It is normal at this age. My dtr took two naps till 15 months or so. First nap is about 2 hours after she wakes up in the morning. Second nap in 3-4 hours after the first nap. She needed about 13 hours of sleep each day. I counted her total awake time, and predicted her bedtime at night fairly accurately.
Every baby is different. You cannot say that her child's routine is bad just because he is different from your child. In fact, it is very unusual for a child to sleep for 10 hours at newborn stage. Our doctors would be strongly against letting a newborn sleep through the night without feeding.
吧保姆的工作量给楼主量化一下：
早上：做早饭，洗碗，扫地拖地，看娃一个半小时8:30-10:00+半个小时楼主吃饭的时间。
中午：做午饭，洗碗，看娃一个半小时1:30-3:00+半个小时楼主吃饭的时间。
晚上：做晚饭，洗碗，看娃半个小时（楼主和老公吃饭的时候）
一天平均8个小时，$120，$15/小时。
你家娃真的两个午睡不算哄睡都是俩小时以上吗？12点半醒了能不能推到4点半再睡？然后娃睡觉阿姨做晚饭。8个月肯定有醒着超过三个半小时的时候了，这段时间统统丢给阿姨。
白天睡太多了
为啥要俩人喂？
打碗就上finger food让他自己吃。
你家宝宝的作息非常不好。我家宝宝那时候出生第二天就是每个晚上十小时的整觉，白天下午一个nap.你如果把作息调整好，你自己就会轻松很多。你的阿姨工作量正常，你的问题完全出在你娃日夜颠倒，晚上不能睡整觉。。
吃饭就是吃饭，不要逗。。。坏习惯
同意这个。不管几个人，只要都在家就会一起看娃，大家还都觉得事多，其实效率很低，你在家的话娃肯定不要保姆。你只要腾出保姆做饭的时间就好
因为你不肯放手
我觉得吃饭，睡觉应该交给保姆，这两个时候你完全不要出现，刚开始会哭，不出三天就乖啦。而且吃饭睡觉时候娃也会乖很多，正好适合开始上规矩
Feeding can be a one-person job, whoever feeds the child can entertain the child at the same time.
It is normal at this age. My dtr took two naps till 15 months or so. First nap is about 2 hours after she wakes up in the morning. Second nap in 3-4 hours after the first nap. She needed about 13 hours of sleep each day. I counted her total awake time, and predicted her bedtime at night fairly accurately.
Every baby is different. You cannot say that her child's routine is bad just because he is different from your child. In fact, it is very unusual for a child to sleep for 10 hours at newborn stage. Our doctors would be strongly against letting a newborn sleep through the night without feeding.