悲剧啊!北美华人婚外恋 两个好端端的家庭被毁

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悲剧啊!北美华人婚外恋 两个好端端的家庭被毁

两个友好家庭,一个有个3岁的儿子,另一个有俩女儿,一个3岁,一个6个月大. 第一对夫
妇结婚10年,第2对结婚12年.

由于两家孩子经常玩一块.结果,现在第一对的LP 跟第2对的LG好上了,两个人向各自的
老婆老公摊牌要求重组.

现在第2对的LP一怒之下开了博客,把自己老公和朋友的照片, 电话,工作地点,电邮
放上来了。
Nan Ma and Yongsheng (Wilson) Li have been in an

affair since September 2008.

Nan Ma has one 3-year-old son. (cell phone 408-425-xxxx, office number 408-424-xxxx, Cisco employee, [email protected])

Yongsheng (Wilson) Li has two daughters, age at 3-year and 6-month old.
Cell phone 408-203-xxxx, office number 408-510-xxxx, AeroHive Networks, [email protected]

Nan and Wilson intend to break up two innocent families to form their new family. If by any chance you may hear the divorce due to irreconcilable differences from Nan or Wilson's mouths in the future, please think twice and don't forget to ask where they were and what they were doing especially when Wilson's wife carrying the baby during pregnancy and taking care of the baby afterwards. What loving better half and caring parent they are!

Nan and her husband have been married for 10 years.
Wilson and his wife have known each other for 16 years, and they have been married for 12 years.

Two families used to get along and the kids play together quite a lot in 2009, especially when Wilson's wife was pregnant and on the maternity leaves to take care of the baby.

Nan and Wilson exchanged more than 1400 emails, and communicated with each other through IM in their over one year relationship. Although both of the spouses would like to forgive what had happened, Nan and Wilson determine to dissolve their marriages in order to seek the happiness for the rest of their lives.

Nan and Wilson call each other every day, see each other without disguise, and sometimes take their kids as play date. If you run into the love birds on the street, please tell them their spouses and kids are waiting for them to go home.

09/2008 Nan Ma and Yongsheng Li involved in an affair
08/2009 Wilson's wife delivered their second daughter
10/24/2009 Nan and Wilson even applied for the family membership of Children's Discovery Museum together so that they can set up play dates for the kid and meet every Sunday.
12/20/2009 Nan and Wilson spilled the beans to their innocent spouses. Ironically, when Wilson confessed the affair in the middle of the night, his wife was pumping the milk for their 4-month old daughter at that time. His wife quit breast feeding one month later.
2/13/2010 On Chinese New Year eve Wilson left home around 9:30 pm to meet Nan, and went home at 11:15 pm
2/14/2010 Valentine's day and Chinese New Year. Wilson left 2 daughters to his wife at 10:30 am and went home at 8:30 pm

Please spread the word. Some day one day the kids will understand what is the true love, and know the TRUTH.

May you grow up to be righteous,
May you grow up to be true,
May you always know the truth
And see the lights surrounding you.
May you always be courageous,
Stand upright and be strong,
May you stay forever young,
Forever young, forever young,
May you stay forever young.

********************************************************
Email from Nan to Wilson's wife

Date: Sat, 26 Dec 2009 22:06:46 -0800
From: [email protected]
Subject: from Nan

Hi, Sorry I didnt call back to set up the meet time. Mainly I guess at this time I dont have the courage to face you.

So please give me sometime and I bet we will run across each other at least on your kids who I feel enormous responsibility and key to the relation between wilson and me.

I guess all I can say at this stage of the matter is, I am deeply sorry for the damage I caused to your family, and the pain and loss.

Take care,

Nan
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ddon
2 楼
看了下发帖日期,今年是2019年没错吧?以为穿越了
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padthai
3 楼
穿越了
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marytng
4 楼
这些人拿着高薪每天只需做一小时工作,剩下时间搞婚外恋,也算是人生赢家了哈哈哈
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superwgg
5 楼
这俩人好早就八过了,几年前就看过帖子
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superwgg
6 楼
不知道现状怎么样了,另一组老婆和老公看没看上对方啊
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huaren_ID
7 楼
这都什么时候的旧闻了。。。
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baobao557
8 楼
这个就是当年著名的play date 外遇吧,十周年回放?
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loic
9 楼
马楠出轨都十年了,光阴似箭日月如梭啊。结局如何啊?
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loic
10 楼
这个就是当年著名的play date 外遇吧,十周年回放?
baobao557 发表于 4/29/2019 10:01:40 PM


传说是小孩play,大人date
焱焱
11 楼


传说是小孩play,大人date

loic 发表于 4/29/2019 10:08:10 PM

原来这才是真正的play date啊
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jennyalger
12 楼
两人也算"名垂千史"了,照片都还在网上挂着呢,折腾半天据说也没成,白折腾了
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yeisa
13 楼
字里行间都是原配的悲愤之情。
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tiffany2013
14 楼
两人也算"名垂千史"了,照片都还在网上挂着呢,折腾半天据说也没成,白折腾了
jennyalger 发表于 4/29/2019 10:14:50 PM

婚外恋和吸毒上瘾差不多, 荷尔蒙和毒品对大脑作用相似. 药劲过了, 八成都会散.
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asvs
15 楼
10年祭?
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SweetBerry
16 楼
孩子都到了能理解爹妈是追求真爱的年纪了吧
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Starry
17 楼
一眨眼都十年了啊……
大家一起来唱

十年之前

我不认识你 你不属于我

我们还是一样

陪在一个陌生人左右

走过渐渐熟悉的街头

十年之后

我们是朋友 还可以问候

只是那种温柔

再也找不到拥抱的理由

情人最后难免沦为朋友

直到和你做了多年朋友

才明白我的眼泪

不是为你而流

也为别人而流
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Narnia
18 楼
原配挺公平的 爆了小三信息也爆了自己老公的 起码不是那种老公都好就是被狐狸精骗了的白痴


字里行间都是原配的悲愤之情。

yeisa 发表于 4/29/2019 10:20:00 PM
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laalaatou
19 楼
哇,我还记得这八卦
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baoubaou
20 楼
现况有人知道吗
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thetisea
21 楼
光阴似箭 逝者如斯
就是看一看
22 楼
旧闻好久啦
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aprilskyever
23 楼
当时刚开始灌水
在网上追这个大坑

光阴似箭 逝者如斯
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shuaidou
24 楼
十年都过去了?!真是白驹过隙
玫瑰的故事
25 楼
现况如何呢?当年追这个大坑还挺关心原配的
玫瑰的故事
26 楼
是说十年间二人都拉扯不清,但又各自都没离吗
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hanjiang
27 楼
都十年了么?时间怎么能这么快,就好像刚刚听说的一样
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ajbo009
28 楼
当时这个大瓜来的时候,我也是刚生了孩子不久,对还在喂奶的妈妈特同情,转眼都这么多年了。
猜不出我是谁
29 楼
关注一下十年后序
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chengcheng
30 楼
天,时间都去了哪里?这个事件感觉就是最近几年的事情,居然十周年了。

不知道渣男贱女怎么样了。
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guess
31 楼
现在她们如何了
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magch
32 楼
穿越了?听说过很久很久的事了
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rubyslippers
33 楼
我听的说法 原配和老公和好了 女三离婚了
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lbff
34 楼
关注一下十年后序
猜不出我是谁 发表于 4/30/2019 1:08:12 AM


谁给八下后续?渣男回归家庭后如何了?
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lindadouwu
35 楼
女三离婚很快找了个白人,据说高富帅无娃未婚。
渣男据说被老婆回收,但也过不下去,女的迅速衰老,男的好像回国了。
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zhouxiaotu
36 楼
回收的这种表面看来大圆满结局,实际冷暖自知凑合罢了
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bado
37 楼
女三离婚很快找了个白人,据说高富帅无娃未婚。
渣男据说被老婆回收,但也过不下去,女的迅速衰老,男的好像回国了。
lindadouwu 发表于 4/30/2019 6:40:57 AM
人到中年在北美
38 楼
回复 9楼loic的帖子

不记得这项有名事件了, 古狗了一下, 跳出很多北大马楠对克林顿提问。

不是那个马楠吧
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Yesterdayom
39 楼
看到给四个月孩子泵奶看不下去了, 男的太渣了!
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snail
40 楼
十年过得也太快了
公马密码123
41 楼
想不到十年了,还记得当年追八卦。不知当事人现状如何
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curiousmonkey
42 楼
大农村这里也见过这事,两家一起很近,经常一起吃喝玩乐打牌,然后就双方中一方互相好上了,女的离婚了,一直跟着这男的,男的没离婚,但是也没回家,老婆过得也滋润,搬外地去了,不差钱。想想一下子两个家庭分崩离析,孩子们真是最可怜的
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elenaleela
43 楼
女三离婚很快找了个白人,据说高富帅无娃未婚。
渣男据说被老婆回收,但也过不下去,女的迅速衰老,男的好像回国了。
lindadouwu 发表于 4/30/2019 6:40:57 AM

这老婆自找的,都大字报自己老公了,还回收?
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Dola
44 楼
lz有最近更新的话请update下哈!~
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jhr
45 楼
婚外情中女人是最大的输家
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msqs
46 楼
女人坚强自立些,不要老想着生孩子,这样的老公还回收。。。
霍水仙
47 楼
有照片么?求照片
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huaren20182018
48 楼
黑白无常
49 楼
这事居然有十年了?吓
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tigerpi314
50 楼
女三离婚很快找了个白人,据说高富帅无娃未婚。
渣男据说被老婆回收,但也过不下去,女的迅速衰老,男的好像回国了。
lindadouwu 发表于 4/30/2019 6:40:57 AM


所以最惨的是男三的老婆?
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tigerpi314
51 楼

这老婆自找的,都大字报自己老公了,还回收?

elenaleela 发表于 4/30/2019 10:21:10 AM


的确...大字报了就撕破脸了, 还不离等着干啥?
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sosososo
52 楼


的确...大字报了就撕破脸了, 还不离等着干啥?

tigerpi314 发表于 4/30/2019 11:43:09 AM


小娃当时才几个月。离了一个人完全没办法handle
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chongr
53 楼
这样还回收?自己带不了孩子别多生啊。。。
清澈冰水
54 楼
这都是十年了? ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
一粒橘子
55 楼
竟然十年了
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tigerpi314
56 楼


小娃当时才几个月。离了一个人完全没办法handle

sosososo 发表于 4/30/2019 11:45:12 AM


离了也可以让爹带娃的
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sesegogo
57 楼
最后结局是啥啊,或者说现况?
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ssoozz
58 楼
看电话是湾区这边的呀

两个友好家庭,一个有个3岁的儿子,另一个有俩女儿,一个3岁,一个6个月大. 第一对夫
妇结婚10年,第2对结婚12年.
由于两家孩子经常玩一块.结果,现在第一对的LP 跟第2对的LG好上了,两个人向各自的
老婆老公摊牌要求重组.
现在第2对的LP一怒之下开了博客,把自己老公和朋友的照片, 电话,工作地点,电邮
放上来了。
Nan Ma and Yongsheng (Wilson) Li have been in an
affair since September 2008.
Nan Ma has one 3-year-old son. (cell phone 408-425-xxxx, office number 408-424-xxxx, Cisco employee, [email protected] )
Yongsheng (Wilson) Li has two daughters, age at 3-year and 6-month old.
Cell phone 408-203-xxxx, office number 408-510-xxxx, AeroHive Networks, [email protected]
Nan and Wilson intend to break up two innocent families to form their new family. If by any chance you may hear the divorce due to irreconcilable differences from Nan or Wilson's mouths in the future, please think twice and don't forget to ask where they were and what they were doing especially when Wilson's wife carrying the baby during pregnancy and taking care of the baby afterwards. What loving better half and caring parent they are!
Nan and her husband have been married for 10 years.
Wilson and his wife have known each other for 16 years, and they have been married for 12 years.
Two families used to get along and the kids play together quite a lot in 2009, especially when Wilson's wife was pregnant and on the maternity leaves to take care of the baby.
Nan and Wilson exchanged more than 1400 emails, and communicated with each other through IM in their over one year relationship. Although both of the spouses would like to forgive what had happened, Nan and Wilson determine to dissolve their marriages in order to seek the happiness for the rest of their lives.
Nan and Wilson call each other every day, see each other without disguise, and sometimes take their kids as play date. If you run into the love birds on the street, please tell them their spouses and kids are waiting for them to go home.
09/2008 Nan Ma and Yongsheng Li involved in an affair
08/2009 Wilson's wife delivered their second daughter
10/24/2009 Nan and Wilson even applied for the family membership of Children's Discovery Museum together so that they can set up play dates for the kid and meet every Sunday.
12/20/2009 Nan and Wilson spilled the beans to their innocent spouses. Ironically, when Wilson confessed the affair in the middle of the night, his wife was pumping the milk for their 4-month old daughter at that time. His wife quit breast feeding one month later.
2/13/2010 On Chinese New Year eve Wilson left home around 9:30 pm to meet Nan, and went home at 11:15 pm
2/14/2010 Valentine's day and Chinese New Year. Wilson left 2 daughters to his wife at 10:30 am and went home at 8:30 pm
Please spread the word. Some day one day the kids will understand what is the true love, and know the TRUTH.
May you grow up to be righteous,
May you grow up to be true,
May you always know the truth
And see the lights surrounding you.
May you always be courageous,
Stand upright and be strong,
May you stay forever young,
Forever young, forever young,
May you stay forever young.
********************************************************
Email from Nan to Wilson's wife
Date: Sat, 26 Dec 2009 22:06:46 -0800
From: [email protected]
Subject: from Nan
Hi, Sorry I didnt call back to set up the meet time. Mainly I guess at this time I dont have the courage to face you.
So please give me sometime and I bet we will run across each other at least on your kids who I feel enormous responsibility and key to the relation between wilson and me.
I guess all I can say at this stage of the matter is, I am deeply sorry for the damage I caused to your family, and the pain and loss.
Take care,
Nan
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MaggieC
59 楼
记得这件事,一晃十年了!
冰是睡着的水
60 楼
话说这两有没有再生孩子
秦皇密云
61 楼
好了,散了,一切随缘不好吗?理解面对背叛的心痛,可是生活总是要往前走的。
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zongtong
62 楼
女三离婚很快找了个白人,据说高富帅无娃未婚。
渣男据说被老婆回收,但也过不下去,女的迅速衰老,男的好像回国了。
lindadouwu 发表于 4/30/2019 6:40:57 AM

看来这段孽缘女三没受什么报应啊,另外三个都不太好啊。。。。。。。。。。。。。
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kindaichi
63 楼
看这个妈妈的描述,所以这个妈妈是生老三的时候孕期被三,而这两个渣男渣女在原配怀孕初期就有苗头?
为什么playdate这么容易出轨?所以playdate一定要family对family,或者妈妈单独出席的也是要知根知底看上去比较老实不会有花花肠子那种吧。
然后原配面对这种局面到底怎么应对。是隐忍不发挽回家庭,还是撕破脸贴大字报。感觉这种贴完大字报搞得人尽皆知再挽回婚姻很尴尬。确实原配发泄了怒气,也搞臭了老公和小三的名声。但如果真的还想挽回婚姻,是不是隐忍比较好。这种事不发生在自己身上,都可以讲得头头是道,到真的发生在自己身上,就很难理智。尤其原配如果因为照顾家里孩子多而不工作的话,那选择真的不多。
魏无羡
64 楼
也许世上根本没有报应,这种人都是美丽心狠知道自己要什么,事业上爱情上都很厉害,稍微善良软弱一点的都做不出来这事


看来这段孽缘女三没受什么报应啊,另外三个都不太好啊。。。。。。。。。。。。。

zongtong 发表于 4/30/2019 1:22:00 PM
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lebaobao
65 楼
天啊!这十年都去哪里了!日子怎么一眨眼的功夫呢!这件事好像就是昨天才被八过呢。
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ttnn
66 楼
后续故事呢?
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baby2018
67 楼
渣男
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ericgood
68 楼
为什么我的第一反应是 他们怎么不交叉结合~~? 好吧我太evil了
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hotloon
69 楼


传说是小孩play,大人date

loic 发表于 4/29/2019 10:08:10 PM

hahaha...
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appleapp
70 楼
想到以前在豆瓣还是哪儿看到的的帖子,说两夫两妻的家庭组组合最和谐,可以尝试各种排列组合。。男的一起打游戏女的一起逛街带娃,吵架了还有人劝架,轮流带娃还可以出去二人世界