学校老师说:All things made in China are fragile

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manbeing
楼主 (北美华人网)
孩子回来说,老师在课上说All things made in China are fragile, 孩子说她不认为这样。 对于老师这种偏激的言语,不知道要不要和老师沟通一下。不管怎么说,说什么,感觉都会让孩子和老师之间出现间隔。
班上基本上都是美国人,只有我孩子是二代,还有一个三代亚裔。没有印度人。

 

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jsams111
205 楼
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM
好奇宝宝1314
204 楼
绝对要告诉学校,不敢相信一个老师有这样的言辞,说明她/他其他方面也有问题,我会不放心把孩子交给这个老师的。
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graviton
203 楼
Well... Miss, not the Coronavirus.
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dajiangyoude
202 楼
太过分了。必须要学校处理这个老师的言行。此风不可长!
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aawolverine
201 楼
中国那么好,这么多粉红拖家带口不顾语言障碍身份障碍来美国下放么?

 

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流木
必须和校长还有老师都严肃谈话,不可以这样赤裸裸抹黑任何一个国家包括中国的 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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cqcq
如果是我儿子班上他肯定会立马问how about things made in India?
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boshi
孩子回来说,老师在课上说All things made in China are fragile, 孩子说她不认为这样。 对于老师这种偏激的言语,不知道要不要和老师沟通一下。不管怎么说,说什么,感觉都会让孩子和老师之间出现间隔。
班上基本上都是美国人,只有我孩子是二代,还有一个三代亚裔。没有印度人。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:12:44 AM

such as iPhone?
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tasukilover
必须和校长还有老师都严肃谈话,不可以这样赤裸裸抹黑任何一个国家包括中国的 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
流木 发表于 1/10/2020 10:14:31 AM
冰冰凉
这个可以直接联系校长吧。以前我上学的时候一个破老师说过差不多的话, 我们直接给系主任写的信,第二节课,破老师就心不甘情不愿的道歉了。
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jhr
很快他们就不这么认为了
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manbeing


such as iPhone?

boshi 发表于 1/10/2020 10:17:31 AM


和老师这样抬杠是没有意义的。
小娇
楼主,我赞你儿子。小小年纪,懂得反驳,比很多大人都强!
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manbeing
这个可以直接联系校长吧。以前我上学的时候一个破老师说过差不多的话, 我们直接给系主任写的信,第二节课,破老师就心不甘情不愿的道歉了。
冰冰凉 发表于 1/10/2020 10:18:21 AM


我知道,只要一采取行动老师肯定要道歉。但是孩子毕竟还在老师班里。
我们准备搬到更好的学区去。打算转学后,给校长写封信,告那个老师一状。
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yulingxi
以前我读书的时候和老师杠过, 我说的是 they get what they paid。 大都会博物馆的文物中国文物都很贵。 如果他们想花低于成本的价格获取某样产品,那么质量肯定不会好,如果愿意付合理的价格,所获得的产品的质量是有保障的。
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dewydewy
回复 1楼manbeing的帖子[/url] 可以反映到学校,但为人师表这种水平,比起气愤更要担心孩子的教育吧。同时教娃以后文明打脸,boston的新地铁就是中国做的,当地政府采购的。没有见识的人真没办法,pathetic,总想着花着清仓促销大甩卖的价格买到高奢定制的质量
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manbeing
楼主,我赞你儿子。小小年纪,懂得反驳,比很多大人都强!

小娇 发表于 1/10/2020 10:19:52 AM


她是回来跟我说她不是这样认为的。没有当场反驳老师。
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coolcream
辱华了,爱国人士快上,国产疫苗奶粉狗粮买起来啊
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pitbull3166
无知啊~ 美国这种人太多了。 我之前去酒吧约会,背了个香奈儿。邻座儿一个美国女生就来夸奖:哇,你的包包好漂亮!哪里买的? 我就说:我在中国买的。 (其实是在香港) 她马上一副泄了气的皮球的表情,一扬眉毛 “ohhh....” 我当时没明白为什么,后来才明白他们很多人认为made in china就是假货。 话说之前在曼哈顿中国城溜达,有很多福州团伙问游客买不买箱包手表。 我在奶茶店,前面的保加利亚女游客买了5个香奈儿,不同颜色的,正放在桌子上验货。 我瞅着那些货,虽然仿的真,但是没有形。 如果说假货,中国大陆卖的很多假货倒真是能以假乱真。
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cqcq
这个不是辱华啥的。每一个国家都有做的好的跟不好的,为人师表在移民国家这么说是相当没有基本素质的
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cqcq
这个在纽约就是被咔嚓掉了,被孩子们在班上
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awang20546
直接找学校负责人。这都什么年代了,还敢公开在教室里说影响下一代。这个一定要深究到底。在家随便说。出来说就要付责任。
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Mintcafe
辱华了,爱国人士快上,国产疫苗奶粉狗粮买起来啊
coolcream 发表于 1/10/2020 10:22:54 AM

总觉得你这类人的存在才是对华人总体智商和人品的侮辱。
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Mintcafe
直接找学校负责人。这都什么年代了,还敢公开在教室里说影响下一代。这个一定要深究到底。在家随便说。出来说就要付责任。
awang20546 发表于 1/10/2020 10:27:33 AM

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pinkymania
这老师也太过分了。不仅是歧视,而且根本不尊重事实好吗?现在中国制造真的很厉害好吗?你是什么老师?真让人生气!
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manbeing

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Mintcafe 发表于 1/10/2020 10:32:18 AM


直接找校长,老师肯定会道歉。但是我孩子现在还在这个老师班里,老师也是人,你告了她一状,她心里肯定有隔阂。总不见得为了这个事要求学校换个班吧。
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yulingxi
回复 1楼manbeing的帖子[/url]

可以反映到学校,但为人师表这种水平...还可以教娃文明打脸,boston的新地铁就是中国做的,当地政府采购的。没有见识的人真没办法,pathetic,总想着花着清仓促销大甩卖的价格买到高奢定制的质量

dewydewy 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:49 AM


“总想着花着清仓促销大甩卖的价格买到高奢定制的质量” , 那个是 “抢劫”
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icespar
我家小孩三年级时的老师跟他们讲“我们要在边境建一道墙,这样把drug dealer都挡在外面”。 这位老师是我家小孩历任老师中水平最差的一位,总在班里吼学生。
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anotherdoor
讨论到这个问题我一般都说but who does the quality control? 厂家想要省钱 各种value engineer 找便宜的人工和便宜的材料 最后不能怪厂家吧?
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tijin85
我怎么觉得除非walmart那种质量的中国制造 其他的质量都很好啊
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VMC
我家小孩三年级时的老师跟他们讲“我们要在边境建一道墙,这样把drug dealer都挡在外面”。
这位老师是我家小孩历任老师中水平最差的一位,总在班里吼学生。
icespar 发表于 1/10/2020 10:38:07 AM


楼主孩子的老师说的话可比这“我们要在边境建一道墙,这样把drug dealer都挡在外面”要严重多了。

“我们要在边境建一道墙,这样把drug dealer都挡在外面”实际上只是政治不正确而已(当然,还有不现实。。。) 边境本来就是分隔国家用的,而且人家只是说要挡住”drug dealer",也就是说其他人爱进还是可以进么。。。
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boshi


直接找校长,老师肯定会道歉。但是我孩子现在还在这个老师班里,老师也是人,你告了她一状,她心里肯定有隔阂。总不见得为了这个事要求学校换个班吧。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:34:48 AM

那你想咋办?不敢找学校,不敢反驳。
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VMC
讨论到这个问题我一般都说but who does the quality control?
厂家想要省钱 各种value engineer 找便宜的人工和便宜的材料 最后不能怪厂家吧?
anotherdoor 发表于 1/10/2020 10:40:45 AM

楼主孩子的老师这么说话就不是在“讨论”问题。

比如要有人说“总的来说,中国人长得没有白人好看”,难道咱还老老实实的“讨论”说:“这个要看个人的主观感觉”?
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bellamia
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, XX
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en010272
楼主孩子可以回中国去
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VMC
楼主孩子可以回中国去
en010272 发表于 1/10/2020 10:48:14 AM


楼主孩子的老师也可以到中国去。

“可以”做的事多了去了,不是么?
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allenpanda
必须找老师和校长严肃谈,这属于extreme 和歧视的言论。
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miaomiao01
A general rule in life is you deserve what you paid for. and it would be ridiculous if people want more than what they are willing to pay. Btw, iPhones are made in China.
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pa303
回复 1楼manbeing的帖子 那个iPhone给老师看。
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VMC
A general rule in life is you deserve what you paired you, and btw, iPhone is made in China.
miaomiao01 发表于 1/10/2020 11:03:21 AM

这事本来就是老师说话不合适,带有明显的恶意针对。

没必要把它变成辩论会或者大家互相损来损去。。。
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pimpernel
这老师也太过分了。不仅是歧视,而且根本不尊重事实好吗?现在中国制造真的很厉害好吗?你是什么老师?真让人生气!
pinkymania 发表于 1/10/2020 10:32:47 AM

显然是很穷的老师,只买得起便宜货。
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miaomiao01

这事本来就是老师说话不合适,带有明显的恶意针对。

没必要把它变成辩论会或者大家互相损来损去。。。

VMC 发表于 1/10/2020 11:05:21 AM

那你觉得怎么做合适?如果非要回,我就会这样回。但如果我觉得老师已经low到不值得我去反驳的地步的话。我可能会ignore。因为很可能他narrow minded到某种别人怎样都无法改变的程度
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squirrel40
必须要投诉啊。 而且,某种程度上,楼主孩子也是made in China啊。
这个好过分啊 而且说实话mic真的是质量相当好的
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VMC

那你觉得怎么做合适?如果非要回,我就会这样回。但如果我觉得老师已经low到不值得我去反驳的地步的话。我可能会ignore。因为很可能他narrow minded到某种别人怎样都无法改变的程度

miaomiao01 发表于 1/10/2020 11:08:28 AM


不管是直接对老师还是对校长表达不满,都只需要针对老师这话的不合适与恶意,而不需要用“聪明”的方法证明她说的话的结论是“错的”或者是“不准确的”。楼上有人给了回复的例子。
用大白话说,就是说,用文明的方式去表达:“你爱怎么想怎么想,我管你想的事对是错是谬误是真理,但你敢这么说就被我抓住尾巴了”的意思。
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Mintcafe


直接找校长,老师肯定会道歉。但是我孩子现在还在这个老师班里,老师也是人,你告了她一状,她心里肯定有隔阂。总不见得为了这个事要求学校换个班吧。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:34:48 AM

所以宁可你孩子心里有隔阂,也不肯让老师心里有隔阂?和楼里的某位同学一样,能这么讲的人,心里只怕早对中国和国人有隔阂了吧,明显丝毫也没把你孩子的感觉放在心里,你觉得这应该继续下去?mm这是在美国,不讲究温柔敦厚,讲究自己的权利要绝对维护,你不维护就是明示请对方继续踩啊,自己也罢了,小孩子很无辜啊。
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miner2009
回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 这英文写的太好了
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damaicha
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

写得好赞
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Mintcafe
讨论到这个问题我一般都说but who does the quality control?
厂家想要省钱 各种value engineer 找便宜的人工和便宜的材料 最后不能怪厂家吧?
anotherdoor 发表于 1/10/2020 10:40:45 AM

从常识讲,厂家在交货前是要被验货的,除非真是钱多的发烧,不然不按规格故意找便宜替代品的后果就是一批货白做。美国这种不骂故意做便宜货的资方,反而骂代工的厂方真是神一样的逻辑和智商。
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suibiantucao
信写的非常赞!
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM


真的很感激华人有mm这样的支持!!!
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Favoredkid
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM


赞一个,有理有据有节。
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hijklmn
楼主孩子可以回中国去
en010272 发表于 1/10/2020 10:48:14 AM


所以你特别喜欢听身边的人贬低你污蔑你,我明白了。。。
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squirrel40
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

太赞了。
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hijklmn
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM


写得真好,不过我觉得应该把老师的原话放进来,而不是只是generally说“regarding products made in China”。。。
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plantsvszombies
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM
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VMC


所以你特别喜欢听身边的人贬低你污蔑你,我明白了。。。

hijklmn 发表于 1/10/2020 11:52:53 AM

这儿喜欢说中国这不好那不好的人还是有的,她们挺好这口儿的,我估计她们应该不觉得这是贬低侮辱她们自个儿。
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sunny010


我知道,只要一采取行动老师肯定要道歉。但是孩子毕竟还在老师班里。
我们准备搬到更好的学区去。打算转学后,给校长写封信,告那个老师一状。
manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:06 AM

如果是我,也是这个做法,老师道歉有什么用?她的想法不会改变,倒霉的只能是你孩子。
卖到美国的中国货质量都不错,在国内销售的中国货才会出现假冒伪劣。
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WarmClock
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM


既然是投诉,最好把老师说的原话列出来,具体事情发生的经过也要用文字描述清楚.否则,接收投诉的人不清楚发生了什么。这就像你去商店投诉买了假货,你不讲哪天,在哪里,哪个人 卖了哪一件假货。接收投诉的人第一感觉可能是反感:连事实都没讲清楚,怎么给你解决问题?
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wacxg
辱华了,爱国人士快上,国产疫苗奶粉狗粮买起来啊
coolcream 发表于 1/10/2020 10:22:54 AM

有病去治,在别人眼里你也是中国制造,别以为与众不同。
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q2w3e4r5
要是我就站起来说it’s not fair to say all. 哪里都有好的不好的,长城几千年了还很坚固,佛罗里达还有桥几天就塌了呢 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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q2w3e4r5
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM
真希望有人能总结下mm每次的精彩回复啊 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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Riquelme


直接找校长,老师肯定会道歉。但是我孩子现在还在这个老师班里,老师也是人,你告了她一状,她心里肯定有隔阂。总不见得为了这个事要求学校换个班吧。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:34:48 AM

你想多了,有了这个案底,老师就算想给你娃穿小鞋也会想到校长,家长都还盯着他呢,你不开口或者等着转学了再开口才真的是一点用都没有
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Aprilsunshine
直接给校长写信就说不希望自己的孩子在学校被stereotype and judgmental comments影响。quote 老师的原话就好。不过你家孩子多大?总觉得老师不应该犯这么低级的错误。
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Aprilsunshine
赞,这个写的好。
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about  a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second,  as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, XX bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:00 AM
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sugeeamimi15
太过分了 downright racism 绝对需要通报学校 零容忍
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vwot
跟校长说
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aiyamayayongle
回复 10楼manbeing的帖子 这种人是躲不完的,对付他们的方法就是反击。孩子在他/她班上是不假,你反击了,他/她还敢对孩子进一步做什么么?他/她看到对着孩子说这种不三不四的话,结果家长还没啥反应,甚至于都遁了,下一步就会在你遁之前蹬鼻子上脸了。牛二不挨刀子,镇关西不挨揍,是不会自己变好的。
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xinshi999
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

赞一个。
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aiyamayayongle
回复 22楼manbeing的帖子 话说,老师能说出这个话,他/她对你孩子原本也没啥好感的,有隔阂就有隔阂吧,总不能被恶心了还不能吐出来?
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wc3e
支持写信给校长,事情的解决方式和结果直接影响的是孩子对以后感觉受到不公平对待的态度,如果老师说了这话,孩子没什么感觉的话那也没什么,但是孩子已经觉得不fair回来告诉你, 你就不能什么都不做,等于告诉孩子以后受到委屈要忍气吞声。不用担心什么对孩子不利的话,这样的老师原本应该也不会对孩子多好,这样的事后反而会收敛态度。
资深少女
如果是我儿子班上他肯定会立马问how about things made in India?
cqcq 发表于 1/10/2020 10:14:40 AM


不妥。一个敌人没打倒又树立了更多的敌人
资深少女


我知道,只要一采取行动老师肯定要道歉。但是孩子毕竟还在老师班里。
我们准备搬到更好的学区去。打算转学后,给校长写封信,告那个老师一状。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:06 AM


你态度强硬老师反而不敢怎么样。马后炮效果差
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reiko1979
楼主都知道了也不反击,是比较挫。写信反应不满才能得到尊重,上面写得就很好。btw老师一年一换,明年就不教你娃了有啥可顾虑的
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SurelyNaked
直接找他老板
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xufengran


我知道,只要一采取行动老师肯定要道歉。但是孩子毕竟还在老师班里。
我们准备搬到更好的学区去。打算转学后,给校长写封信,告那个老师一状。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:06 AM

不是的,不采取行动才更容易被老师继续区别对待,要站出来抗议才能获得尊重。
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allenpanda
太赞了👍 如果不能理直气壮的defend自己的文化和出身,在社会上真的没法做人
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about  a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second,  as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, XX bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:00 AM
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chenchen01
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

不错不错,还直接动手帮忙写了。赞!楼主妈妈直接粘贴就可以用了。
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mt.everest
mark 以后抄 感觉写的蛮好
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about  a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second,  as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, XX bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:00
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bangobunny
cheap stuff suits most of American's budget whats wrong?
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luming
我家小孩三年级时的老师跟他们讲“我们要在边境建一道墙,这样把drug dealer都挡在外面”。
这位老师是我家小孩历任老师中水平最差的一位,总在班里吼学生。
icespar 发表于 1/10/2020 10:38:07 AM


这个是白宫去年某节日的庆祝活动之一,让小孩在白宫搭模拟墙 LOL
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elias
赞👍
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about  a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second,  as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, XX bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:00 AM
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lovejames
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM


手动赞。
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militear
二楼的英文好好!膜拜!马克了以后遇到同样问题直接抄😄
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JoJo0720
反映到学校,
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ilovess
老师素质太差,直接跟校长告状啊。bellamia mm的信写得太好了,不卑不亢,可以直接拿来用了。
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zl3341
以前我读书的时候和老师杠过, 我说的是 they get what they paid。 大都会博物馆的文物中国文物都很贵。 如果他们想花低于成本的价格获取某样产品,那么质量肯定不会好,如果愿意付合理的价格,所获得的产品的质量是有保障的。
yulingxi 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:39 AM

确实
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aac

总觉得你这类人的存在才是对华人总体智商和人品的侮辱。

Mintcafe 发表于 1/10/2020 10:31:56 AM

买买提的猥琐男吧?
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aiersha
回复 30楼bellamia的帖子 赞👍
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aac


你想多了,有了这个案底,老师就算想给你娃穿小鞋也会想到校长,家长都还盯着他呢,你不开口或者等着转学了再开口才真的是一点用都没有

Riquelme 发表于 1/10/2020 12:38:24 PM

等转学黄花菜都凉了,这老师以后欺负中国人更无顾忌.
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aac
楼主孩子可以回中国去
en010272 发表于 1/10/2020 10:48:14 AM

你也可以别来这个论坛.
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aac

显然是很穷的老师,只买得起便宜货。
pimpernel 发表于 1/10/2020 11:05:59 AM

现在便宜货大多不是made in china.
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Robbie16
写的真好,我得Mark下备用,这时候真不知道咋写。要是有国际友人给点儿建议就好了
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX, My daughter recently came home concerned about  a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China. I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected. Second,  as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school. Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from. Best Regards, XX bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:00
流木
这个可以直接联系校长吧。以前我上学的时候一个破老师说过差不多的话, 我们直接给系主任写的信,第二节课,破老师就心不甘情不愿的道歉了。
冰冰凉 发表于 1/10/2020 10:18:21 AM


我知道,只要一采取行动老师肯定要道歉。但是孩子毕竟还在老师班里。
我们准备搬到更好的学区去。打算转学后,给校长写封信,告那个老师一状。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:21:06 AM
你们太面了,难怪这老师敢当着你儿子的面说这种话 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
闲逛123
回复 1楼manbeing的帖子 要赞LZ的孩子。 单纯说mini boden, 以前made in China的时候,质量杠杠的。现在转到别的产地质量都没落了。
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Gugamama
不需要那些smart pants comments,直接写email 给校长,copy 老师, make transparent comments about your concern

Dear Mrs. XX and Mrs. XX,

My daughter recently came home concerned about a comment made during a class session, regarding products made in China.

I share my daughter's concern and in my mind, this is a two-fold issue. First, as you know, our family is from Chinese heritage, and we take a lot of pride in our culture. I do believe, as our community embraces diversity, all cultures and heritages should be equally valued and respected.

Second, as much as we are all entitled to our own opinions, which often are formed based on our past experiences, a generalized comment, about a person, a country or a matter, is often times not fair and / or lack of reasonable basis. That certainly would not be the example we would like to set for our children, whether that's at home or school.

Your continued support in this matter would be greatly appreciated and we, as a family, would also continue to foster the values shared in our communities and schools and embrace the cultural diversities that all of us benefit tremendously from.

Best Regards,

XX
bellamia 发表于 1/10/2020 10:46:25 AM

好回复!马克一下以后备用。
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pergine


直接找校长,老师肯定会道歉。但是我孩子现在还在这个老师班里,老师也是人,你告了她一状,她心里肯定有隔阂。总不见得为了这个事要求学校换个班吧。

manbeing 发表于 1/10/2020 10:34:48 AM


你作为家长真是太怂了,难得孩子都比你有勇气。如果你在那个老师班里,估计连反驳都不会,只能默默回家在华人上发帖。
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mondialito
真是很过分
妈妈爱娃娃
要是我,知道后的第二天就直接去校长办公室了。小孩子正是价值观养成的时候,我们要反击歧视,转学并不是一个好的应对方法。
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happyniu
楼主太弱了,给孩子立的榜样不好。都欺负到头上了,还一味退让和逃避。
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wcy19491983
呵呵 现在made in China的反而一般是中高端线了 那些转移到其他国家的真的从做工到材料都不咋地 当然更严重的是老师本身这种言论就是歧视
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Xiaojiao
很多中国制造的东西质量就是差呀,当然有外面监工质量的会好些! ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP