woman, you’ll flash the flirtatious gaze especially once the interaction gets going.
调情不逾矩是门艺术，除了个人魅力之外，还要有自在从容的心态，才能收放自如。动不动就紧张兮兮，小鹿乱撞，一句话就能联想到十万八千里的人是没法好好调情的。一场势均力敌的witty conversation是最有意思的调情, 双方智商情商都要在线。wit is a seduction of intelligence。 Giovanna 发表于 2020-07-21 12:40
不如做个测试来看看五种调情类型你适合哪一种吧。 http://flirtingstyles.dept.ku.edu/#sthash.MbjWcOFG.gKszm9zs.dpbs Physical. If you’re a physical type of flirt, you touch the people to whom you''re physically attracted, even if only so subtly. In the Hall and Xing study, women who described themselves as physical flirters indeed tended to “open up” their bodies by moving their hands out and away from their torsos, and nodding their heads often during conversation. Surprisingly, men who described themselves as physical flirts and felt attracted to their partners looked at them less and rarely gave them compliments. Traditional. If you’re a traditional flirt, you believe that men should make the first move. Accordingly, as shown in the study, men who saw themselves as fitting this type were more likely to lean toward their partner while traditionally flirtatious women used verbal teasing as their means of communication. Sincere. You appear to have a true interest in the other person if you’re a sincere flirt, and before long, you’ll find that other people are revealing their deepest truths to you. Behaviorally, as shown in this study, you’ll be less likely to tease (especially if you’re a man) and more likely to exchange flirtatious gazes early in your meetings with strangers. Polite. If you don’t really like flirting per se, but prefer to take your time to get to know someone, your interactions with a new person will take on a more formal or polite quality. As shown by Hall and Xing, even if you’re physically attracted to someone, you won’t make a move to get closer, you won’t engage in teasing, and (if you’re a woman) you won’t even ask too many questions. Playful. A playful flirt enjoys the game, but isn’t really in it for the relationship. If you fit this profile, you’re not really sincere about getting to know the other person and you may even be using the flirtation as the means to another end, such as getting someone to do you a favor. Without even realizing it, you may be sending physical signals such as protruding your chest (whether male or female) but if you’re a woman, you’ll flash the flirtatious gaze especially once the interaction gets going.
调情不逾矩是门艺术，除了个人魅力之外，还要有自在从容的心态，才能收放自如。动不动就紧张兮兮，小鹿乱撞，一句话就能联想到十万八千里的人是没法好好调情的。一场势均力敌的witty conversation是最有意思的调情, 双方智商情商都要在线。wit is a seduction of intelligence。 Giovanna 发表于 2020-07-21 12:40
调情不逾矩是门艺术，除了个人魅力之外，还要有自在从容的心态，才能收放自如。动不动就紧张兮兮，小鹿乱撞，一句话就能联想到十万八千里的人是没法好好调情的。一场势均力敌的witty conversation是最有意思的调情, 双方智商情商都要在线。wit is a seduction of intelligence。 Giovanna 发表于 2020-07-21 12:40
滚床单了么？
我朋友圈女性都很有自己的想法
法国女不清楚，算不上闺蜜，不敢问
对于法国人，这和握手社交没太大区别
我认识的不止一个中年已婚中国妇女，回国探亲的时候路遇调情，在火车上，在旅行中都有，还给我们说得有声有色，话意就是在调情之中能找到个人魅力（特别是海外生活的光环有些人还是认得），我个人接受不了，因为我和我老公感情很好，我俩平时很黏对方，偶尔出去约会过二人世界，夫妻生活愉快，但我也能理解对方，就像男人喜欢女人崇拜，女人也喜欢男人那种爱慕的神情，生活调剂吧，把握好分寸就好。
如果是 open marriage，丈夫也知道的，也可以出去调情的，俺觉得没问题，大家都是 adults，你情我愿。
那种自己暗地里去跟别人调情，丢个蒙在鼓里的伴侣在家带娃的，才是人人喊打的渣人。
其实 问题不应该是能不能调情，而是有没有欺骗。
将调情改为出轨吧，中年人喜欢直接
我也觉的正常，凭什么男人可以，女人就觉的是轻浮
我那个法国朋友孩子都大学了，她经常一个人出去玩，有时候去欧洲一个月也有的，老公不管她
我以前也这么觉得，调情是轻浮，现在突然发现有点美好，当然是帅哥，不是丑男啊
我也不喜欢欺骗，但是男的好像都特别小心眼，不要说open marriage, 老婆多和其他男人讲话都心里不爽，调情的话，肯定就不高兴了
累，但是没办法，男人特别小心眼
http://flirtingstyles.dept.ku.edu/#sthash.MbjWcOFG.gKszm9zs.dpbs
Physical. If you’re a physical type of flirt, you touch the people to whom you''re physically attracted, even if only so subtly. In the Hall and Xing study, women who described themselves as physical flirters indeed tended to “open up” their bodies by moving their hands out and away from their torsos, and nodding their heads often during conversation. Surprisingly, men who described themselves as physical flirts and felt attracted to their partners looked at them less and rarely gave them compliments. Traditional. If you’re a traditional flirt, you believe that men should make the first move. Accordingly, as shown in the study, men who saw themselves as fitting this type were more likely to lean toward their partner while traditionally flirtatious women used verbal teasing as their means of communication. Sincere. You appear to have a true interest in the other person if you’re a sincere flirt, and before long, you’ll find that other people are revealing their deepest truths to you. Behaviorally, as shown in this study, you’ll be less likely to tease (especially if you’re a man) and more likely to exchange flirtatious gazes early in your meetings with strangers. Polite. If you don’t really like flirting per se, but prefer to take your time to get to know someone, your interactions with a new person will take on a more formal or polite quality. As shown by Hall and Xing, even if you’re physically attracted to someone, you won’t make a move to get closer, you won’t engage in teasing, and (if you’re a woman) you won’t even ask too many questions. Playful. A playful flirt enjoys the game, but isn’t really in it for the relationship. If you fit this profile, you’re not really sincere about getting to know the other person and you may even be using the flirtation as the means to another end, such as getting someone to do you a favor. Without even realizing it, you may be sending physical signals such as protruding your chest (whether male or female) but if you’re a woman, you’ll flash the flirtatious gaze especially once the interaction gets going.
出轨的都是不管不顾的，不用讨论了
同意，调情是门艺术，应该很享受的，可能需要练习吧
就是自己把握好，只想享受一下轻松愉快的气氛，我不管男的怎么想，因为反正男的都是想更进一步的
这个链接好
别人觉得男人可以，你自己怎么想呢？这是你自己内心的标准。上面一个层主说的好，不认识的男人撩她，她就会觉得对方轻浮。 回到你主贴，不要管男人怎么想，大量的男人欲求不满，心灵空虚，他们怎么想重要吗？重要的是你自己怎么想。
很有道理
看到后面有点懂了，楼主实际上就是想要和别人有一种轻松的，相互认同的氛围下的交流。感觉不需要通过调情啊，甚至应该刻意避免调情来体现相互间的尊重。可以和男性交流的内容很多啊，运动，政治，家居，休闲，相互展示自己广泛的兴趣和敏捷的思维。没什么可聊的，才会想调情吧？
这属于锦上添花的精神默契。当事双方得处于物质满足，亲密关系稳定的前提下，才能享受没有额外期待的轻松。如果原本就欲求不满，那必然别有目的，调情就变质成精神出轨了。
交流的内容也包括，欣赏帅男的衣着品味，body，聊一下感情性的问题
土了吧
可以，不犯法。
这个测试还挺好玩的，我做完了结果是：
哈哈哈
哈哈好样的
其实一切都随心吧，不要刻意制造，也不要刻意回避，善待自己，不要太委屈自己，就不会委屈别人。对自己太苛刻受苦太多才会对别人苛刻。和有的老公一起生活啊，你不偷个情让自己的感情有个出口，真的会死，真的会死。。。。。。
很多时候我说什么话做什么事都是直觉，当时不懂，很多年后才想明白当时为啥会那么做。看似的偶然都有其必然。
中年夫妇基本都没有浪漫可言，有人毫不犹豫地离婚找第二春，有人遮遮掩掩地想婚外恋然后还硬说自己是调情，我不想这样。 但是我认识一个朋友，非法国人，他说他会在度假的时候和遇上的漂亮性感的女孩喝个酒，聊个天，约个炮。 我觉的这个可以接受。 男的好像都主动地会多看美女几眼，甚至约炮，就像有的女的也想跟帅哥调情吧，但是，大多数女人应该不会接受老公在外和别人约炮吧 版上女士怎么看，特别想知道，国女都是双标的 约炮是一种时尚，一种宣泄吗
意大利人对法国女人的轻佻装逼的嘲笑非常经典。
为什么意大利人这么觉得
但是现在如果我有出轨，我一定是被我老公气的，我会让老公知道，折磨他。想想都解气。知道男人在乎男人小心眼就得宠着他就不做了？？？？凭什么啊
我又不是他妈
约炮男女都不能接受，我说的是调情
伊能静的索多玛城 但你有没有？有没有在人生中会出现过一次灵光乍现？当时你们站的距离如此遥远，分属两堆不同的族类，但你感觉到他的呼吸起伏与你胸口的银制水蓝项链如此一致。你知道他在看你，用他心里的那只眼，你知道如果你们恋爱了是不会有语言在前面，你知道他想抱你，你知道跨过这些人群你们心里其实已经甚么都不在乎，也甚么都想放弃。
不过你还是转过身去，不想毁垮自己人生地离开。
连法国人自己也觉得意大利人比他们浪漫多了
这些可以和同性聊啊，而且可以聊的更没有顾忌😂
那是“藏蜂纳蝶”，哈哈哈
和同性聊这些话题不同，来自男人的角度，他们的想法，特别有意思的一件事
我从小就喜欢和男孩子玩，结婚前有几个哥们儿一起玩的，后来出国了也不联系了，后来朋友只剩下女生了，我不爱女生圈扎堆，话题很没意思。我羡慕国内的闺蜜还有一票高中大学的男同学一起吃饭聊天
这个不是努不努力的问题，好不好 什么都不想得到，说白了， 就是一个happy hour
什么是调情？人到中年纯聊天有意思吗？
把握好balance，不逾矩确是art
不聊天干嘛，闷死不甘心，出轨太麻烦
男人只会男性思维。以己度人。因为学生时代的女神往往是男生心里的白月光。所以念念不忘。但是女生不一样啊，毕业以后拥抱的是整片森林……谁还记得曾经的备胎N号？不值一见。哈哈哈
觉得调情恶心是对性有羞耻感。难道调情还要认真负责以结婚为目的的调？ 太功利，太不单纯了。哈哈
太对了，太形象了🤣以后女的在歺馆看见帅哥服务员也要多说几句
国女看到老公对其他女人多看两眼都要大吵大闹
说得好像很有道理的样子 但调情不出轨和脱了裤子摩擦有什么区别 反正都没突破最后一道防线嘛
脱了裤子还是艺术吗🤣
行为艺术