you are lucky, mine was much worse until the 3rd yr in college.
I persuade my son took a gap yr after high school, because i didn't think he was mature enough to handle college and also he needed a mental vacation at that time. I planned for him to go to a community college even he has IQ 150.
Anyway, turned out he went to a decent college and graduated with double degrees. Now i'm worrying about his career choices...
我也向你学习，挺住目前的艰难
因为不想写太多自己的事，删了，现在又补上 :)
不过做妈妈的总是操不完的心。
我叫她至少做够半年再换
混得一般般，比如我。。。还有因为我的影响，我娃也跟我差不多。就不多想了，健康开心就好了。
就是不知道谁养活哈
Pat, pat, requires high level of self management and self discipline. It's really nerve racking to watch high school age boys managing their GPAs.
A tough challenge for parent's patience.
High school is the hardest time for parent-child relationship, it's getting better and better, if you have a good bonding with your kids.
老大你忒谦虚了，你样样都拿得起来，我是一直佩服的。你家姑娘也出息，要向你学习。
work in a totally different field?
后来懂事了就好些了。不过自控能力差，以他的智力应该可以比现在更好不过也不强求了。总算熬到他懂事了，这种心情有牛娃的父母是不能体会的。
I persuade my son took a gap yr after high school, because i didn't think he was mature enough to handle college and also he needed a mental vacation at that time. I planned for him to go to a community college even he has IQ 150.
Anyway, turned out he went to a decent college and graduated with double degrees. Now i'm worrying about his career choices...
Yours will make you worry less, happy for you.
那时我就想只要不吸毒不和坏孩子混成绩差点真没什么，就这样鼓励自己positive thinking。大学毕业了你还管啊，我是准备放手的。
at home. :))
不少我的价值观，也和我很亲，这就够啦。
我娃今年开始完全自推了，来自同学间的压力比较大， 就是方向要替娃把握一下。
以后对娃也没有太多期望， 希望她学自己喜欢的专业， 做喜欢的工作， 快乐人生就好。
昨天和儿子参加学区intern 们的汇报之夜，有点小感慨。
我家熊孩子去之前着实捣持了自己一番，刚理的发，西服马甲加领带以及配套的裤子，鞋，武装起来还真是一表人才，有身高有颜值。儿子肯定是自己的好，嗯！
孩子真的是长大了，一边听他的presentation一边感到欣慰。他在医院做intern，听他汇报自己不仅学到知识更重要的是从医院的医生护士身上学到怎么做人，我真的是觉得proud。想想以前那个一天到晚云里雾里糊里糊涂的熊娃，终于盼到他开窍了。曾经有两年我都差不多绝望了，快放弃了，不得不调整我自己，期望值降了又降，底线退了又退。最后只剩几点主要的其它的都让他去。等到今天也算是苦心没白费。有些孩子真的就是来考验父母的耐心的。
虽然还是普通娃，可是看着他长大了懂事了，对自己的将来有规划了还是很高兴很满意很骄傲。这就是为人父母的回报吧