学校老师说:All things made in China are fragile

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Viviennedd
You get what you paid for, too bad you can’t afford good things from China.当时怼了
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Viviennedd
回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 写的好,合情合理地上纲上线非常适合邮件投诉。
甜甜圈123
以前我读书的时候和老师杠过, 我说的是 they get what they paid。 大都会博物馆的文物中国文物都很贵。 如果他们想花低于成本的价格获取某样产品,那么质量肯定不会好,如果愿意付合理的价格,所获得的产品的质量是有保障的。
yulingxi 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:39 AM


杠的漂亮!
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wobuaichicu
以前我读书的时候和老师杠过, 我说的是 they get what they paid。 大都会博物馆的文物中国文物都很贵。 如果他们想花低于成本的价格获取某样产品,那么质量肯定不会好,如果愿意付合理的价格,所获得的产品的质量是有保障的。
yulingxi 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:39 AM


难道还指望一美元的小物品用一辈子? 美国从made in China获利最多,同样的商品比其他国家卖得都便宜。得了便宜还卖乖~
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wobuaichicu

从常识讲,厂家在交货前是要被验货的,除非真是钱多的发烧,不然不按规格故意找便宜替代品的后果就是一批货白做。美国这种不骂故意做便宜货的资方,反而骂代工的厂方真是神一样的逻辑和智商。

Mintcafe 发表于 1/10/2020 11:33:06 AM


不仅如此,严格按照美方规格做出来的产品,结果设计有缺陷,出了事故之后,新闻标题一样强调“中国生产的某某产品blah blah"
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wobuaichicu
从楼主的反应就知道为什么在美国所有人都捏华人这个软柿子了。
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helenscream1988
我在这里读书时候老师也这么说
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科罗伊
楼主不要怕,现在就写信给学校,因为事件处理都是有时效性的,学校要以对孩子的影响来考量。你转走了再写不会有任何作用。

华人都不喜欢正面回应矛盾,但是你要想想你给孩子做什么榜样,不管结果如何,你的积极态度会永远鼓励他。
Racism 零容忍。
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famillerose


直接找校长,老师肯定会道歉。但是我孩子现在还在这个老师班里,老师也是人,你告了她一状,她心里肯定有隔阂。总不见得为了这个事要求学校换个班吧。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:34:48 AM

所以宁可你孩子心里有隔阂,也不肯让老师心里有隔阂?和楼里的某位同学一样,能这么讲的人,心里只怕早对中国和国人有隔阂了吧,明显丝毫也没把你孩子的感觉放在心里,你觉得这应该继续下去?mm这是在美国,不讲究温柔敦厚,讲究自己的权利要绝对维护,你不维护就是明示请对方继续踩啊,自己也罢了,小孩子很无辜啊。

Mintcafe 发表于 1/10/2020 11:25:10 AM
胆小怕事,只会让人欺负的更狠
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zongtong
不用跟老师扯皮,直接email给校长,看校长的处理,再不满意就给学区发信。
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Mintcafe

买买提的猥琐男吧?
aac 发表于 1/10/2020 1:55:43 PM

那位是女性。
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mark!!!
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cupppt
回复 22楼manbeing的帖子 你确定这种对中国有那么大偏见的老师你不告你儿子就能被平等对待相安无事?
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bellamia
我不用跟老师扯皮,直接email给校长,看校长的处理,再不满意就给学区发信。
zongtong 发表于 1/10/2020 3:43:38 PM

我个人觉得老师毕竟是每天孩子要面对的人,处理这种事情的时候一定要考虑到不要把孩子放在difficult position,不是说老师会retaliate,但是孩子年纪小,不一定有能力处理这种delicate的关系。

凡事第一次发生,我觉得最好还是给老师the benefit of doubt,的确有人说话不过脑子,或者就是ignorant,不一定就有discriminating intention,没有必要把老师put on the spot,我们自己的立场说清楚了,老师校长都明白了就好,如果再有下一次,那么对不起,作为家长就要escalate the issue
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Sunny111
楼主不要怕,现在就写信给学校,因为事件处理都是有时效性的,学校要以对孩子的影响来考量。你转走了再写不会有任何作用。

华人都不喜欢正面回应矛盾,但是你要想想你给孩子做什么榜样,不管结果如何,你的积极态度会永远鼓励他。
Racism 零容忍。

科罗伊 发表于 1/10/2020 3:42:05 PM

多好的教育孩子的机会,自己忍着到以后再说,培养的下一代以后敢维护正义吗
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lxu
回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 Great response. I'd add a short paragraph in the end (before best regards) if it were me - Please let us know your thoughts on this matter. We'd also appreciate it if you could facilitate a conversation with the teacher to prevent similar comments and future concerns. Thank you!
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nevergetlost
种族歧视,告到校长甚至学区
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lxu
回复 1楼manbeing的帖子 你好! 楼下的英文信写得很棒,我加了一段会让诉求更明显一些。 我是中学老师,以亲身经历告诉你,不要担心跟老师有隔阂,美国的老师不敢给学生穿小鞋。To earn respect, you need to stand up for yourself. In doing so, you are setting a great example for your child too. Good luck!
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Kissohkiss
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM


棒棒!
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jessneko
mm写的太好了。崇拜一下
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senia
回复 3楼manbeing的帖子 难道这个老师还敢对你儿子怎么样?你不能告诉你儿子,有啥不公平的事情回来告诉你们? 有事情当时直接怼回去,远比事后好多了。 我一个波兰裔的同事,说当时老师觉得她儿子成绩不好,说什么不是所有的人都需要读大学。 她直接当面把老师教育了一番,说作为一个教育工作者,你不应该这么说,还说不要以为我们是移民,英语不好,就觉得我们好欺负。那个老师瞬间认怂。
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回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 赞👍
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nj_guy
让你家孩子心平气和地和老师说,最好举个具体例子,一个大家都接受的例子。
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cherry888
要把整个事情前后都表述清楚,老师有没有权利这么说?这如果不涉及种族歧视就涉及干涉对方的言论自由,清醒一下头脑搞搞清楚再说。
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wyfyw
根本不尊重事实,啥电子产品不是中国产/组装的,几乎所有的电脑、手机,airpod, nintendo switch, 数不胜数,便宜的到几千刀的。好的,质量自然好。 原因主要是美国人接受中国负面洗脑的太多了。刻板印象,主要是洗出来的。
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回复 30楼bellamia的帖子
希望美华多一些mm这样的,不卑不亢,自尊自信,深以自己文化感到骄傲的。少一些自恨的,也少一些楼主这种怕这怕那,缩头缩脑的。
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lovejames
要把整个事情前后都表述清楚,老师有没有权利这么说?这如果不涉及种族歧视就涉及干涉对方的言论自由,清醒一下头脑搞搞清楚再说。
cherry888 发表于 1/10/2020 4:44:20 PM

一个老师在课堂上对小孩子说的话,这种“言论自由”还是有限度的,她自己在家里爱怎么说怎么说。
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anw
Chinese made in China are tough.
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饿
只有我一个人第一印象china是陶瓷的意思? ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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miumiulover
反正也要转学了,跟这个老师正面刚一下,老师敢说这话,一是因为无脑,二是觉得中国家长不能把TA怎样
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congcong8565
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM


写的真好 mark 一下,预防以后用到
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jennyalger
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

手动再点个赞
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qqzjqqzj
反正也要转学了,跟这个老师正面刚一下,老师敢说这话,一是因为无脑,二是觉得中国家长不能把TA怎样
miumiulover 发表于 1/10/2020 5:01:30 PM
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bbz1119
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM


我觉得这跟自己是不是中国人没有关系,也没必要把这一条作为理由, 什么伤害我们的感情啥的。写上去了反而让人觉得你不objective.
就抓事实说,这样一概而论的言论,会误导学生。 如果老师说 all things made in xx country is xxx, 就是不对的,不管这个xx是什么。
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hr717
fragile这个词这么小的孩子都不会知道在这里是贬义,还repeat给父母?烂坑
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echomom
Chinese heritage and culture和China是2回事, 人家没有诋毁Chinese culture. 建议直接改为we are originally from China.
走走看看吧
回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 赞啊👍
小K的大朋友
这种歧视估计在孩子成长过程中是避免不了的了,学习一下,以后给孩子树立处理问题的榜样。
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回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 写的很好👍
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kingcj
跟老师交流
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cong53


我知道,只要一采取行动老师肯定要道歉。但是孩子毕竟还在老师班里。
我们准备搬到更好的学区去。打算转学后,给校长写封信,告那个老师一状。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:06 AM

太弱了,难怪被人欺负。
你觉得老师如果不欺负一个中国人就会得怪病死,她是欺负你的娃还是30楼的娃?
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zh_y486
这个跟culture 扯不上关系。
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mocomo
这种应该可以举报他了吧 最后下次他再说就录下来或者留下证据 (比如其他人证 因为录音有的州好像不合法) 然后先检举到学校 说觉得老师说这样的带有歧视性的话不利于孩子的教育和成长 哈哈
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对不起bellamia mm,想点赞的、手滑了点了踩,以为三分钟后可以取消,没想到时间久了一点,过了五分钟就没法取消了。
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weiwei2008
不懂为什么要等到离开才反映,过了好久才说之前的事不是很奇怪可疑吗?而且小孩已经觉得不公平了,要示范他处理方法啊。什么都不做只是示范小孩即使不公平我们也要忍受
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CC99
太感谢Bellamia的范文。我得好好学习,有理有据的保护自己和自己的种族需谢谢🙏 Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about  a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second,  as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, 孩子回来说,老师在课上说All things made in China are fragile, 孩子说她不认为这样。 对于老师这种偏激的言语,不知道要不要和老师沟通一下。不管怎么说,说什么,感觉都会让孩子和老师之间出现间隔。 班上基本上都是美国人,只有我孩子是二代,还有一个三代亚裔。没有印度人。
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Exquisite
回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 Very nice, might need to add “disparaging” in front of “comment.”
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很多家长回复的太智慧了,必须马克,整理一下,感觉以后或许也能用得上。谢谢。
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学习学习
通商宽衣001
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM


谢分享!我有过同样的经历,相信我,这样做只有益处,没什么可瞻前顾后的;如果不stand up 恐怕我会更不舒服
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Xiaojiao
怎么觉得太敏感了!正好买了同一牌子的两个中国制造的电热水壶,前后不到一周都坏了,其实不光是中国制造,美国制造的很多东西也容易坏,象美国车老中没谁愿愿买吧? ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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mark。
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楼主孩子班上就孩子一个二代华人移民家庭,显然她是明知故犯。教师培训中一项基本的原则就是了解学生的文化背景,这么明显只有一个华人面前表露自己的偏见,把孩子也放在了被动的位置,赞成楼主找校长谈。
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lz啊,你不要因为孩子在班上,就不反驳老师啊。 你不反驳,老师会觉得自己是对的。 孩子也会觉得老师说的是对的。 老师这样的言行,已经让你的孩子受伤了。如果不反驳,还会让下一个孩子受伤!
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nickcuny
文明点,和校长说。粗暴点,报警,找媒体,再找教育局。
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laolezaiwai
这个应该立刻反应。的确是有时效性的。没有作为,只会让这个老师得寸进尺变本加厉。楼主怕告状之后孩子被老师刁难,可是面对歧视和霸凌,不反抗更会被刁难。 前面mm帮写的信很好,最好再写上老师的原话,我没看到她在信里叙述这个事情。
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不需要那些smart pants cveromments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

Very well said! And your English and communication skill is so good. May I ask you for advices how to improve English?
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Kristin汀汀
显然这傻逼老师和版上的几个ID一样,还活在二三十年前 支持投诉。楼主别心软。
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Sunny_June
给老师写信,然后以事实说话,大疆drone中国第一,iphone也是made in China,说她说的不appropriate,咱移民过来的听不得这个,如果人家没表示,那就往上捅 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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mintbreeze
如果是指瓷器就不会说made in China,会说made of china
只有我一个人第一印象china是陶瓷的意思? 饿 发表于 1/10/2020 4:58:00 PM
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hemutian
支持楼主complain。华人受到歧视需要发声,尤其是要给孩子做出榜样。
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lavinder1
回复10楼manbeing的帖子 我在美国当老师 这种情况一定要对回去。美国人只尊重tough kid。中国思维似的顺民只会被歧视和搞的更惨
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HopePeaceGrace
Very well said!
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about  a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second,  as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, XX bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:00 AM
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againstwind
孩子回来说,老师在课上说All things made in China are fragile, 孩子说她不认为这样。 对于老师这种偏激的言语,不知道要不要和老师沟通一下。不管怎么说,说什么,感觉都会让孩子和老师之间出现间隔。
班上基本上都是美国人,只有我孩子是二代,还有一个三代亚裔。没有印度人。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:12:44 AM


说: please be considerate since I am also very Fragile.
心函
是说制造业需要manufacturing diversity,注重于投资一个国家制造,一旦这个国家的人工费,材料费或者关税提高了,进口国的经济会be fragile吧,cnbc and bloomgerg news从去年开始就在敲警钟了
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anthfan
回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 膜拜,不卑不亢,mark了
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sNoOpY_cA
Apple products are made in China.
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marissa
我觉得说得没错啊,可能政治不正确。但属实
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fanyao
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

赞一个!太棒了👏
小娇
回复 164楼lavinder1的帖子
Well said! Exactly
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aiche
这个可以直接联系校长吧。以前我上学的时候一个破老师说过差不多的话, 我们直接给系主任写的信,第二节课,破老师就心不甘情不愿的道歉了。
冰冰凉 发表于 1/10/2020 10:18:21 AM


我知道,只要一采取行动老师肯定要道歉。但是孩子毕竟还在老师班里。
我们准备搬到更好的学区去。打算转学后,给校长写封信,告那个老师一状。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:06 AM
不敢正面刚,背后给人家打小报告。没品 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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aac
我觉得说得没错啊,可能政治不正确。但属实
marissa 发表于 1/10/2020 10:40:48 PM

你买不起好东西不要赖社会。
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Lindaleo
必须学习一下
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angelinawl
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

Mark 👍赞
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dhd
这老师还活在古代吗
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Cyabce
弯弯又出来现眼!
楼主孩子可以回中国去 en010272 发表于 1/10/2020 10:48:00 AM
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pino312
前一阵刚和同事杠过 从此没人在公共channel逼逼中国坏话 要是自己没有bone别人当然不用在乎你的feeling ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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Susanxian
问问老师为什么不买非中国产的。
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pandaliu
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

学习了 谢谢
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thirdwheel
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

学习了 谢谢
pandaliu 发表于 1/11/2020 1:24:41 AM
学习了 谢谢 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
小马和小猴
30楼mm写的真好 学起来
水銀
回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 你寫的表達得很坦直, 立場清楚, 相信會幫到那位家長和孩子。 非常感謝。
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aprilween
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

赞👍👍👍
陌上人如玉
必须和校长还有老师都严肃谈话,不可以这样赤裸裸抹黑任何一个国家包括中国的 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
流木 发表于 1/10/2020 10:14:31 AM

这个必须单独找老师和校长谈
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Daylight
以前我读书的时候和老师杠过, 我说的是 they get what they paid。 大都会博物馆的文物中国文物都很贵。 如果他们想花低于成本的价格获取某样产品,那么质量肯定不会好,如果愿意付合理的价格,所获得的产品的质量是有保障的。
yulingxi 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:39 AM

是这样的。其实厂家都愿意做欧洲市场,日本市场,要求高但是也愿意付相应的价钱。只有美国是两头便宜都要占,也许这个也是美国市场大,活跃的主要原因。但是美国消费者确实是占了便宜的
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dumbokitty
mark学习一下
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panxiaodao
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

这个太赞了,我要保留
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michel
如果是我儿子班上他肯定会立马问how about things made in India?
cqcq 发表于 1/10/2020 10:14:40 AM

你儿子这样用racism 抵挡racism的做法很low啊,有啥值得炫耀的
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ccang1234
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, XX

写的真好,赞一下
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laladomain
赞二楼Mm
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hawk
直接举报到校长,给学校施压,不要等。转学哪来得及啊?我就是私校老师,一位工作了至少20年的老师因为种族主义言论上个星期刚被开除了,很多学生都叫好,说这个老师平时就有点言论不当。我们是高中。楼主怕什么啊?我们亚裔真的不能太软弱!
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hawk
而且我建议这种事情不要写邮件,直接去校长办公室里面谈。我们亚裔风格还是太含蓄了。根据我在学校工作多年的经验,真正的大事一定要面谈。
驫龘麤靐

总觉得你这类人的存在才是对华人总体智商和人品的侮辱。

Mintcafe 发表于 1/10/2020 10:31:56 AM

别的不说,那股子阴阳怪气的劲真让人恶心。
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aawolverine
华人总嘲笑黑人穷犯罪率高,那是事实吗?是事实。但黑人听着不舒服。同理,老师说的不是事实吗?尽管华人听着也不舒服。truth hurts.你跟一日本人说”日本货质量差”,他肯定不急,因为谁都知道日本货质量。麻子怕说坑而已