看到一篇对那个“医生未婚夫家暴”事件的比较全面的评论

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iloveleo
楼主 (北美华人网)
大意:就是跟这位苦主通过电话,看了大量的法庭文件,最后的结论是:这位所谓苦主是明显有过错的,她罔顾俄大多次的提醒,执意进入俄大以至于最后被刑控。她放弃了不被刑事起诉的机会(条件是离开Athen这个城市),她放弃了“免费律师”的机会但是现在却筹款要聘请“私人律师”!她继续浪费纳税人的钱在(乱打官司,上诉)。该苦主不相信任何人,听不进不同意见,只要别人不同意她已经就容易激怒进而挂电话。

https://www.gofundme.com/244hswc

As outsiders of this story (we know neither Yunpeng Wu, nor Li Ouyang, we had no relationship with anyone in OU), we at first felt sympathetic for Ms. Ouyang's situation, and thought of offering her help. However, after reading all available court filed documents, and also had direct conversation with Ms. Ouyang, we changed our mind based on the followings:
1) Ms. Ouyang had actually received a few reminders, warnings from different staff, faculty, police of Ohio university (OU) that she needs to leave the building but she failed to respect OU property over which she did not have privilege. That is, she did not respect laws in USA. No matter whatever arguments she insisted, the permissions she got from two faculty pre-dated the last notice sent by dean of engineering . She obviously ignored all reminders and did not respect others; We did not see any injustice in this case;

2) When being offered a dismissal for the criminal charges upon accepting the conditions of leaving the city, the place being charged for criminal trespassing, Ms. Ouyang obviously gave up this friendly chance;

3) Ms. Ouyang waived her rights to FREE counsel offered by public defender, but chose to represent herself (pro se) at trial; She was able to present herself at trial, and already waived rights to attorneys, then why asked for donations for private attorneys now?

4)Ms. Ouyang broke the laws in US, and continued to waste tax payers' money for unnecessary legal proceedings, appeals, etc,

5) Ms. Ouyang tried to avoid our questions and became irritated when we disagreed with her speculated conclusions. She trusted nobody but only herself, she refused to different opinions, she was not able to understand a simple question (or simply wanted to avoid questions she dislikes - we wanted to offer help but was treated by ending up with hanging up phones. ..
半杯红酒
2 楼
从这个女人身上真真切切地感受到:性格决定命运。父母出身智商都不错,可也架不住自己往死里作啊。
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hotpizza
3 楼
不知道她要把自己给作到什么地步才罢休。她家人对她很好啊,可是由着她这么折腾。为什么不让她回去呢
半杯红酒
4 楼
不知道她要把自己给作到什么地步才罢休。她家人对她很好啊,可是由着她这么折腾。为什么不让她回去呢
hotpizza 发表于 9/5/2016 6:23:26 PM


家人怎么可能没劝呢,你以为就她那性格会听吗?她只选择她自己想听的听。
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trayanh
5 楼
她要不继续作继续appeal,现在就得卷铺盖离境了吧?不过她这个样子,打算作到多久呢?感觉她自己把自己都逼得没退路了