“If you're a woman, it's almost impossible to establish a relationship. You're too much for everybody. It's too much. The woman always has to play this role of being fragile and dependent. And if you're not, they're fascinated by you, but only for a little while. And then they want to change you and crush you. And then they leave.”
"From a very early time, I understood that I only learn from things I don't like. If you do things you like, you just do the same shit. You always fall in love with the wrong guy. Because there's no change. It's so easy to do things you like. But then, the thing is, when you're afraid of something, face it, go for it. You become a better human being." What's the cost? "Ah, a big one. Lots of loneliness, my dear. If you're a woman, it's almost impossible to establish a relationship. You're too much for everybody. It's too much. The woman always has to play this role of being fragile and dependent. And if you're not, they're fascinated by you, but only for a little while. And then they want to change you and crush you. And then they leave. So, lots of lonely hotel rooms, my dear."
出轨贴浪潮中，开个贴，慢慢八一下这对相爱相杀的行为艺术家恋人。
相爱与1970年代，乌维·赖斯潘（Uwe Laysiepen，简称：乌雷Ulay）与阿布拉莫维奇（Marina Abramović）住在货车里游历世界。
将生命交给彼此，以身体创造艺术。
1988年，经历痛苦的背叛和出轨之后，两人在长城上，向左走向右走了几个月，完成了最后一次共同作品。
阿布说：“人们在开始一段感情上花费了那么多努力，却总是草草应对一段感情的结束。”
从此分手，天各一方。
22年后，2010年乌雷悄声来到MOMA，现身在阿布与陌生人对视一分钟的表演作品上。
“假若他日相逢，我将何以贺你？以眼泪，以沉默”。
阿布打破了规矩，向乌雷伸出双手，四手紧握，泪眼朦胧。
感动了万千世人的重逢，并未带来相忘于江湖的释然。
2015年，因版权和经济纠纷，乌雷将阿布告上法庭。
这场官司最后是乌雷胜诉，阿布沉默。
随后，乌雷再婚。阿布继续选择独身的自由。
2017年，阿布和乌雷冰释前嫌。
阿布说，她已经放下了“一切的愤怒和所有的仇恨”。
乌雷则说，“每个讨厌的、不满意的东西都被舍弃了”。
2020年，乌雷去世。
阿布发文悼念76岁的乌雷说， “今天我非常悲伤……他是一位杰出的艺术家，也是一个值得深思的人。”
属于两人的经典及爱恨从此落幕，永远留给世人的，是重逢那一刻时的惊诧、紧张和湿了眼眶。
在分享一段阿布对于女性和情感的名言吧：
“If you're a woman, it's almost impossible to establish a relationship. You're too much for everybody. It's too much. The woman always has to play this role of being fragile and dependent. And if you're not, they're fascinated by you, but only for a little while. And then they want to change you and crush you. And then they leave.”
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哈哈，我改。输入法非要“累”。
乌雷是艺名（Ulay），原名乌维（Uwe Laysiepen）
惊现粉丝lady gaga
那是个Installation吧？
这样的感情也牵扯到了生不生孩子这样通俗的剧情。
大叔长城上颜值不太行了，但是MOMA的时候，风度又回来了，那表情撩得很自然啊...
"From a very early time, I understood that I only learn from things I don't like. If you do things you like, you just do the same shit. You always fall in love with the wrong guy. Because there's no change. It's so easy to do things you like. But then, the thing is, when you're afraid of something, face it, go for it. You become a better human being." What's the cost? "Ah, a big one. Lots of loneliness, my dear. If you're a woman, it's almost impossible to establish a relationship. You're too much for everybody. It's too much. The woman always has to play this role of being fragile and dependent. And if you're not, they're fascinated by you, but only for a little while. And then they want to change you and crush you. And then they leave. So, lots of lonely hotel rooms, my dear."