请问版上有经验的妈妈,这种情况是真的不必要带礼物吗?

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octlin
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女儿preschool同学的4岁生日,在我们这儿的museum of fine arts办。 今天收到信说不要带礼物,请将钱捐给抗击儿童癌症的研究:

We are so excited you can attend Sofia's birthday on September ***!
Although all we would ever want--for real--is your presence, we know many of you might want to bring a birthday gift. Please resist! :) This year, we would like to ask that you consider donating to St. Jude's Children's Hospital instead of buying a gift for Sofia.
Many of us have loved ones or dear friends who have been affected by cancer, and it gives us hope to know that our contributions could help other families and kids who are going through this disease.
If you would like to make a small donation in lieu of a gift, please visit our fundraising page: http://birthdays.stjude.org/****
Thanks and we can't wait to see you soon

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我觉得这真是好棒的点子。不只是寿星,其它小朋友也会得到好棒的关于“大”的一场教育啊!

只是在这种情况下,真的就不必送礼物了吗?小朋友会不会还是希望收到礼物的?——其实我们礼物都买好了。。。
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namoweixiao
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不需要,如果你要送的话也可以,但是也要把钱捐到对方给你的链接上,我之前也是,对方父母也是说捐钱,一半给孩子指定要买礼物,一半捐出去,我们直接打了100块在他们链接上,生日party那天我们什么也不带的。
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dodorat
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非常棒的主意!
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sheepo
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不需要,如果你要送的话也可以,但是也要把钱捐到对方给你的链接上,我之前也是,对方父母也是说捐钱,一半给孩子指定要买礼物,一半捐出去,我们直接打了100块在他们链接上,生日party那天我们什么也不带的。
namoweixiao 发表于 9/12/2016 10:13:24 AM
是吗?接受过类似的邀请通知,就给了GC 说你可以捐给那个链接,人家很高兴得收了,还非常感谢送GC,我觉得意思是你给对方,然后对方瓒一起捐了的意思啊。自己自动捐,谁知道道啊?
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xiaoxiaowa
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有的时候收到不需要/不喜欢的礼物真的是很头疼,占地方还得花时间处理掉,问题是还欠一个心意,这样不是挺好的嘛