看了下熟悉的学校的comments， 很有意思，学校在TOP 50里, 当然有很多5星的，摘几个三星的 Lower school- Constantly changing staff, uneven teaching, throughout. School puts up with very disruptive children so as not to lose a paying customer. Middle school- more challenging, academically. SEVERE lack of social opportunities leads to uninclusive, parent-run events at country clubs & private homes. Very limited, insular environment amongst trust-fund parents in a Christian-only world. Limited recognition of other religions and they like it that way. Upper School- thankfully less parent involvement. Very challenging classes, school does a good job prepping girls for college. Very limited in the arts from start to finish. Happy my girls are finished so I don't have to deal with the snooty, judgmental parents any longer。 －－－－－－－ I honestly wish I went to another school- public school even seems better! The college counseling is horrific, the girls are all wealthy and pretentious, and this school has a HUGE party culture. The weekend means getting drunk and going to multiple parties, and sometimes this extends into the week. This place has a stereotype of 'blonde hair blue eyes' and it is absolutely true. They are trying to be diverse, but having diverse friends I can say that they claim not to fit in at all.
－－－－－－－ Going to school as an xxxx girl is completely different than just being a visitor. You live that reality every day. The student body gets minimal say in anything especially things that affect them and the administrators couldn't care less about us. It's frustrating. On top of that, being a minority is tough. You feel out of place.
看了下熟悉的学校的comments， 很有意思，学校在TOP 50里, 当然有很多5星的，摘几个三星的 Lower school- Constantly changing staff, uneven teaching, throughout. School puts up with very disruptive children so as not to lose a paying customer. Middle school- more challenging, academically. SEVERE lack of social opportunities leads to uninclusive, parent-run events at country clubs & private homes. Very limited, insular environment amongst trust-fund parents in a Christian-only world. Limited recognition of other religions and they like it that way. Upper School- thankfully less parent involvement. Very challenging classes, school does a good job prepping girls for college. Very limited in the arts from start to finish. Happy my girls are finished so I don't have to deal with the snooty, judgmental parents any longer。 －－－－－－－ I honestly wish I went to another school- public school even seems better! The college counseling is horrific, the girls are all wealthy and pretentious, and this school has a HUGE party culture. The weekend means getting drunk and going to multiple parties, and sometimes this extends into the week. This place has a stereotype of 'blonde hair blue eyes' and it is absolutely true. They are trying to be diverse, but having diverse friends I can say that they claim not to fit in at all.
－－－－－－－ Going to school as an xxxx girl is completely different than just being a visitor. You live that reality every day. The student body gets minimal say in anything especially things that affect them and the administrators couldn't care less about us. It's frustrating. On top of that, being a minority is tough. You feel out of place.
看了下熟悉的学校的comments， 很有意思，学校在TOP 50里, 当然有很多5星的，摘几个三星的 Lower school- Constantly changing staff, uneven teaching, throughout. School puts up with very disruptive children so as not to lose a paying customer. Middle school- more challenging, academically. SEVERE lack of social opportunities leads to uninclusive, parent-run events at country clubs & private homes. Very limited, insular environment amongst trust-fund parents in a Christian-only world. Limited recognition of other religions and they like it that way. Upper School- thankfully less parent involvement. Very challenging classes, school does a good job prepping girls for college. Very limited in the arts from start to finish. Happy my girls are finished so I don't have to deal with the snooty, judgmental parents any longer。 －－－－－－－ I honestly wish I went to another school- public school even seems better! The college counseling is horrific, the girls are all wealthy and pretentious, and this school has a HUGE party culture. The weekend means getting drunk and going to multiple parties, and sometimes this extends into the week. This place has a stereotype of 'blonde hair blue eyes' and it is absolutely true. They are trying to be diverse, but having diverse friends I can say that they claim not to fit in at all.
－－－－－－－ Going to school as an xxxx girl is completely different than just being a visitor. You live that reality every day. The student body gets minimal say in anything especially things that affect them and the administrators couldn't care less about us. It's frustrating. On top of that, being a minority is tough. You feel out of place.
party上都是她中文学校的朋友， 没有一个私校的朋友， 也许是因为她5年级才去的。女孩是个挺open， social的女孩。
我以前在一个学区里做个project。 那个高中90%的白人，剩下的10%里，亚裔印度人占2/3，黑人1/3. 家里大部分是包括马公在内的中产白领。中午在食堂就发现，女孩还好，男孩基本上是亚裔跟亚裔在一起。
真的看性格。我儿子你就是给他扔猪圈里两天，他回家也能说，我昨天认识了个新朋友，叫piggy...
我们一个邻居老太太，据说苗正根红成绩优秀的穷人家娃，费尽心机请老师推荐进了某个红二成堆的中学， 进去了以后，刻意结交，终于被红二圈子接受，嫁了个小红二（小的意思就是红二里家里级别比较低的）， 生生了提升自己的阶层啊，不过一个女孩子那么小就有目标，还不懈努力，估计去哪儿能成功。 大多数中学女生，哪有这样明确的目标啊。
联系挺多的
没有一个私校的话，那肯定是分开办了。至于为什么分开，你可以琢磨一下。
私立学校老师平均工资比公立低，这是对的，自己google就知道了，比如下面这个链接。
https://www.theatlantic.com/education/archive/2013/10/why-are-private-school-teachers-paid-less-than-public-school-teachers/280829/
私立学校是0-10范围都有，公立是0-9范围；也就是说，私立的9分-10分这个区间的学校，的确是比所有的公立都好，但是也就是下面这个链接里面的前200个而已，这些私立学校里面老师工资比所有的公立也高。
所以你说（顶尖的）公立学校比（一般的甚至大部分的）私立学校要好，是对的；说（顶尖的全国前200的）私立学校比（所有的）公立学校好，也对。
看了下熟悉的学校的comments， 很有意思，学校在TOP 50里, 当然有很多5星的，摘几个三星的
Lower school- Constantly changing staff, uneven teaching, throughout. School puts up with very disruptive children so as not to lose a paying customer.
Middle school- more challenging, academically. SEVERE lack of social opportunities leads to uninclusive, parent-run events at country clubs & private homes. Very limited, insular environment amongst trust-fund parents in a Christian-only world. Limited recognition of other religions and they like it that way.
Upper School- thankfully less parent involvement. Very challenging classes, school does a good job prepping girls for college. Very limited in the arts from start to finish. Happy my girls are finished so I don't have to deal with the snooty, judgmental parents any longer。
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I honestly wish I went to another school- public school even seems better! The college counseling is horrific, the girls are all wealthy and pretentious, and this school has a HUGE party culture. The weekend means getting drunk and going to multiple parties, and sometimes this extends into the week. This place has a stereotype of 'blonde hair blue eyes' and it is absolutely true. They are trying to be diverse, but having diverse friends I can say that they claim not to fit in at all.
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Going to school as an xxxx girl is completely different than just being a visitor. You live that reality every day. The student body gets minimal say in anything especially things that affect them and the administrators couldn't care less about us. It's frustrating. On top of that, being a minority is tough. You feel out of place.
有这可能
这种net working真挺多的，我有个intern就是老板儿子的同学，然后老板儿子去了那个intern他爸公司做实习
你这太小，样本不对，越小这种种族的概念越模糊，朋友圈越广泛，越大越分的清了，所以还是要看高年级的分配情况
也有差别，各个不同年代同一学校也有区别。潘石益 的儿子过去在NH那个第一私校，ABC小女生们
和她很友好的。
这种老太太，基因突变的少，一般都有其父/母才有其女，所以还是看爹妈教育。自己如果没这本事攀附，指望孩子开挂比较难
现在同学各显神通，当主治医生的，当画家的，当教授的，当副行长的，搞代购的，自己开广告创意公司的，开连锁餐馆的，做富豪个人定值极限旅游的，开整容医院的，搞房地产的。我觉得如果我在国内，圈子应该还可以吧。比我们高一届的还是某网红公司CXO，我当年申请学校的PS都是copy的他的。
高中就进入了那种死读书的班级，大家几乎就同一条路，什么公务员阿或者是工程师。
既然这么瞧不起人家，就不要来往啊。
这是与生俱来的种族认同感，没啥不妥的。我觉得不要一说混社交圈就非得跟白人称兄道弟，非得去上赶着结交old money。很多很好的私校里面华人其实并不少，成长过程中遇到很多理念相同，家庭背景相似的华人朋友，也是很好的圈子。犹太人自成一个圈子，不也在美国做得很好。
我很理想的觉得，如果华人中的优秀后代不要各自忙着融入白人圈，而是抱团起来，力量逐渐变大，一起为华人整体在美国的地位做出贡献，那才算扬眉吐气。
我愿意，和我们老中混一起，才能学习好啊.和那些老美混一起没用.
同意！我经常组织中国孩子们在一起玩.中国人要抱团.
你这例子里是俩白人小孩，也许俩小孩中学里关系就很不错。可我们华人小孩进去了，未必能和白人小孩有深交呀。
敢问你这例子里也是俩小白吗？
这个事情的关键难道是白人？这也太不待见越来越多的华人高管了吧，很多牛私校里面还有大把国内来的中上产和富豪阶层的孩子呢，真要功利的讲，这都是可能变成机会的。
你要举个华人小孩和国内来某富豪子女交朋友，然后以后靠富豪找工作的例子也可以。或者举个华人小孩因为私校里的白人朋友找工作的也可以。怎么我迄今听到的例子全是白人／白人？所以我早说了，私校这个说好那个说好，可你进去了未见得能得到那个好，因为你跟别人不一样，最根本的你是华人。有些人就是get不到这一点。
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把自己的孩子变成白人小孩
嗯
先不说这个目标是否可以实现
只说这样的结果：黄皮白心的孩子们回过头来最厌烦的就是自己的*父母。
可谓搬起石头砸自己的脚
当然华人父母为了孩子，啥都顾不上了，自恨自贱也在所不惜/
就北美华人这个心理特别重
当然了，有人说了，不哈白人，我们上美国来干嘛。
好吧，说这话的人这辈子是loser到底了（因为怎么也洗不白自己了），只能展望自己的下一代，看能不能生生世世融入到最后把一代移民父母那点“黄人”基因统统洗干净。
我赞同前面楼里的话，不要总想着让融入白人圈，而应该建立华人自己的荣耀圈，犹太人，印度人，人家都是这么在美国玩的。看看印度一代们在美国职场叱诧风云。再看看华人一代们天天惦记的那点藤校梦，算计孩子有多少白人朋友的可怜巴望。
越是这么低声下气的求融入，越是不被尊重，这点道理一群高智商的书呆子们死活就不明白。
总统一辈子的同学多了，几个人沾到了总统的光？不是说认得总统以后就能鸡犬升天，要深交！深交！小孩越往上走，越以族裔分团，以家庭背景分团，高中的工薪阶层的华裔孩子，很少机会会深交到家里富贵的白人孩子的。
是的，我认识的全白人区长大的ABC都有这个毛病
不仅厌烦自己的父母，还厌烦一切能把自己和中国人stereotype扯上关系的东西
比如说以学习好为耻，以理工科好为耻，以存钱买房为耻，存钱要留下来辞职做artist
买房子就知道传统白人区贵，哪怕没有学区，也是没有理由的贵。可见不单单是北美华人哈白人。
当然，我不崇尚盲目交白人朋友