写给家长--start your child's off-campus from a smart schedule

写给我的middle/high school 学生家长的，小点的孩子稍微修改修改也能用。
Hello, parents Since most of us are staying home with our wonderful children 7/24, we understand this could be fun but also challenging. To support our students most effectively, we should all make a schedule first! (sample and smart tips attached)
Activity 1----Make your child's very own schedule via Family Meeting Goal: 1.Make a schedule to make your off-campus life more organized and also support your child to meet assignments expectation, their entertainment needs and keep the house clean and organized! *the schedule should be modifiable according to needs overtime via family meeting Family Meeting Procedure: 1.) Announce: The Goal of this family meeting: to create a schedule for XX 2.) Compliments(every family member share something to appreciate each other’s efforts, such as whoever do not cook should say thank you to the cook in the house;) It might sound a little awkward for some of you, but soon you will see the power of expressing love/appreciation verbally----these appreciate and love will make the schedule work 3.) Brainstorming for calendar Learning needs Playing needs Housework needs Personal interests needs others 4.) A family fun activity such as a game, cooking, or popcorn and a movie. Can be a family Wii game together, popcorn&moive night, hike in the early morning/at noon (most people are having lunch, safe to go out :))) just suggestion from me, you make your own decision at your own risk :) 5.) Calendar for a family fun event Make it happen by adding it on your family calendar
Sample-

Time	Task	Expectation
8-8:30	Breakfast	Eat, clean after yourself
8:30-9:30am	Online class/assignments	Keep an agenda/to-do list for assignments deadlines; break into manageable pieces if needed; Parents support if needed.
9:30-10am	Playing time	Location, Xx, xx and xx activities are recommended
10-11 am	Online class/assignments	Update agenda/to-do list
11 am-12 pm	Housework time (gardening, walking dogs, cook, vacuuming, cleaning the toilets, organize own room, laundry…...)	Specific expectations should be listed
12pm-12:30	lunch
12:30-1:30	Playing/screen time	Location, Xx, xx and xx activities are recommended
1:30-3pm	Online class/assignments	Location, materials and related things need to be discussed to avoid any damage or unexpected accident
4-5 pm	Cook for dinner (work as chef assistant)
5-6 pm	Dinner	Family fun activities time Updates on homework progress and ideas about today’s activities
6-7 pm	Playing/screen time	Location, Xx, xx and xx activities are recommended
7-9 pm	Personal interest work time (draw, game design, dance, etc)	Location, materials and related things need to be discussed to avoid any damage or unexpected accident
9 pm	Ready for bed

Tips *It’s very important to discuss and agree on “Specific expectations”, so students know what to do, and how to do, and also what you exactly want him/her to do.
*Please distinguish between “playing” and “ personal interests”. Playing includes card/video/table games, screen time, Wii games, etc; personal interests include these more “professional activities” which might be fun for some, but not others. Such as music instrument practicing, examing a broken radio and see how it works, even fix it; drawing; game designing; book reading, story writing, sawing, kite making……(tons of books or youtube videos teach these skills!) If your child has NO personal interest at this moment, it’s perfect to discover one.

对大点孩子有用 小孩子你 make 多少 schedule，不管是看书讲故事，还是玩，还是户外，还是家务，说白了小孩都得大人陪着做。。。。家长还要工作呢

回复 2楼Cumberbitch的帖子 其实也不是绝对吧。4岁以下的可能不Make that much sense.其实4，5岁以上的孩子，只要你肯执行，开头辛苦一点，孩子慢慢的就懂了，慢慢的就不需要那么多的one on one support.

回复 2楼Cumberbitch的帖子

其实也不是绝对吧。4岁以下的可能不Make that much sense.其实4，5岁以上的孩子，只要你肯执行，开头辛苦一点，孩子慢慢的就懂了，慢慢的就不需要那么多的one on one support.
zoezoe1123 发表于 3/24/2020 1:33:08 PM

4,5岁本来就是大点儿孩子了啊
都能自己做很多事情了，也不用陪着玩，陪着看书了，也可以自己到院子里撒欢儿去了

其实小点儿孩子也能自己玩，但是 span 很短，玩一会儿就得过来跟你交流下。。。而且不能直接发到外边去

mark mark

和我女儿的Schedule有点像，不过她都六年级了，现在她正在做发面饼当午饭，这种，我上会网。

现在就只差雇个pm来管着娃好好执行 schedule了。。。。

我这两天小学生娃在家根本没有办法专心工作，一会儿帮忙看这个数学题，一会儿娃吵着无聊了，想法子给她娱乐，一会儿要吃饭。我自己工作压力很大，timesheet没法交代，不好混呀

真的，老公不在家我现在自己wfh，能保证效率的完成工作下班前交差daily report已经压力够大了好吗，还要再supervise两个孩子认真执行作息时间表？！ 一个孩子还好说，家有两个以上的，要互相隔离开，彼此不打扰对方，还要自觉按作息表走不用大人监督，这是骗从来没带过低龄孩子的呢吗？俩大人在家办公都时不时互相影响呢。 我就希望老师们能leave us alone，别提那么多时间限制。低年级孩子，愿意随便读点书写点字出去院子里疯玩就随他们去吧，最好连作业都不要留。非要走个预定的时间表，这是安抚家长的焦虑还是老师失去控制的焦虑呢？

老师也就是试着做点事，家长别认真就好，按自家条件安排，孩子也不差这两个月的时间。

我觉得简单说几句就行了。主要内容是：现在在家，一对一，效率会高很多。所以学习时间每天一两小时以内就足够了。更重要是保持轻松愉快的心情，和孩子的心理、身体健康

这不是一两个月啊，理想情况好都要到九月才开学了，

mark 一下，看起来比较难执行

我自己都做不到，还管得住小孩？ 大家都轻松点算了，搞个weekly的目标，趁着效率高的时候完成就得了。

只想求教下楼上说4-5岁孩子能单独的都怎么调教的？ 我们4岁半没法根本没法自己看书，他能自己阅读，但是阅读的时候需要我看着她阅读或者一起阅读，我不在，或者旁边刷手机根本不同意。 一个人阅读她会觉得无聊，也不读了。。。。。其他事情都类似。我能从哪里培养她？