When the children are young, they are vulnerable and need parents. I am not saying that a woman cannot pursue career. However, I have concerns when people do not fulfill their parental responsibilities and do not care for those who are vulnerable and cannot speak for themselves. Just my two cents. I do not know the whole story of that post to make a judgement of what should be done.
When the children are young, they are vulnerable and need parents. I am not saying that a woman cannot pursue career. However, I have concerns when people do not fulfill their parental responsibilities and do not care for those who are vulnerable and cannot speak for themselves. Just my two cents. I do not know the whole story of that post to make a judgement of what should be done. doorsopen 发表于 2020-07-14 18:03
“When the children are young, they are vulnerable and need parents. I am not saying that a woman..." 你自己也写的是parents，怎么后面就变成woman事业的问题了？这是夫妻双方共同面临的问题。你这是偷换概念。
When the children are young, they are vulnerable and need parents. I am not saying that a woman cannot pursue career. However, I have concerns when people do not fulfill their parental responsibilities and do not care for those who are vulnerable and cannot speak for themselves. Just my two cents. I do not know the whole story of that post to make a judgement of what should be done. doorsopen 发表于 2020-07-14 18:03
“When the children are young, they are vulnerable and need parents. I am not saying that a woman..." 你自己也写的是parents，怎么后面就变成woman事业的问题了？这是夫妻双方共同面临的问题。你这是偷换概念。 木牛流马 发表于 2020-07-14 18:06
Yes, I said parents, no parent. This being said, you have the right to believe that kids do not need attention from mothers.
Yes, I said parents, no parent. This being said, you have the right to believe that kids do not need attention from mothers. doorsopen 发表于 2020-07-14 18:16
你又偷换概念。我什么时候说不需要妈妈的attention了？Kids need attention from BOTH parents. Period. 为什么你只提女性不提男性？
我觉得华人三大怪就是 没孩子的最喜欢谈怎么照顾家庭。 没蹲过家的最喜欢谈蹲家。 没投票权的最喜欢谈美国政治。
就靠月经贴赚流量赚积分阿。。。
批评那个lz的是站着说话不腰疼
对啊，一堆一堆已婚异地女的独立带娃老公周末回去看望的，太正常好吗，尤其要是能wfh已经很不错了，看隔壁楼道德卫士狂喷楼主对娃残忍真是为楼主打抱不平阿，那些喷子怎么这么心疼楼主老公儿子，绝对是羡慕嫉妒恨吧，还是说自我洗脑觉得自己刷了一辈子厕所的生活特别有成就感？不懂哈哈哈
哈哈，这话你也敢说。 我看你也经常讨论政治，你属于哪类？
同意这个 我自己妈妈就是我的role model, 到现在工作上的事情 有时候跟她聊聊, 都很有启发! 另外其实这个楼的楼主, 也别太跟那个帖子里的人一般见识了吧 ,哈哈 只能说各人有各人的眼界, 各人有各人的生活, 咱们祝福那个楼主就好了. 感觉那个帖子的衍生贴, 都好几个了 lol
我觉得就是嫉妒楼主有好老公能支持楼主在外面上班。。。估计喷楼主很多人老公赚的并不多，一个人赚钱养家扣扣搜搜，假装幸福感很足呢
是是是不是一般见识。我发帖也是想分享我的见闻，因为我发现很多白女管理层都会安排子女在自己公司实习。。。当然父亲安排的也很多，但讲真做了管理层不管是爸爸还是妈妈都对孩子有很大好处。。
我说刷厕所是一种夸张的修辞手法。。。形容在家纯干家务实在很自我牺牲。。
人是会变的。
其实还有一点很多家里蹲是没有很多有意义社交的机会的，上班至少和同事，上司，下属交流，一直在学习进步，对孩子也能传授，而一直在家做家务能学到什么呢？freelance也不错当然，只是有的人专业没办法freelance
太多太多妈妈都是这么过来的好嘛，这要是个男的，估计能上CNN头条感动中国十大人物啥的。。。
同意 潜移默化的影响
在美国人家几乎看不到异地！！！中国人还是为了钱，和女性必须有事业的执念啊！
给娃介绍intern这这这，想太远了吧。希望我娃可以自己奋斗，不要还不如当年她老母亲我了，当年老母亲我一个留学生可没人给我介绍intern。即使职业女性要做榜样，也不是让小孩觉得自己有山可靠，这就颠倒过来了。许多主妇教出来的孩子反倒在社会上牛逼向上的很。
说实话，娃在社会上成不成功我都不在乎，就希望娃开开心心。楼主的三观有点俗啊，intern啊什么的。。。职业妇女不应该就这点见识
When the children are young, they are vulnerable and need parents. I am not saying that a woman cannot pursue career. However, I have concerns when people do not fulfill their parental responsibilities and do not care for those who are vulnerable and cannot speak for themselves.
Just my two cents. I do not know the whole story of that post to make a judgement of what should be done.
“When the children are young, they are vulnerable and need parents. I am not saying that a woman..."
你自己也写的是parents，怎么后面就变成woman事业的问题了？这是夫妻双方共同面临的问题。你这是偷换概念。
难道为了钱，为了自己的事业，有什么错的呢？难道就因为是女人所以就错了吗？ 你个家庭妇女，在家蹲着吧，可别丢人现眼了
所以就闭嘴吧，不理解在华人网站上打一堆英文什么心理，在公司摸鱼吗？
Yes, I said parents, no parent. This being said, you have the right to believe that kids do not need attention from mothers.
你又偷换概念。我什么时候说不需要妈妈的attention了？Kids need attention from BOTH parents. Period. 为什么你只提女性不提男性？
为钱为事业没问题，为吃喝玩乐都没问题。别生孩子，想两地两地，想加班加班，没烦恼。 还是你觉得什么都能抓到？那个楼主没有提老公回家的事儿，你去劝她老公辞职带孩子嘛，骂网友干嘛。
穷人都能生孩子，精神病都能生，双职工没空给孩子手洗尿布的不能生了？异地要都不能生娃，一半留学生国男都要断子绝孙了，尤其是收入一般的烂系国男。嫁给老外的马上有绿卡，都不需要苦兮兮熬身份熬，嫁给有钱的也行了，问题一堆烂系国男挣不了几个钱也没身份还想老婆全职带孩子？好多男的还是靠老婆的工作办的绿卡呢。靠一个烂系国男收入生活紧巴巴那是什么生活质量？吃奶票什么的都是这类人想出来的吧