The following are some of the early signs of autism that appear by 12 months of age: • not babbling – babbling refers to the sounds that babies make before they begin to talk, such as vowel and consonant combinations like “ba”, “da”, and “gee”. Twelve month olds should look at someone while they babble, and take turns babbling with caregivers (like a back-and-forth babbling “conversation”). • not pointing – such as pointing to ask for things (pointing to the cookie bag up on the shelf) or pointing to get someone’s attention (pointing to an airplane flying by). • not showing objects to caregivers – 12-month olds hold up interesting objects and show them to their caregivers (as if to say “hey mom, look at this!”). It can be an early sign of autism if a child isn’t showing things to people. • lack of other gestures – besides pointing and showing, 12 month old children should also be reaching to be picked up, waving, and shaking their head (for “no”). • lack of shared enjoyment – shared enjoyment refers to a child’s desire to interact with others, just for the sake of connecting. If a child does not seek out this type of interaction, or rarely smiles or laughs when playing with a caregiver, this is a red flag for autism. • repetitive actions or movements - like spinning a car wheel over and over again, rather than playing with the toy appropriately. Another example would be a child flapping his hands repetitively. Some typically-developing babies do these types of repetitive actions once in a while, but babies with autism demonstrate these actions more often. • poor eye contact - not looking at caregivers when communicating or playing with them. • not following an adult’s pointed finger – not looking in the direction of a caregiver’s finger when he or she points to something. For example, a typical 12-month old will look when their mother points to a toy on the shelf. • paying more attention to objects than people - all children are fascinated with toys and interesting objects. But young children with autism will spend much more of their time with objects than people. • limited play with toys – a young child with autism may only engage with a small number of toys, or play with just a part of the toy (the wheels of the toy car) rather than the whole toy. • not copying actions or sounds - not imitating actions like clapping hands, banging on a drum, or people’s speech sounds. • not responding to his or her name when called – some parents of young children with autism initially wonder if their child is hearing properly, or think that their child is just ignoring them when they call his or her name. Children with delayed language should have a hearing test to rule out a hearing problem. But young children with autism don’t respond when their name is called even though their hearing is fine. This is due to difficulties with paying attention and understanding language. For toddlers between 18 – 24 months, the following is also a red flag for autism: • a loss of words, skills, or social connection - this type of regression doesn’t happen with all children with autism. But approximately 20% to 50% of parents of children with autism report that their child lost some of his or her skills during the second year, usually around 18 months of age.
1. 23个月，不说任何话，单字也不说，很久以前（半年前？） 还说妈妈，爸爸，爹，只是自己babble，不是冲着大人有意识的叫妈妈或爸爸。现在我们跟他说话，或者他想让我们看什么东西，只会发出“嗯，嗯”的声音。他喜欢听唐诗，给他读一句，他就“嗯”一声，让我们继续读，听到自己熟悉的或喜欢的，特别兴奋，不喜欢或没听过的没反应或者尖叫，让换一首。
2. 刚上托儿所一个月，老师说叫他的名字有反应，跟small group的小朋友玩，但是到了big group 就比较紧张，可能还在适应吧，之前一直在家待着。
3. 看着家里墙上的贴画，喜欢指着东西让我说是什么。让他找图上的东西，也能找到。但是想要什么东西只会尖叫。我让他指想要什么，没反应。出去看见飞机或者小动物会“嗯，嗯”告诉我，但是不会用手指。（***关于指东西，我想问下孩子不会说话前不会指东西是不是也正常？***）
4. 抱他的时候他不会搂着我，搞得我每次抱他都很累。只有在紧张害怕的时候紧紧抱着大人。
5. 眼神交流很好，逗他会笑。9个月会爬，11个月会走路，会自己吃饭，出去逛街吃饭都没问题。
6. 见了别的小朋友没反应，还喜欢抢别人的玩具。自己的玩具也从不分享。
7. 会玩躲猫猫，能找到自己玩具电脑上的数字，形状，颜色，动物。
8. 特别喜欢make tower, 经常摞好又推倒再摞。 最近又喜欢上玩buckles, 见buckle就要反复扣住。。
*****补充一下：
1. 我们已经在网上做过MCHAT，测试结果有risk，但主要问题在于指东西这一项。他看见感兴趣的东西会告诉我们，只是不用指的，只是“嗯，嗯”发声告诉我们。但是如果想喝水什么的，不会指水杯，只会着急的叫。
2. 认生和明显的分离焦虑。在家对妈妈的依恋最大，伤心的时候只要我。
########我也希望自己只是过度担心，但是总觉得看一下医生比较放心。哎，当妈的就爱操心。。。
会不会说话不是看自闭的先提条件。
joint attention 最重要。你指东西他会看,有反应。他看到有兴趣的也会让你知道，可以是指，或者用什么声音表示
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光这一条就不会是自闭吧？
在外面玩都会时不时回头确认我在，有认生和分离焦虑。对自己名字有反应。
这一点会的。比如让他看天上飞机，他会看。
我觉得MM家孩子只是害羞吧
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你问他，他能找到书上的东西，但不会指远处的东西，只会“嗯，嗯”告诉你，引起你注意
这是来bso先进娃的么
听着不像是
再copy 一个我以前保存的一个小小孩的autism 早期迹象吧：
The following are some of the early signs of autism that appear by 12 months of age: • not babbling – babbling refers to the sounds that babies make before they begin to talk, such as vowel and consonant combinations like “ba”, “da”, and “gee”. Twelve
month olds should look at someone while they babble, and take turns babbling with caregivers (like a back-and-forth babbling “conversation”). • not pointing – such as pointing to ask for things (pointing to the cookie bag up on the shelf) or pointing to get someone’s attention (pointing to an airplane flying by). • not showing objects to caregivers – 12-month olds hold up interesting objects and show them to their caregivers (as if to say “hey mom, look at this!”). It can be an early sign of autism if a child isn’t showing things to people. • lack of other gestures – besides pointing and showing, 12 month old children should also be reaching to be picked up, waving, and shaking their head (for “no”). • lack of shared enjoyment – shared enjoyment refers to a child’s desire to interact with others, just for the sake of connecting. If a child does not seek out this type of interaction, or rarely smiles or laughs when playing with a caregiver, this is a red flag for autism. • repetitive actions or movements - like spinning a car wheel over and over again, rather than playing with the toy appropriately. Another example would be a child flapping his hands repetitively. Some typically-developing babies do these types of repetitive actions once in a while, but babies with autism demonstrate these actions more often. • poor eye contact - not looking at caregivers when communicating or playing with them. • not following an adult’s pointed finger – not looking in the direction of a caregiver’s finger when he or she points to something. For example, a typical 12-month old will look when their mother points to a toy on the shelf. • paying more attention to objects than people - all children are fascinated with toys and interesting objects. But young children with autism will spend much more of their time with objects than people. • limited play with toys – a young child with autism may only engage with a small number of toys, or play with just a part of the toy (the wheels of the toy car) rather than the whole toy. • not copying actions or sounds - not imitating actions like clapping hands, banging on a drum, or people’s speech sounds. • not responding to his or her name when called – some parents of young children with autism initially wonder if their child is hearing properly, or think that their child is just ignoring them when they call his or her name. Children with delayed language should have a hearing test to rule out a hearing problem. But young children with autism don’t respond when their name is called even though their hearing is fine. This is due to difficulties with paying attention and understanding language.
For toddlers between 18 – 24 months, the following is also a red flag for autism: • a loss of words, skills, or social connection - this type of regression doesn’t happen with all children with autism. But approximately 20% to 50% of parents of children with autism report that their child lost some of his or her skills during the second year, usually around 18 months of age.
08904，多谢MM，你是指会说中文的BCBA吗？ 我现在想尽快诊断，但是没有头绪。准备下周让儿医推荐一下
哪一点听着先进呢？都快两岁了，很多基本的都不会，我只想要个正常的娃。。。
我家的都23个月，而且语言迟缓并不是自闭的表现，如果一开始说，后来又不说可能会是
多谢MM给我一点安慰，孩子最黏我，晚上只跟我睡。。。
那我家这个还不是语言发育倒退，还没发育呢。。。
我儿子是轻度的自闭症，3岁确诊的。我觉得你孩子的情况比我儿子当初好太多，和大人、其他孩子有很多的互动，应该不是自闭。
不过即使不是自闭，如果发现孩子有问题，还是需要尽早想办法去改善他的行为，这方面医院或者学区的特殊教育部也有提供相应早期干预服务的。
你多观察一下，在家多教一教，多playdate,慢慢就好了
自闭不是通过说话多少来判断，很多男娃开口晚。
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我家4岁说话，会叫人，就是不会说别的， 要东西会拉着爹妈指着要那东西， 会笑 ，跟哥哥打成一片
这个肯定是不对的。我家娃也是自闭娃，分得清楚着呢。而且在外头完也会时不时check妈妈在不在。我抱其它孩子，也还会嫉妒。
这个说法实在太误导了。