I don't think it is 分离焦虑 yet. You need a better routine, looks like his routine is broken. This young should be going to bed by 8pm.You have your dad with you, you have more options than most people. Hire a babysitter with grandpa home monitored should be fine....then send him to daycare next summer. My mom helped me with the first two months, my husband and I each took 3 months of family leave. Then my in-laws came a few days per month and we used vacation time, work from home in between then we sent him to daycare after.
My father-in-law was good taking care of my son, not perfect but very good but there is no way I would have him take care of a baby full time. My dad, I wouldn't trust him for more than one hour.
六个月大的娃整天要玩要人陪的,你爹这么带,小娃肯定很伤心。同意还不如送daycare
我公婆和父母都不爱带娃也不会带娃那种,真不知道怎么办啊,没有给力的父母真的感觉只能自己辞职在家啊!
My mom helped me with the first two months, my husband and I each took 3 months of family leave. Then my in-laws came a few days per month and we used vacation time, work from home in between then we sent him to daycare after.
My father-in-law was good taking care of my son, not perfect but very good but there is no way I would have him take care of a baby full time. My dad, I wouldn't trust him for more than one hour.
另外你爸爸这种带娃的类型的,你Jumperoo, exersaucer, 音乐桌,等各种玩的器具全都需要买好,这样孩子玩好了,才会好好睡觉, 否则他play time 和nap time 不分,很confused的。娃其实很聪明的,你只要给她定好SCHEDULE,他几天就会明白
PLAYARD 你买那种 graco 的四周网兜的那种,不要买金属或者朔料的猪圈, 因为6个月娃坐着会倒下来,这种的倒下来不会碰伤头,,而且有时候娃玩累了就直接趴着睡着了,又可以当床用。适合你的懒爸。
我不觉得我家娃之前有什么可怜的,他9~10点睡,4点钟醒一次喝夜奶,然后睡到早晨8点左右,我觉得很好啊。白天一般3个nap,每次大约一小时,也很好啊。我们大人的生活也不是每天的时间精确到分钟吧,我们每天的吃饭和睡觉时间也不是完全固定在几点几分的吧。我觉得娃这么小,想和妈妈玩玩就玩玩呗,干嘛非逼迫他睡觉。娃渴望妈妈的时候,妈妈却要求他去睡觉,这样的娃才真正的可怜吧。
娃这个时候不会渴望妈妈陪玩的,你这种感动是自己想象出来的,ta 渴望的是妈妈提供的舒适的感觉好入睡!
不是的,我有一次中途回家取东西,他看到我激动的不得了,手舞足蹈。我走时和他再见,他都要哭了。
我家人也说我陪玩时娃就乖的很,安安静静地玩,可以玩很久。无论我老公还是我爸陪玩,他就会很不高兴,哼哼叽叽,一会就不耐烦了。
玩具很多很多。。。但不知道为什么他对玩具都不感兴趣,一切需要安全带绑着的东西,比如swing,rocker,highchair,carseat,stroller,坐10分钟就不耐烦,大喊大叫挣扎着要出来。各种带音乐和亮光的玩具也不喜欢。反而他更喜欢玩不是玩具的东西,什么纸盘子,纸盒子,纸尿布,自己的衣服,奶瓶,玩的不亦乐乎,能玩一个小时。
送dc我的确不放心啊!而且觉得一个老师带好几个孩子,轮流喂奶换尿布也就没什么时间陪玩了。其他孩子哭闹还会互相影响睡觉。不觉得有多好啊!但我爸这样我也很心疼我宝宝。
送daycare你不放心,又不能自己带,就只能给你爸带阿,你爸带不好有啥办法,都是你自己选择的。
有jms好心提醒娃的睡眠routine如果改进一下可能会好转,你又不同意,不接受大家的建议。那娃的睡眠就继续倒退呗。
那你还有什么可问的?你要是觉得应该陪她到夜里12点才睡,那就陪啊。还有问题?孩子才半岁,睡那么差,精神能好的了才怪。
again,这里很多人都说了你哇routine不行,睡的太差,你不接受,那还问啥?dc你舍不得,那就找保姆啊,你要说保姆你也不放心,老人带的又心疼,那你就辞职,用你觉得对的方法去带孩子。这么小的孩子,你总强调什么多需要你陪,陪她是需要,但是对这么小的孩子没必要过渡解读情绪。吃的好,睡的好,心情自然也好的多,所以大家才告诉你routine是多么重要。你都不看育儿常识的吗?小baby的routine很重要,并不是你说的什么把娃可怜。