娃在学校屡次被熊孩子欺负应该反击吗?

msqs
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以前preschool老师建议先说stop,没用就打回去,这样下次熊孩子就不敢了
刚上小学,碰到一个熊孩子,朝娃吐口水,娃说了好几次stop没用,娃就踢了他一脚,他报告老师,两人都被批评教育,老师也通知了双方家长。所以之后碰到类似情况娃都按老师建议报告老师
最近一次音乐课上,熊孩子先拍娃pg,娃说stop他不听继续拍,娃报告音乐老师,音乐老师正忙着和别的老师说什么,就说一会去批评熊孩子,然后老师一转身熊孩子开始拍娃jj,娃阻止无效,再次报告音乐老师,音乐老师批评教育熊孩子,并报告home room teacher, hr teacher通知双方家长,严厉批评熊孩子。娃爹觉得第一次被拍pg阻止无效时,娃就应该打回去,这样不会有后来的骚扰了,因为老师总有管不着的时候,还是要靠自己,但是他们学校是动手的话两个都要被批评。大家觉得呢?
bellamia
说句实话,这种孩子就是欠扁:))要是我就和孩子说,一次说stop,第二次就不要客气,都送到校长室也不怕,我保证第一时间到,和老师校长开会解决问题呗,If XX didn't bother my kid,then nothing would have happened. We asked him to stop, he didn't. so this is the consequence, i'm sorry but i am not at all sorry. We are open to suggestions, how would you make him stop?
sophie518
说句实话,这种孩子就是欠扁:))要是我就和孩子说,一次说stop,第二次就不要客气,都送到校长室也不怕,我保证第一时间到,和老师校长开会解决问题呗,If XX didn't bother my kid,then nothing would have happened. We asked him to stop, he didn't. so this is the consequence, i'm sorry but i am not at all sorry. We are open to suggestions, how would you make him stop?
bellamia 发表于 12/18/2019 1:10:28 PM

说得对,进校长室也没问题,家长做好孩子的后盾!
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160erskine
说句实话,这种孩子就是欠扁:))要是我就和孩子说,一次说stop,第二次就不要客气,都送到校长室也不怕,我保证第一时间到,和老师校长开会解决问题呗,If XX didn't bother my kid,then nothing would have happened. We asked him to stop, he didn't. so this is the consequence, i'm sorry but i am not at all sorry. We are open to suggestions, how would you make him stop?
bellamia 发表于 12/18/2019 1:10:28 PM


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tlzln
说句实话,这种孩子就是欠扁:))要是我就和孩子说,一次说stop,第二次就不要客气,都送到校长室也不怕,我保证第一时间到,和老师校长开会解决问题呗,If XX didn't bother my kid,then nothing would have happened. We asked him to stop, he didn't. so this is the consequence, i'm sorry but i am not at all sorry. We are open to suggestions, how would you make him stop?
bellamia 发表于 12/18/2019 1:10:28 PM

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陈小喵儿
我会教娃打回去。第一次大声说No,第二次大声说No并且把他推开,使劲推。如果第三次再过来骚扰,抡书本打。(不许拿铁的东西和椅子)。打完了去哪都不怕,妈妈去给你撑腰。
牛大圣婴
这么小的孩子就觉得欺负人好玩,不存在是不是坏孩子,教训了就好了。我女儿隔壁班有一日本男孩老欺负她,她说stop没用,告诉老师,老师跟她说你stay away from him,女儿说她没有主动找他玩啊,就是recess的时候那个男孩自己过来的。我跟女儿说你说过Stop也告诉老师也躲开了如果还没用就揍他,老师要找她麻烦的话,妈妈会去学校解释。你跟老师说这是defense。我女儿那天说她一拳打他脸上了,后来再也不敢欺负我女儿了。再后来我女儿说俩人成朋友了😓
ostrakon
说句实话,这种孩子就是欠扁:))要是我就和孩子说,一次说stop,第二次就不要客气,都送到校长室也不怕,我保证第一时间到,和老师校长开会解决问题呗,If XX didn't bother my kid,then nothing would have happened. We asked him to stop, he didn't. so this is the consequence, i'm sorry but i am not at all sorry. We are open to suggestions, how would you make him stop?
bellamia 发表于 12/18/2019 1:10:28 PM

well said!
msqs
说句实话,这种孩子就是欠扁:))要是我就和孩子说,一次说stop,第二次就不要客气,都送到校长室也不怕,我保证第一时间到,和老师校长开会解决问题呗,If XX didn't bother my kid,then nothing would have happened. We asked him to stop, he didn't. so this is the consequence, i'm sorry but i am not at all sorry. We are open to suggestions, how would you make him stop?
bellamia 发表于 12/18/2019 1:10:28 PM


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呼啦圈
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hrqinzi
对的,要我就支持打回去!
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betterme
一次stop之后就可以打回去 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
rcoblesfayer
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trendygirl
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feiyasu
说句实话,这种孩子就是欠扁:))要是我就和孩子说,一次说stop,第二次就不要客气,都送到校长室也不怕,我保证第一时间到,和老师校长开会解决问题呗,If XX didn't bother my kid,then nothing would have happened. We asked him to stop, he didn't. so this is the consequence, i'm sorry but i am not at all sorry. We are open to suggestions, how would you make him stop?
bellamia 发表于 12/18/2019 1:10:28 PM

MARK。
abby1231
说句实话,这种孩子就是欠扁:))要是我就和孩子说,一次说stop,第二次就不要客气,都送到校长室也不怕,我保证第一时间到,和老师校长开会解决问题呗,If XX didn't bother my kid,then nothing would have happened. We asked him to stop, he didn't. so this is the consequence, i'm sorry but i am not at all sorry. We are open to suggestions, how would you make him stop?
bellamia 发表于 12/18/2019 1:10:28 PM

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sherrycheryl
说句实话,这种孩子就是欠扁:))要是我就和孩子说,一次说stop,第二次就不要客气,都送到校长室也不怕,我保证第一时间到,和老师校长开会解决问题呗,If XX didn't bother my kid,then nothing would have happened. We asked him to stop, he didn't. so this is the consequence, i'm sorry but i am not at all sorry. We are open to suggestions, how would you make him stop?
bellamia 发表于 12/18/2019 1:10:28 PM
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