想继续留在这个学校，请take action like this: Step1: come to visit the class as a volunteer as much as you can—— Step2: take data on how your kids focus/ how she hang out with kids/ ...whatever the teacher pointed out, take data on it, so you can talk to principal with evidence * if you are not allowed to go to classroom for data collection, talk to counselor about it. Say” my kid has shown some anxiety at home due to the negative feedback from her teacher” ( which may be not true, but will make the counselor give what you want.
先把你的concern一条条写清楚直接联系校长，一定要说清楚以前从来没有过类似的评价，所以看到老师的comments是非常震惊的, 不要谦虚的说孩子需要improve什么的，需要improve的人不一定是她。 We were appalled and deeply concerned when we saw the report card, we know our daughter and she has never received such negative comments before. We would like to schedule a detailed review in person with you and Ms. XX, please understand we are dedicated to XX's success at school, both academically and socially, and eager to work with Ms. XX and yourself to resolve any misunderstanding and to ensure better communication.
Please let us know at your earliest convenience and we will make ourselves available to ensure the action plans are in place for the remainder of the school year.
想继续留在这个学校，请take action like this: Step1: come to visit the class as a volunteer as much as you can—— Step2: take data on how your kids focus/ how she hang out with kids/ ...whatever the teacher pointed out, take data on it, so you can talk to principal with evidence
* if you are not allowed to go to classroom for data collection, talk to counselor about it. Say” my kid has shown some anxiety at home due to the negative feedback from her teacher” ( which may be not true, but will make the counselor give what you want. zoezoe1123 发表于 12/10/2019 2:28:33 PM
想继续留在这个学校，请take action like this: Step1: come to visit the class as a volunteer as much as you can—— Step2: take data on how your kids focus/ how she hang out with kids/ ...whatever the teacher pointed out, take data on it, so you can talk to principal with evidence
* if you are not allowed to go to classroom for data collection, talk to counselor about it. Say” my kid has shown some anxiety at home due to the negative feedback from her teacher” ( which may be not true, but will make the counselor give what you want. zoezoe1123 发表于 12/10/2019 2:28:33 PM
先把你的concern一条条写清楚直接联系校长，一定要说清楚以前从来没有过类似的评价，所以看到老师的comments是非常震惊的, 不要谦虚的说孩子需要improve什么的，需要improve的人不一定是她。 We were appalled and deeply concerned when we saw the report card, we know our daughter and she has never received such negative comments before. We would like to schedule a detailed review in person with you and Ms. XX, please understand we are dedicated to XX's success at school, both academically and socially, and eager to work with Ms. XX and yourself to resolve any misunderstanding and to ensure better communication.
Please let us know at your earliest convenience and we will make ourselves available to ensure the action plans are in place for the remainder of the school year.
先把你的concern一条条写清楚直接联系校长，一定要说清楚以前从来没有过类似的评价，所以看到老师的comments是非常震惊的, 不要谦虚的说孩子需要improve什么的，需要improve的人不一定是她。 We were appalled and deeply concerned when we saw the report card, we know our daughter and she has never received such negative comments before. We would like to schedule a detailed review in person with you and Ms. XX, please understand we are dedicated to XX's success at school, both academically and socially, and eager to work with Ms. XX and yourself to resolve any misunderstanding and to ensure better communication. Please let us know at your earliest convenience and we will make ourselves available to ensure the action plans are in place for the remainder of the school year.
先把你的concern一条条写清楚直接联系校长，一定要说清楚以前从来没有过类似的评价，所以看到老师的comments是非常震惊的, 不要谦虚的说孩子需要improve什么的，需要improve的人不一定是她。 We were appalled and deeply concerned when we saw the report card, we know our daughter and she has never received such negative comments before. We would like to schedule a detailed review in person with you and Ms. XX, please understand we are dedicated to XX's success at school, both academically and socially, and eager to work with Ms. XX and yourself to resolve any misunderstanding and to ensure better communication.
Please let us know at your earliest convenience and we will make ourselves available to ensure the action plans are in place for the remainder of the school year.
想继续留在这个学校，请take action like this: Step1: come to visit the class as a volunteer as much as you can—— Step2: take data on how your kids focus/ how she hang out with kids/ ...whatever the teacher pointed out, take data on it, so you can talk to principal with evidence
* if you are not allowed to go to classroom for data collection, talk to counselor about it. Say” my kid has shown some anxiety at home due to the negative feedback from her teacher” ( which may be not true, but will make the counselor give what you want. zoezoe1123 发表于 12/10/2019 2:28:33 PM
先把你的concern一条条写清楚直接联系校长，一定要说清楚以前从来没有过类似的评价，所以看到老师的comments是非常震惊的, 不要谦虚的说孩子需要improve什么的，需要improve的人不一定是她。 We were appalled and deeply concerned when we saw the report card, we know our daughter and she has never received such negative comments before. We would like to schedule a detailed review in person with you and Ms. XX, please understand we are dedicated to XX's success at school, both academically and socially, and eager to work with Ms. XX and yourself to resolve any misunderstanding and to ensure better communication. Please let us know at your earliest convenience and we will make ourselves available to ensure the action plans are in place for the remainder of the school year.
先把你的concern一条条写清楚直接联系校长，一定要说清楚以前从来没有过类似的评价，所以看到老师的comments是非常震惊的, 不要谦虚的说孩子需要improve什么的，需要improve的人不一定是她。 We were appalled and deeply concerned when we saw the report card, we know our daughter and she has never received such negative comments before. We would like to schedule a detailed review in person with you and Ms. XX, please understand we are dedicated to XX's success at school, both academically and socially, and eager to work with Ms. XX and yourself to resolve any misunderstanding and to ensure better communication.
Please let us know at your earliest convenience and we will make ourselves available to ensure the action plans are in place for the remainder of the school year.
先把你的concern一条条写清楚直接联系校长，一定要说清楚以前从来没有过类似的评价，所以看到老师的comments是非常震惊的, 不要谦虚的说孩子需要improve什么的，需要improve的人不一定是她。 We were appalled and deeply concerned when we saw the report card, we know our daughter and she has never received such negative comments before. We would like to schedule a detailed review in person with you and Ms. XX, please understand we are dedicated to XX's success at school, both academically and socially, and eager to work with Ms. XX and yourself to resolve any misunderstanding and to ensure better communication. Please let us know at your earliest convenience and we will make ourselves available to ensure the action plans are in place for the remainder of the school year.
lz哪里说了才3年级? 高年级啊
需要提出来，而且要让校长介入，要联合另外的亚裔家长一起提，你也许没法明确的指出歧视问题，但是至少要让她明白家长非常清楚她的行为就是歧视，让她收敛一点。
我的理解是你的女儿能很好的处理这个问题。所以我才建议去投诉。特别可以针对她说你女儿不积极参加集体讨论 - 这一点与你女儿说的完全相反 - 是你女儿举手要参加讨论但她不叫。
另外“小圈子”的问题，只要你女儿没有排斥别人的行为，那么她这就是明白的歧视 - 几个女孩儿关系好，她管的着么？
先把你的concern一条条写清楚直接联系校长，一定要说清楚以前从来没有过类似的评价，所以看到老师的comments是非常震惊的, 不要谦虚的说孩子需要improve什么的，需要improve的人不一定是她。
We were appalled and deeply concerned when we saw the report card, we know our daughter and she has never received such negative comments before. We would like to schedule a detailed review in person with you and Ms. XX, please understand we are dedicated to XX's success at school, both academically and socially, and eager to work with Ms. XX and yourself to resolve any misunderstanding and to ensure better communication.
Please let us know at your earliest convenience and we will make ourselves available to ensure the action plans are in place for the remainder of the school year.
是的。
要是还要继续在这里上学，换我会忍着恶心送gift card 做做志愿者 试试能不能让那个恶心的老师不要恶心的那么明显。。。。要撕也要在拿到更强的证据，几个家长联名，并且确定娃不在她手里的时候。
你女儿现在心大可以handle她的歧视程度，但是她要是加大针对歧视呢?
我小时候全班都亚裔，老师照样看人下菜....
没用的。你认为送礼物会让她改变？太天真的。她会认为是应该的。能bully小孩子的老师,三观根本就是歪的，骨子里就是bitch
投诉是可以投诉，但楼主这个case投诉起来很难，因为对方可狡辩的空间太大。
校长很多时候并不站在家长这边，尤其是这么大一顶种族歧视的帽子扣下来，他们的第一反应一定是defend。准备好证据，也要接收或者想好怎么应对调查结果不痛不痒说不定还很恶心的情况。
这位是内行，楼主可以参考一下，很有操作性
刚才把小同学历年的report card 翻出来读了一遍，满眼的outstanding,excellent, bright.... 老母亲的玻璃心再次碎了一地！
昨天晚上跟老公讨论了整晚，他是主闪的婉约派，闺女是主忍的婉婉约派，只有我每天憋着一腔怒火盯着校长办公室发功。
无外是这三条路，有一条是肯定的，我们如果决定离开的话我一定会无所顾忌的去找校长谈次话的，所有的黑材料我都烂熟于心了。决定难下是因为要面对其后果的是孩子。
你小时候老师不种族歧视不代表别的老师不种族歧视啊
你还是软弱呀。即便有一百个理由。有的bitch,不论男女，就是吃硬不吃软。你不愿扯皮，至少要求换班可行吗？
歧视处处存在，我去safeway买个菜都能被收银的渣渣给脸色。第一次遇到的时候有点懵，再来一次投诉到对方被辞退为止。
就算是坏老师，父母confront，就不会做得夸张。
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大公校的确事情多，不过私校听说也有类似情况，反正中国家庭大多数都不是一年捐5位数的那种家庭。
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孩子对于老师喜不喜欢自己其实很敏感，很清楚的。
支持。这已经不能再差了。
嗯，让学生焦虑影响mental health会引起重视
以前的repot Card都带着，找校长，有什么原因会让一个孩子得到这么不同的评语。
一定要找校长。问校长能不能换班。不能的话也会让老师收敛些。下一年要求分在一个encouraging understanding caring 的老师班里。
不要等离开再说，有问题努力试一下，也许就能解决好了
这种情况公开撕比送礼好使多了。
和校长谈，要求换班。不管你说的她是否承认，告诉校长你非常concern, 本着解决问题而非质问老师的想法希望换班。若不给换，要求直接和老师校长谈话，直到你没有concern了为止。
有理有据不怕麻烦，还是很有可能解决问题的。
我会更加注意保护孩子的心理，这个真是很难了，动手的力度要控制好，一旦觉得不对，宁愿转学然后撕到底。
最佳解决方案可能是换班。。。
同意这个，我初中时候就遇到过这样的老师，被针对的无以复加，感觉你说的情况她就是针对你女儿，说了什么也没用，更可笑的是我的那个老师毕业很多年后她居然跟我班里其他老师讲说她最喜欢我了，我都要吐了。
你闺女很不错自己能想明白这事，以后抗压力能力会很强，这种人会有出息。换我也会这样跟我家闺女说的。
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