求推荐塑造小孩性格的书/建议

E
Easyyiyi
楼主 (北美华人网)
大家有读过比较好的帮助积极塑造小孩性格的书吗?男娃三岁,在daycare总是脱离集体、一个人玩。作为家长,很希望可以引导他更积极、更合群些。求推荐和各种生活建议!非常感谢!

ps,和天生性格也有关,我小时候就很内向,也走过很多很多弯路。直到高二和大三之间才真正养成一些有益于人际交往的性格。对于自己的孩子,真希望可以正确引导,让他少走一些弯路……谢谢!
S
SPYUYU
2 楼
同求  我家娃比你的大一岁
x
xiaochui
3 楼
大家有读过比较好的帮助积极塑造小孩性格的书吗?男娃三岁,在daycare总是脱离集体、一个人玩。作为家长,很希望可以引导他更积极、更合群些。求推荐和各种生活建议!非常感谢!

ps,和天生性格也有关,我小时候就很内向,也走过很多很多弯路。直到高二和大三之间才真正养成一些有益于人际交往的性格。对于自己的孩子,真希望可以正确引导,让他少走一些弯路……谢谢!
Easyyiyi 发表于 9/14/2016 12:31:03 PM
Sorry can't type chinese.  Just finished reading Quiet, a book about introverts.  Basically, people are different, and the first thing a parent can do is to understand and accept the child as he/she is.  It is natural that some people prefer to be alone and play on their own.   It might be helpful if you read the book, especially the related chapter.
Is your son happy by himself?  Or is he upset not being able to play with others?  That makes a difference.  If he is happy, you might want to encourage him to try playing with others every now and then, but let him decide which style he prefers.  If it was the later, then you need to help him figure out how to play along with others.  

One practical suggestion is to set up play dates with kids of similar age, especially kids from the daycare, preferably one-on-one, to help your son getting used to play with others and build up friendship with other kids.