If coming out from his personal account, then he doesn't need to notify me. Any regular purchases from the joint accounts, he doesn't need to notify me. 90% of the major purchases from the joint accounts are done by me.
买大件和对方讨论一是尊重,二是帮着选啊,两人都喜欢才买,要不然天天看着不喜欢的东西多难受。而且,两个人一起做的决定,即使doesn't work out也不会出现”我就说不好吧“的问题。重大问题达成共识还是很重要的。小的地方,比如人家就爱咖啡,买个喜欢的咖啡机啥的,可能很贵,事后知会一下就行,没必要啥事都批准。所以和钱的数目相关,但不是以钱来衡量的。忘了说了,我家买东西都是我,LG是很怕去商店的人,结婚戒指都恨不得网上订购,即使专卖店搭个地铁就到的主。其实买东西真是体力活,还特花时间。
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一千左右吧,反正我买包的话一般不需要提前说,不过一般我也很少有机会需要花大钱,我比较小气,我们家贵的东西都是bf买的