autism家长请进,希望对你们有帮助

羞羞草
楼主 (北美华人网)
这是一个洋人妈妈发的,我看了很感动,希望对你们也有用。
I have been thinking about this ...

Curing autism is like me trying to cure my red hair and freckles. Autism is a neuro-developmental disorder and in most cases there is a genetic link as well. It is the way a brain is programmed... Good luck trying to cure that!

It is so offensive to people living it. I would never change a thing about ***, he makes me proud exactly how he is.

Embrace it. Show kindness and understanding to those who have it, by allowing them to adapt their environment so they feel safe and comfortable. Be a decent human!
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doublef
头发可以染,雀斑可以遮,总有办法的 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
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ahbear
这idea很好,neuro diversity是很多人推崇的,但关系到你家是什么样的autism,是不合群不理解social cue,还是缺乏基本的function比如poop smearing,比如听见别人汽车上的音响就跟着跑……这是一个很宽的谱系,所以叫spectrum。 我们接受他们的不一样,接受他们的困难,但不是说我们就放弃改变他们。毕竟他们要在这个世界上生活,有自理能力和没有自理能力还是不一样的。
小金猪
想法是美好的,现实是残酷的。相信楼主没有跟自闭症的人生活过, 我们自己都有很多要改进的,何况自闭症的孩子。家长真正需要的是平和的心态,感恩周围宽容的人,不断帮助孩子进步
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umizumi
治不好,就说是正常,这是什么世界啊。just because it's common doesn't mean it's normal!
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pqrs
我觉得要接受他们但是觉得接受就可以do nothing 绝对是鸵鸟心态 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP