从停车场出来就听到后面一个白人妈妈跟小孩说先去洗手间，是个四五岁的小男孩，我还想了一下这个小孩是要去女厕所了。果然她们跟在我后面一起去了洗手间，我关上stall的门后看见右边下面🈶️一双小脚，然后往上一看，正趴在门缝上偷看呢。我就说no peeking. Stop doing that! 旁边她妈妈还问他在干什么。出来后我怕她们尴尬还压低了声音跟那个妈妈说请你告诉他不在厕所里偷看………结果没想到那个妈自己居然大声说 please don’t tell me how to be a parent! He’s not even three (睁着眼睛说瞎话！我自己也俩娃了，三岁五岁还是看得出来的！）see how terrified he is! 我真是震惊的无f***可说！顿时觉得这个孩子将来长歪了都是有这么个妈！提醒她都多余了！难道还真的是多余了？三五岁的男孩这种行为不需要被纠正？
也许换个说法会好点？比如就事论事， i dont feel comfortable that someone was peeking through the stall when my daught was peeing? 我也不知道好不好 讨论讨论。 我发现2-3岁在学校教室里potty都是男孩女孩一起围观的，就是马桶就放在那里 没有门的，这个正常吗？还是只是加州的学校这样？有次参观一个preschool, 一个孩子在老师的帮助下在potty train，其他几个娃就在旁边围观。。。
也许换个说法会好点？比如就事论事， i dont feel comfortable that someone was peeking through the stall when my daught was peeing? 我也不知道好不好 讨论讨论。 我发现2-3岁在学校教室里potty都是男孩女孩一起围观的，就是马桶就放在那里 没有门的，这个正常吗？还是只是加州的学校这样？有次参观一个preschool, 一个孩子在老师的帮助下在potty train，其他几个娃就在旁边围观。。。
也许换个说法会好点？比如就事论事， i dont feel comfortable that someone was peeking through the stall when my daught was peeing? 我也不知道好不好 讨论讨论。 我发现2-3岁在学校教室里potty都是男孩女孩一起围观的，就是马桶就放在那里 没有门的，这个正常吗？还是只是加州的学校这样？有次参观一个preschool, 一个孩子在老师的帮助下在potty train，其他几个娃就在旁边围观。。。
从停车场出来就听到后面一个白人妈妈跟小孩说先去洗手间，是个四五岁的小男孩，我还想了一下这个小孩是要去女厕所了。果然她们跟在我后面一起去了洗手间，我关上stall的门后看见右边下面🈶️一双小脚，然后往上一看，正趴在门缝上偷看呢。我就说no peeking. Stop doing that! 旁边她妈妈还问他在干什么。出来后我怕她们尴尬还压低了声音跟那个妈妈说请你告诉他不在厕所里偷看………结果没想到那个妈自己居然大声说 please don’t tell me how to be a parent! He’s not even three (睁着眼睛说瞎话！我自己也俩娃了，三岁五岁还是看得出来的！）see how terrified he is! 我真是震惊的无f***可说！顿时觉得这个孩子将来长歪了都是有这么个妈！提醒她都多余了！难道还真的是多余了？三五岁的男孩这种行为不需要被纠正？ Snowwhat 发表于 1/17/2020 6:07:34 PM
妳为什么不回话?? it doesn't matter how old he is, i don't want anyone watching me pee. 而且也没听到她教育孩子.小孩子这样是可以理解, 但是家长要有纠正的态度出来.
+1 don’t ever tell other parents how to be a parent. I think Lz is very rude. You’ve already told that kid to stop. I assumed he stopped after that. It’s unnecessary to tell the parent what to do afterwards. One time my 6 year old went to a shopping center with me. I had to use bathroom and he can’t be outside by himself. So I took him in lady’s room and made sure he stood by the sink and talked to me so that I knew he was there safe. Later, a white women told me that he was too old for women’s room. I told her “it’s none of your business”. She is not responsible if I lose my son.
也许换个说法会好点？比如就事论事， i dont feel comfortable that someone was peeking through the stall when my daught was peeing? 我也不知道好不好 讨论讨论。 我发现2-3岁在学校教室里potty都是男孩女孩一起围观的，就是马桶就放在那里 没有门的，这个正常吗？还是只是加州的学校这样？有次参观一个preschool, 一个孩子在老师的帮助下在potty train，其他几个娃就在旁边围观。。。
小孩儿妈妈不对，本来就是自己孩子做的不对家长有责任看着的，you are not supposed to tell ppl how they should feel 小娃是爱干这种事，我女儿2岁左右也这样，真真气死。我自己带着她，刚坐下，她就试图爬到隔壁去（挡板下面有空），我一手抓裤子，一手抓她的衣服，让她回来，她还企图挣扎，我那姿势别提多尴尬了。 不管怎样，这事一定是要管的。我家女娃都要管的。
+1 don’t ever tell other parents how to be a parent. I think Lz is very rude. You’ve already told that kid to stop. I assumed he stopped after that. It’s unnecessary to tell the parent what to do afterwards. One time my 6 year old went to a shopping center with me. I had to use bathroom and he can’t be outside by himself. So I took him in lady’s room and made sure he stood by the sink and talked to me so that I knew he was there safe. Later, a white women told me that he was too old for women’s room. I told her “it’s none of your business”. She is not responsible if I lose my son.
lilly123 发表于 1/17/2020 7:28:57 PM
Right, nobody but you are responsible if you lose your son. That's totally parents' responsibility for children's bad behaviors. Why the one who got offended by your child can not talk to the lousy parent to stop his or her little brats being harassing people? ? do you expect people directly do something to your kid, even though you kid asked for it? You don't.
She already told the boy to stop. That’s enough. She doesn’t have to say anything more than that. againstwind 发表于 1/18/2020 12:01:39 PM
I will just spit on the boy in return. Words do not do anything good in this case. sorry sometimes being a bitch is the only effective way to live better. Plus it might make the boy never ever peep from under the stalls again. Be a good Samaritan.
也许换个说法会好点？比如就事论事， i dont feel comfortable that someone was peeking through the stall when my daught was peeing? 我也不知道好不好 讨论讨论。 我发现2-3岁在学校教室里potty都是男孩女孩一起围观的，就是马桶就放在那里 没有门的，这个正常吗？还是只是加州的学校这样？有次参观一个preschool, 一个孩子在老师的帮助下在potty train，其他几个娃就在旁边围观。。。
同以为
真的是 我刚好认得几个极左 都爱whole foods
有的学校有门，有的学校没有，我也不知道为啥
我娃三岁时上的是有的，娃有一阵热衷从隔板下面爬来爬去，老师告状，我和娃说了好几次后来不爬了…
我儿子3-4岁班也这样
妳为什么不回话??
it doesn't matter how old he is, i don't want anyone watching me pee. 而且也没听到她教育孩子.小孩子这样是可以理解, 但是家长要有纠正的态度出来.
为什么不说回去呢?这样好憋气的.
真的是，而且同类产品他们一般都比别家贵
你说得对！！就应该说回去！
+1 don’t ever tell other parents how to be a parent. I think Lz is very rude. You’ve already told that kid to stop. I assumed he stopped after that. It’s unnecessary to tell the parent what to do afterwards.
One time my 6 year old went to a shopping center with me. I had to use bathroom and he can’t be outside by himself. So I took him in lady’s room and made sure he stood by the sink and talked to me so that I knew he was there safe. Later, a white women told me that he was too old for women’s room. I told her “it’s none of your business”. She is not responsible if I lose my son.
不觉得人家妈妈说娃不到3岁是说谎了，有的娃就是长得大只，而且小朋友在年龄这个问题很较真儿，你把他说小了，他绝对会跳出来矫正你的。
同意上面说的，楼主rude. 你恶心人家，人家也恶心你，很公平。
10岁太大了，我自己养儿子的 一般gym都写了6岁以上不能进 那段时间我可焦虑了，上个厕所要扯着嗓子喊Are you still there？ 同厕的大妈们都很理解我 会告诉我，他还在那 大一点就好了，总是要教育的
给白左一个交智商税的机会挺好。
德州的幼儿园也这样
是呀。别说美国人吧，被别人训斥了总会激发逆反心理的。你好言好语说也就罢了，上来训斥，出言不善，肯定被反击呀。
She already told the boy to stop. That’s enough. She doesn’t have to say anything more than that.
10岁太大了。六七岁我可以理解
神经病吧。你叫了警察就等着被警察白眼吧
Right, nobody but you are responsible if you lose your son. That's totally parents' responsibility for children's bad behaviors. Why the one who got offended by your child can not talk to the lousy parent to stop his or her little brats being harassing people? ? do you expect people directly do something to your kid, even though you kid asked for it? You don't.
有难度，不过可以spit on him. good idea.
I will just spit on the boy in return. Words do not do anything good in this case. sorry sometimes being a bitch is the only effective way to live better. Plus it might make the boy never ever peep from under the stalls again. Be a good Samaritan.
确实。我认识至少3个7岁的娃，比一般7岁的高大半个头，象8、9岁的