update:多谢各位mm回复。难得遇到一个背景类似还颜值高的,还是觉得有点遗憾。 这人的消息,我感觉后面说黄石的阴阳怪气的?不打算回复了。 Last time I was in MTV before this was like 1 year ago :) so maybe somewhere 2017? ;) sounds awesome enjoy Yellowstone! Careful with Grizzly bears, and also I heard its about to explode or something and cover the US in several feet of ash. So good luck with that
在coffee meets bagel 上遇到一人,学历背景很相似,聊了几句天,我就夸了他you are amazing。(之前跟别人聊天都没有用过这么热情的语气,经常就聊着就没下文了,所以想自己是不是应该表现的热情的一点)。然后他问我会不会经常去sf city (因为我在south bay)。我说不经常,traffic太麻烦。 然后他回复: if you make it up sometime i'd be happy to meet up. But in that case I'd really hope we don't get along too well because South Bay is far :) 以上是他原话。
To be honest, it is far from SF to south bay, especially traffic is very bad. But obviously, he is not very into you, otherwise, he would not be complaining.
if you ever make it up sometime... 哎哟我去,你叫他去死。丫自我感觉太好了 明摆着对你没啥意思。你还琢磨啥呢直接拉黑,多说一句都恶心自己。至于amazing,你想多了,说不定你说完 人家都没注意到这个字了。更不会因为你说他amazing, 他就装逼起来了。没事别脑补。累。弯曲那么多嗷嗷待撩的gg呢!move on to the next!
if you ever make it up sometime... 哎哟我去,你叫他去死。丫自我感觉太好了 明摆着对你没啥意思。你还琢磨啥呢直接拉黑,多说一句都恶心自己。至于amazing,你想多了,说不定你说完 人家都没注意到这个字了。更不会因为你说他amazing, 他就装逼起来了。没事别脑补。累。弯曲那么多嗷嗷待撩的gg呢!move on to the next!
Guys in SF have a lot of options. There are a lot of Asian girls there, to be honest, with of course varied qualities. I would pass unless 1) he invited you to the city, or 2) was figuring out a meeting point in the middle with you. If he does make efforts to south bay, that means you are on his top list. Apparently, you are currently ranked "可有可无" ;)
这人的消息,我感觉后面说黄石的阴阳怪气的?不打算回复了。
Last time I was in MTV before this was like 1 year ago :) so maybe somewhere 2017? ;) sounds awesome enjoy Yellowstone! Careful with Grizzly bears, and also I heard its about to explode or something and cover the US in several feet of ash. So good luck with that
在coffee meets bagel 上遇到一人,学历背景很相似,聊了几句天,我就夸了他you are amazing。(之前跟别人聊天都没有用过这么热情的语气,经常就聊着就没下文了,所以想自己是不是应该表现的热情的一点)。然后他问我会不会经常去sf city (因为我在south bay)。我说不经常,traffic太麻烦。
然后他回复:
if you make it up sometime i'd be happy to meet up. But in that case I'd really hope we don't get along too well because South Bay is far :)
以上是他原话。
我看了心里不爽,
1. 我不会上赶着去见你,哪怕我觉得你不错。
2. 南湾和三番的距离都算远?
另外我自己也在想,
1. 是不是一上来面都没见,就夸amazing,让人觉得我脑袋秀逗又cheap?以后还是温和一点的好?
2. 一开始还是聊背景啊什么的挺正常的,就是我夸了amazing之后,他就变成这种语气了。这是player吗?
自己心里不爽的这两点,该怎么向他表达一下?我想过是不是就不回复算了看他会不会再找我聊,但是一方面自己确实想继续练习,一方面又觉得心理不爽还是得表达出来,也以免让他误以为我对谁都这么热情cheap。
求指点~
跟amazing没关系,就好比非常勿扰朋友采访轮灭灯特别多,节目组和观众之前以为是那些男生的朋友采访太坑,后来才知道女嘉宾就是等着灭灯,刚好朋友采访是最后一轮,所以显得好像那些男嘉宾是被朋友坑了,其实不然。你就算没说amazing, 还是会这个结局。别想太多,那些需要你去猜去不安的,本来就不是对的人。祝福!
不过amazin有点吓人,谁这么夸我我肯定吓到
you are amazing稍微有点热情但也要看上下文,有的人吃这套,如果是他的某个小特长被这样夸奖可能还会觉得你咋这么有眼光呢
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也算回个banter给他
但再就不会理了,除非他有诚意的在我附近约我。这男的有点自私的感觉
这个回复不错~
我感觉女人的第六感都不错。 如果你觉得看他回信不爽, then something is wrong...
继续找下一个~
move on吧……
说个amazing怎么了,现在的人怎么那么容易吓,这个词普通聊天也经常会说到阿。绝对不是这个原因
小麦mm来回复了 非常感谢!
I would pass unless 1) he invited you to the city, or 2) was figuring out a meeting point in the middle with you.
If he does make efforts to south bay, that means you are on his top list. Apparently, you are currently ranked "可有可无" ;)